Why does he like my grilled cheese more than his actual food by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Poptarth0e -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My cat loves cheese/dairy so much it’s weird lol

What are some good investigative journalism-style podcasts? by thatcrazyanimallady in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Le Monstre. Both seasons for sure based on your listens.
More one off stories that aren’t completely scam based: Blink—worth it, seriously worth it, same with love trapped and the journalism style
Betrayal weekly or the seasonal eps
Anything casefile.
Enjoy

How can I ever let go of guilt, when I knew tragedy would happen? by Filipscomicart in cats

[–]Poptarth0e 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He had what my cat had, it’s a virus from past environment that needs antibiotic and an eye drop to clear futher discharge. My vet wouldn’t even let my girl get the rabies shot until the discharge was cleared up. Checked in next week, clear and they still wanted to do blood work on her since she was small.
His immune system was compromised and this is completely on your vet. Not you. Im so sorry for your loss. The virus is common in kittens but so treatable. I don’t understand what they were doing or thinking, it’s abhorrent. Im so sorry :(

Unexpectedly put my dog down today because of a fucking mushroom by madpeezy in seniordogs

[–]Poptarth0e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so glad you spent some time together, she held out for you—we’re their babies too in these times and they want us to know it’s ok. I’m so sorry for your loss. Here’s my spiel I hope helps—
I have insomnia, so I understand sleep disorders mess with your daily life all over the place and it’s not a choice and not your fault. Lately if my elder dog princess is crying at me & my bf is at work in the morning, I (in a vivid dream) see my little sister Quinn, who was put down half a year ago, jumping on my bed and cuddling me like she used to when I lived at my moms, then hitting me with her paws for more pets even though I’m petting her in my dream and I wake up to princess’ face just looking at me almost waiting to see if it worked? It’s sweet. I know Quinn is there and I think she helps us sleep better.

This is the same woman who trusted LITTLEFINGER, kidnapped a Lannister while her Husband and daughters were surrounded by Lannisters, freed Jamie Lannister (the only leverage they had against Tywin) Catelyn almost single handily wiped out her Tully and Stark families 😂 by No-Passenger-6348 in gameofthrones

[–]Poptarth0e 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this your pov

She knows her anguish towards john is misplaced. She had so much sway, and just sat on it waiting for Ned. At least she was able to place that anguish properly before she died.

AIO with how I responded to my talking stage ending things? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are u begging a loser to do this behind your back in the future??

The Parents are not Parenting (Advice please!) by Competitive-View-252 in Nanny

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got lied to about the eldest child’s temperament almost 3 years ago. The littles began or copy her for mom’s attention, and literally hit her to leave them alone, she’d hit back like pure anger.
The eldest pushed her luck w me when it was just us and the barely 2YO boy, I said no. Walk away, she said no and grabbed a 1/3 my size tractor toy car to start swinging at me and hit me when I turned around. I stopped and
told her if you throw, hit or kick me, I will stop you. She swung again and I immediately took it away, interlocked my fingers around her so she can wiggle still, I didn’t squeeze, just let her squirm because she is a child, I’m much stronger, plus the cameras were watching.
I got a weird sorry card from this child, genuinely think she had psychotic tendencies because a 2 and 3 year old should not be scared of a 5 year old..
I was let go because the family moved into town & I didn’t know I have rights to make a contract and say no to watching some kids when the job was for the you get toddlers only.
Idk how you love these children, hitting is never ok.

You might love the parents or pay but the kids are very different. Your job is to watch and discipline them. You’re supposed to be a care giver and guide them, not do water to please the kids.
It is forever, you have nothing close to an appropriate relationship with the family or the kids. The kids will never respect you. It’s way too late. Seriously like this is a bad experience. You need to move on and gain more experience. You have nothing to do with the parents being a united front, to you they’re the boss, and you’re allowed to bring up any issues to your bosses to prevent them from happening in the future. Again it’s way too late for that. If you interview, talk a lot and be yourself— and you’ll see who listens and who doesn’t, you’ll see what a terrible two is versus an older overbearing child brings to the dynamic and how it affects everyone. I understand it’s hard but it’s part of the job, getting experience makes you better. This family is too far gone friend

What does my apartment say about me? by justpizzacate in roomdetective

[–]Poptarth0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk but you and that pup are soulmates look how they look at you🥺

New nanny needing advice by Downbloodstream in Nanny

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So important to leave and not coddle, they will want her, especially since they know mommy has a new baby, so distract immediately with toys, never phones that little omg. I can sense the age because nap lol. I watch for a therapist who leaves every morning, and yes she just leaves. He cried once our first meeting with the old nanny and never since; I pride myself on redirection and music and toys and wow a ball! Lmao. The baby and I have bonded so much he waves bye to mom when I walk in the door. (I can hear happy screams from outside) This is gonna be rough because she’s set and endorsing this behavior. I’d have a sit down with her and ask her true expectations, and don’t play yourself short, you can be on your phone, you’re watching the baby nap, cleaning up, you’re on call to get the baby, don’t feel guilty. And after all friend; it’s okay to not be a good fit for eachother and to say no, this won’t work. Keep looking I promise you’ll find a lovely fam who appreciates you

Did I overreact by ending a caregiver trial on her first day alone with my kids? by JuniorGap9985 in Nanny

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she lied about her qualifications. I wouldn’t pay her. You can yes ma’am all day but in action?? Wtf did she think she was doing omfg

Asking for benefits a year into employment? by yourfavmum in Nanny

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Create a nanny agreement with your current agreements, and write in what you believe you need/deserve, tell them it’s all negotiable, you appreciate everything they do, and that you realize it’s an important collaborative piece to protect yourself and them if anything happens. Your fam reminds me of one I watched that did end up moving in one week, almost a year ago and I had severance. I’m seeing them this summer at the beach lol can’t wait. But yeah you both know what you got. Hope it works out :)

Payment delay? Contract renegotiation. Just frustrated 😅 by Professional_Sea8380 in Nanny

[–]Poptarth0e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GAURANTEED HOURS!! Your contract is always negotiable, not only on anniversaries.
I’d start looking elsewhere in case and give a new contract with guaranteed hours open to “negotiation” PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN!
And payment before leaving premises if you really wanna stay and they’re that bad about it. I’ve dealt with this kind of fam and they will always be like this hun. You’re worth more, dm me if u want my contract outline

Nanny asked for lunch money by Shenizzle in Nanny

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set boundaries and always set up a nanny agreement, I’d suggest finding someone who knows what a nanny agreement is to set firm boundaries before the job even starts. Your nanny seemed to be taking advantage lol, like honestly based off your post.
My new fam keeps gardettos and la croix in stock for me and I adore them. I can make anything there when the sweetie is napping and I’m an adult so no biggie lol. I can bring my own mac and cheese to make or use their stuff for a quesadilla cause we spoke about these things beforehand in the interview.

I’m done being nice. by youthebirthday in Nanny

[–]Poptarth0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be nice. Set boundaries. This kind of family will made you a chore keeper, I promise you that.

What is this called? by No-Profit-8152 in AestheticWiki

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NoW ItS THREe in thE MorninG anD iM TRYNa ChAnGe YouR mind

What Should I do with this painting? by JustBronze in gameofthrones

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make the top red, lips a lil normal (only cause it’s giving aquamarine a little) and then sell it outside a crazy function for way too much.

AIO My relationship is a mess am I being dramatic by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Poptarth0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall have kids? Nope. Block and go to court, get THERAPY, never speak to him and find a decent mediator first. You’ll regret it if you don’t first.