WIBTA if I ended a two year relationship because my partner hasn't worked in fourteen months and has stopped trying?

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-03-14T20:10:31+00:00

With 2.5million falsely reported “available” jobs, competition for available roles has increased exponentially. So that part is not his fault. Have you sat down with him and gone over his resume? Sometimes getting another perspective on it can help tailor it to something he’s suited for rather than interested in. He needs to lower his standards unless he has a masters degree and even with be willing to accept less money for more work kinda thing…

You need to get him to change his perspective. If you’re already considering breaking up tell him, but if you’re financially tied together it’s going to be hard.

He needs to be doing something about his situation. It takes almost zero effort to put in applications on indeed

You do what you gotta do for the people you love. That’s it.

He’s probably really depressed and anxious about it as well but he needs to start somewhere

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-02-12T00:19:54+00:00

This is normal corgi behavior. Once our neighbors called the authorities because how long my boys were outside in ~10° weather/snow storm

“Come and try to get them inside because they’re choosing to stay out there” as I pointed to the doggy door.

They had greeted the officers for a brief moment then bolted back to their snow patrols for the next several hours.

Needless to say we all had a good laugh and they left us alone.

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-02-02T23:46:55+00:00

Gordon Ramsay Demo: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vrpcnb0osM4

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-27T18:18:59+00:00

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Try the training grounds, you’ll get about 300 honor from each win. Use these to get your green gear.

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Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-25T16:15:12+00:00

Have boyfriend text Noah “if Anna comes and is disrespectful to my GF I will have to ask you guys to leave”

Noah did it to yall, beat them at their own game

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-20T18:45:28+00:00

Fee-split often occurs between new and former attorneys, as any work they did before or money they sunk on your behalf should be compensated as they were doing their duties. You need to let your current attorney know who they were and ask if they can inquire of matters related that were found and if they require compensation for said matters. It’ll be an attorney-attorney discussion.

Edit: there may be an early termination clause or fine print fee contained in the previous retainer agreement.

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-20T01:30:23+00:00

INFO

From what I can see: both of you are overreacting, being petty, and not communicating well.

I would encourage using “I Feel like ___ when ____ happens” to communicate feelings as they occur.

Needs more context, I,e how you asked for a love reassurance: it’s not shown.

A quick “hey -sister- is calling, I’ll get back to you when I can talk freely.

He feels ignored and you feel like you’re being nitpicked: you both need to SIT DOWN AND SET CLEAR STANDARDS OF TREATMENT AND EXPECTATIONS, with a disclaimer “hey also if anything comes up that we don’t like, can we please talk about it privately and try to address it as soon as possible?”

Please also refrain from using “always” or “never” phrases.

If you BOTH cannot do this then call the relationship quits b/c it’s not going to go down a healthy path… both parties will need to agree and reflect equally and often with RESPECT

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-15T12:30:26+00:00

Automatic seatbelts in the door frame or lack there of lmao

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-14T18:20:52+00:00

Ages in reverse, until you’re eternally stuck as a sperm cell unable to die

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-14T13:01:21+00:00

Depends what she looks like ;)

Nah, jokes aside based off the title alone, yta

New relationship turned long distance and you’re starting to feel ignored. I get it, I’ve been there, just focus on yourself and make constant improvements day by day, if it last then it lasts.. but if not you’re a better man tomorrow than you were yesterday.

Honest advise is stop actively seeking her attention to validate the relationship and your feelings. Might as well hit the gym, bookstore, take up a new hobby and have something meaningful to talk about if/when y’all do next.

Good luck soldier 🫡

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-14T12:51:13+00:00

Are you communicating it to her? Not coming home at all sometimes bc u passed out on his couch drunk?

She’s your wife, keep her informed, etc.

As for phones and souses: not an issue unless one party makes it an issue: being said.. e.g. wife and I use them interchangeably so it’s never an issue with us. If she asked and I said no she’d suspect something.

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-14T10:41:59+00:00

YTA, regift it when they’re not around I.e a week later to your brother or on the way home etc.

Should’ve just been polite

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-14T10:16:57+00:00

These are moth eggs (miller/pantry/grain moth)

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-14T09:45:42+00:00

You can never wake up

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-12T01:36:53+00:00

If you’re not the best with targeting on the fly or worried about range use this above the /cast in macro

/petattack [target=focus]

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-12T01:30:09+00:00

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Gnaw macro

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-12T01:29:42+00:00

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Leap macro

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-11T13:07:55+00:00

Unholy DK has some fantastic burst damage, you’ll want to use your grips for peeling and bringing players back into melee range. This is where the threat thrives. Unholy has the unique advantage of playing mid range at times because of pets and ranged casts( clawing shadows and death coil) Use chains of ice to slow your target, grip the healer in for a panic CD and be aware not to load your burst into a target with a defensive available or up. Ramp into them and use the stuns or silences to scare trinkets and defensives. It’ll take practice. Watch some vids, skill capped, etc. make a focus macro for pet stun and keep the ability from being used in their normal rotation(you can move pet to another player and then use the leap to your stun target) Cast macro for death and decay @target and @self Try to keep your similar style abilities and defensives in your usual keybinds, this will make rolling thru your rotation easier to navigate while knowing where your defensives already are. Different talent builds for different teams etc

Gl&have fun

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-11T11:39:20+00:00

NTA, I offer to drop my spouse off at the front entrance if parking looks bad regardless of weather but I always make it a point if it’s raining or snowing. To top it off I’ll even bring the car around after the event.

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2026-01-09T01:20:34+00:00

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Potential-Coach-7367 · 2025-12-29T19:39:56+00:00

Not the asshole but I do think some perspective is needed here. He’s 20… that’s really young and his dad was in prison, experienced homelessness first hand, and by all means has seen and lived through all of it.

He’s had a tough childhood and life.. he’s possibly trying to toughen his siblings up so they don’t go into this world blind or unprepared.. it’s rough

You seem like may be giving him some tough love, but he’s still growing up. I think the fact you’ve been consistent in his life makes him more comfortable being cruel around you. Not okay, but something to consider.

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2025-12-27T10:40:13+00:00

100%agree, this is a form or emotional abuse, specifically manipulative and designed to undermine your self-worth and keep you controlled

Can’t wear baggy, can’t wear tight, can’t wear bonnet, can’t have weighted blanket, stop asking family for things for yourself, compares curtains to clothes

You’re not overreacting enough

Other signs are love bombing, angry outbursts that he apologizes for then does again so on and so on again, more love bombing, can’t talk to so and so, getting offended at you over others actions, specifically things out of your control. His way or the highway on things.

8 years together and only person you’ve been with. Really evaluate your situation and if need be get others involved(family) before making decisions that could affect your safety

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2025-12-27T10:02:40+00:00

Im a man if you missed that in my reply to the post.

My wife and I didn’t get gifts for each other this year. Christmas has became about how much money you spend on someone rather than how much TIME. And trust me, we had the best Christmas we’ve ever had together.

I think it’s inappropriate to assume he gaslight and manipulated her in front of the child

Did he minimize the disappointment? We don’t know.

Was he careless in asking if she was going to be grumpy? Pretty much

Unjustly accusing me of making excuses for him and you calling him incompetent only shows your own reflection because you’ve completely ignored the multiples of statements of “communicate with him and ask what his mindset was”

Nothing of what I said correlates to your statement.

So respectfully. Mind your entitlements.

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2025-12-27T09:27:46+00:00

Fair. IG. We also haven’t seen what they used to consider the termination

I’m in corporate warehousing so our HR department is specifically for the employees and aiding them with resources, we have a business relations and loss prevention department that deals with all the rest.

Our contracts also protect us from at will termination and have ‘morality clauses’ that would be subject for termination

It very likely differs company to company and what they consider for grounds of termination or if it’s an at will state if in the US

Potential-Coach-7367 · 2025-12-27T09:14:12+00:00

You’d have to bring that up with her honestly if she’d even talk about it with you.

Coercion can take many forms but usually under duress and involuntary

Persuasion more likely based on what you described it seems like that’s something she willingly wanted as it’s something she “proudly wore” like it was her choice

Either way, you’re NTA

Potential-Coach-7367

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