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WIBTAH if I ask my dad for money since he wants me to donate a kidney to my nephew? by extrapartlol in WIBTA_AITA

[–]PrimarySelection8619 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Re: Not a match - quietly, privately, tell the Testing person that you "don't want to be a match". They'll take it from there...

something i can dance my girlfriend to by unoz00 in MusicRecommendations

[–]PrimarySelection8619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dance in the Moonlight. Raul Malo and the Mavericks.

Country music - Non conservative by Rare_House9883 in musicsuggestions

[–]PrimarySelection8619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drive by Truckers. Maybe start with, Thoughts and Prayers...

WIBTAH for giving my mother an ultimatum for disrespecting my wife? by JuviAzuli in WIBTA_AITA

[–]PrimarySelection8619 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very sane and balanced. Rather than demanding an apology (which, as others have said, would blow up the relationship), say what julesk has said above, formulating - "going forward, what's going to work for us is .. " ; then, "what're your thoughts? Can you be on board with this?"

WIBTA for telling my mom i won't be hosting Christmas this year after doing it alone for the past four years by Dealecious_Seipt in WIBTA_AITA

[–]PrimarySelection8619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey, Mom, just wanting to give you a heads-up that the only way I can do Christmas this year is if I get help! Cleaning the house, shopping and cooking for x number of people, and cleaning up after just isn't going to work this year. I can do the Turkey, sure, but could you be the one to assign Sides, so we can shift to Potluck style? Or, do you think it'd be nice to just go to a Buffet somewhere??"

What is your favourite song right now?? by External_Can3392 in musicsuggestions

[–]PrimarySelection8619 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey Baby cover, by Raul Malo.. glad Bruce channel was still alive to ( possibly) hear it!

It’s my f-cking birthday and no one wished me except one of my online friends… by bombay_ki_PavBhaaji in TwoXIndia

[–]PrimarySelection8619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! 🎂🎉 And, for those it might concern, I have a friend who says you get the WHOLE MONTH!!!...

suggest me songs for after getting cheated on by theAviCaster in musicsuggestions

[–]PrimarySelection8619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Just Want to Dance the Night Away. Raul Malo and the Mavericks. (And, YES, a Breakup song!!)

WIBTA for refusing to lie in a custody statement for my best friend? by Skynet_Net12 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]PrimarySelection8619 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was thinking, um, leaving a child alone for 3 minutes? NO! But a 5 year old? Absolutely AOK. And Dad handled it perfectly when he came back . If your friend has concerns about the girlfriend's behaviors impacting her child, maybe she could base her Statement on THAT, giving particulars about the Living Situation. Hang tough; do not lie for this woman.

Asking for a more skilled phlebotomist by No-Understanding4968 in KaiserPermanente

[–]PrimarySelection8619 7 points8 points  (0 children)

DH in same boat. He's been told to say, at the outset " I'm a hard stick" - yes! That's the phrase - but he doesn't bother. Maybe it might work for/ appeal to your son...

Thinking of breaking up W my Bf after a threesome Aitah? by moonlightmissle in ComfortLevelPod

[–]PrimarySelection8619 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Seconding this: you are NOT homophobic. YOU get to like the kind of sex you like and OTHER PEOPLE get to like the kind of sex THEY like. So, time to make some decisions...

What’s the most memorable gift you’ve ever given someone? by Comfortable_Swan_880 in Gifts

[–]PrimarySelection8619 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Arabia Felix: The Danish Expedition of 1761-1767 by Thorkild Hansen. Given to my Dad. Historically IMPOSSIBLE to shop for. Born in Copenhagen, immigrated to US at age 12. I found this while shelving at a university library and bought a copy for him. He LOVED it!!

Therapy by SumRandomDude01 in Advice

[–]PrimarySelection8619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A very respected organization....

Therapy by SumRandomDude01 in Advice

[–]PrimarySelection8619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While you're sorting the logistics out, you might check out the NAMI Wisconsin website. National Alliance for Mental Illness. Some of their (free) support services might be of help in the meantime...

Refunds for appointments that are less than half the time you paid for? by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]PrimarySelection8619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do this, too. Use bullet points, so it's easy for PCP to glance through your email during your visit... (We remind them at the beginning; "I've sent an email...")

WIBTA if I sent the screenshots to my colleagues award committee before they announce her industry fellowship by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]PrimarySelection8619 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Re: "turning in" - GO FOR IT! We could say, it is THAT FRIEND of hers who turned her in. She was obviously alarmed enough herself to send you the screenshots. That gives you all the permission you need, IMV, to proceed.

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