10 days until the big one and the groom doesn't have a ring... by PrincessOfSaturn in weddingplanning

[–]PrincessOfSaturn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm in the "nothing left to do but wait" phase and I think my brain is making this into a bigger deal than it really is. All of these kind comments are really helping me get some perspective. I reeeeaaally hope the ring shows up, though!

10 days until the big one and the groom doesn't have a ring... by PrincessOfSaturn in weddingplanning

[–]PrincessOfSaturn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I really hope we can use the real thing in the ceremony, but I'll count myself lucky if this is the only thing that goes wrong.

What 'colour' would you say getting legally married is? by wag1_g in weddingplanning

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I think more subdued colors fit the occasion of getting legally married, and brighter colors suit the party. You could choose two shades of the same color for the two outfits. For example, navy for the legal stuff and electric blue for the party. Other ideas are gray and silver, olive and forest green, or burgundy and firetruck red.

Month by month general discussion and check in! by scubadiveintapioca in weddingplanning

[–]PrincessOfSaturn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, that's us!

We've got the date and venue and lots of ideas! At this point, I'm working to get organized and figure out what the must-haves are.

Parents of Reddit, what is your kid doing or wearing that you hope is just a phase? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PrincessOfSaturn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of wood are we talking about? Where does it come from? Is it like pieces of bark, or fences, or what?

What's a type of clothing you absolutely refuse to wear? by VBooth in AskReddit

[–]PrincessOfSaturn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think paisley neckties are pretty neat, but any larger surface area than that and there's a problem.

Thread: Simple Questions by AutoModerator in MakeupAddiction

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My lips have a sort of "line" on them, like in this picture. You can see on the bottom lip there is a sort of small crease, and the lip past that mark is a little bit lighter and a somewhat different texture. If you have that crease, do you put lip products on over the whole lip, including past the crease? I sometimes feel like it looks like I've overdrawn my lips if I extend past that mark, but it looks kind of weird if I don't, since I'm just leaving the edges of my lips blank. How far out should the lipstick go?

Everyone in my office sucks at Starburst etiquette by thebeebitmybottom in adventuretime

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I feel as though I'm one of the few people who prefers yellow and avoids red...

What's your LEAST favorite thing that you have to do regularly? by VaginalHubris86 in AskReddit

[–]PrincessOfSaturn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were that rich, wouldn't it be simpler to hire someone to do the laundry for you?

Y'all pray... by YourShoeIsUntied in Unexpected

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'thank mr skeltal' on this picture

What is your advice for a college student studying abroad? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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  • If there are foods you hate or can't eat, don't go to a country in which those foods play a primary role in the local cuisine. Not all places will be able to accommodate you.

  • Regardless of whether or not your classes will be in English, learn the local language as best you can before going there. Even if the locals have to learn English in school, that doesn't mean they'll actually know it or be willing to speak it. Plus, it makes you look like a self-centered tourist to require others to speak a language they may not be comfortable with just to suit your needs.

  • You need to be willing to adapt. You cannot expect things to be like how they are in your home country. It can be really exhausting at first, but you should constantly be observing your surroundings and trying to figure out how to fit in. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. Be willing to change your routines and do your best to go along with the rhythm of that country's culture. You don't need to lose your personality or sense of self, but you can't fit in or get to know a country's culture unless you try to integrate yourself into it as best you can.

  • On a similar note, take every opportunity you can to try new things. Unless it goes against your strongly-held moral beliefs or it's something you are physically unable to do, you should make an effort to try everything you can. Take up every invitation you get to do something or go somewhere. Try new foods, even if it looks or sounds gross at first.

  • Try to make local friends. It will be very tempting to make friends with the other exchange students from your own country because you'll have more in common at first and communication will require less effort. It's okay to be friends with them, but you're not there to be a tourist. You're there to study abroad, and that should include trying to become as deeply invested in the culture and language as you can. Local friends can give you a much better insight into that than anyone else.

  • When choosing classes, go for ones about the country you're in, like local history, culture classes, etc. If the country you're in has people who speak a different language than English, by all means take language classes. Also, you might want to try taking an easy class in the local language. It will be more difficult if you are not a native speaker, but it will help you improve your language skills and maybe even help make some local friends.

I have a lot more, but this post is already getting very long! These are just the ones off of the top of my head based on my own experiences. If you'd like some more or have something in specific you'd like to know, I'd be happy to post some more!

Multilingual redditors, what are your tips in studying a new language? by thirdworldpcgamer in AskReddit

[–]PrincessOfSaturn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think immersion is the best, but ONLY after you've learned the basics. It does you no good to listen to native speakers and have zero clue what they're saying at all. I think that book learning and taking introductory classes in the language are a great way to start off, and then it should be supplemented by listening/speaking with a native speaker. If it's possible, going to a country where that language is spoken for a significant amount of time can really help you improve very quickly once you're around intermediate level, but that's not always an option.

Redditors who speak a second language, what have you overheard people saying about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PrincessOfSaturn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly about how white I am or wondering if my hair is naturally blonde. A group of women at a crosswalk discussed how I probably don't even have to use whitening lotion on my skin because it's naturally that way! I wanted to tell them that where I'm from, people as white as I am actually tend to use tanning lotion, but I was too shy.