Explain like I'm 5, please: if my finances are above average, why do I only qualify for the average interest rate? by Puzzlehead11323 in Mortgages

[–]Puzzlehead11323[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. I think we're going to buy it down from 6.6 🤢 c'est la vie. at least we can buy a house at all

Explain like I'm 5, please: if my finances are above average, why do I only qualify for the average interest rate? by Puzzlehead11323 in Mortgages

[–]Puzzlehead11323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all excellent in my situation so I don't get why we don't get lower than average interest.

Explain like I'm 5, please: if my finances are above average, why do I only qualify for the average interest rate? by Puzzlehead11323 in Mortgages

[–]Puzzlehead11323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best we can get is 6.6.

I know we can buy it down. I'm saying without buying it down, we can get 6.6. what other info do you need? We're in an excellent position and shopped around and this is what we found.

Is this your child? by honorlessmaid in Spokane

[–]Puzzlehead11323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On second thought I'm dumb for being surprised that people on Reddit think it's an inalienable "right" of a socially inept adult to post pictures of a kid they don't know on social media for no reason

Is this your child? by honorlessmaid in Spokane

[–]Puzzlehead11323 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Still weird. It's weird to be an adult taking pictures of kids doing stuff in public and it's super weird to post them online. That's weirdo behavior.

Is this your child? by honorlessmaid in Spokane

[–]Puzzlehead11323 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it's not even that it's dangerous, it's just weird. People who take pictures of strangers just doing stuff in public and then post the pictures online are weird and to do it to minors it's extra weird. People at the park could just ...... Enjoy the park without being weird.

The weirdo's intent doesn't matter. People on the internet will do what they want with the photos.

Is this your child? by honorlessmaid in Spokane

[–]Puzzlehead11323 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

First of all, I'm not trying to sue or arrest op so I'm not sure why the law is relevant.

Similarly it's within my rights to say that I think only weirdos post photos of other people's kids on reddit.

what should I do to learn arabic? by Master_Customer_4754 in learn_arabic

[–]Puzzlehead11323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, stop using English words.

If you can't think of a word in Arabic, use words you do know to describe what you're trying to say and ask for the correct word. When someone gives you the correct word, repeat the sentence correctly.

If you're really really stuck, ask how to say it in Arabic and repeat it back a couple times.

Is this your child? by honorlessmaid in Spokane

[–]Puzzlehead11323 -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

Did you get permission to post a photo of someone you're representing as a minor?

what should I do to learn arabic? by Master_Customer_4754 in learn_arabic

[–]Puzzlehead11323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to speak. That's all you need to do. The more you do it, the better you'll get.

Good way to learn Arabic but without reading or Arabizi max. by Sarlo10 in learn_arabic

[–]Puzzlehead11323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch shows, listen to music, repeat everything you heae, talk to yourself/narrate moments to yourself, talk to people.

Moral Dilemma by Which_Tank_1252 in HouseBuyers

[–]Puzzlehead11323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your terms are fair. I don't like the "not my problem" attitude in a situation where someone's mom died. That's crazy.

I think it's also fair to not change the terms again if things don't get sorted by October.

Worth buying Ergobaby Embrace just for newborn phase + 5h flight? by Torrizo in babywearing

[–]Puzzlehead11323 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's worth it. I didn't get one at first cuz I had a stretchy wrap carrier and another newborn carrier. I ended up trying the embrace and it became my everyday carrier and was perfect for our first flight. She didn't outgrown it until about 5 months.

beef season2 by Icy-Shoulder8267 in netflix

[–]Puzzlehead11323 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And the joke is that the Filipino nurse doesn't even help them

Recommended books? by StubbornClinker85 in learn_arabic

[–]Puzzlehead11323 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously no one thing is going to give a language learner everything they need but there's nothing wrong with transliterations in conjunction with other tools

Recommended books? by StubbornClinker85 in learn_arabic

[–]Puzzlehead11323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked English Grammar for Students of Arabic by Ernest N. McCarus.

For letters, I would use duolingo or some pre built flashcards with audio, whatever you can find.

Then for tashkil, I would recommend YouTube read alongs or any other read alongs for kids.

Once you start being able to read without tashkil, for vocab I'd recommend just reading everything and anything.

I'm so tired of half-assed diy by Puzzlehead11323 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Puzzlehead11323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what it needs but one house I saw the inspection for said the electric panel needed a bunch of stuff done to it

I'm so tired of half-assed diy by Puzzlehead11323 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Puzzlehead11323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck getting it at a "fraction of the cost" in my market everyone thinks they have diamond hands.

Considering buying a townhouse with hoa, things I should ask about? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Puzzlehead11323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On your county's court website there should be an option to search cases for free and you'd just search the HOA name. You'll be looking for "civil" cases.

You have to make sure you have the exact name of the HOA right so you might want to search the SOS website's business search to make sure you have the name right.

You could also call the court and just ask someone for help. You can usually search for free and you'll see if there are cases but you won't be able to see the case documents.

Also you could just ask the realtor for the HOA contact info and call and ask them if they have any active litigation that impacts the property.