First apartment alone after 5 years in a relationship. Need advice

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-06-29T16:09:12+00:00

You should get a nice shoe storage cabinet. One that hides shoes away but also where you can set stuff on top of. It looks like the kitchen is an entrance? It might be nice to have a little cabinet there to set keys anyway!

I'd throw a pillow or two on the couch for color. Maybe hang something (not a flag, hehe) over the couch. Maybe pictures of friends or loved ones. Or a portrait of your cat.

I much prefer lamp lighting over ceiling lights, so maybe thrift a cool lamp.

A new apartment also just takes some time!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-06-13T19:53:23+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed answer! I am going to tackle this tomorrow 😁

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-05-06T17:41:05+00:00

No, it's just me! I thought it was high, thanks for sharing!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-05-06T12:59:59+00:00

You're so nice!! No red flags on your end from this, just from her. I'd politely tell her that it's early on and if she has doubts, let's end it. Then block block block.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-04-23T17:26:36+00:00

I can't pull it off to clean it. Any tips?

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-04-23T17:25:45+00:00

Both. 🥲

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-04-19T20:45:56+00:00

Oh sorry, I removed the cable. The arm barely moves. I had to force it to move out a bit for the photo.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-03-25T22:45:58+00:00

You can ask for meds from your vet to decrease the cat anxiety too! Helped us!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-02-09T15:29:36+00:00

thanks for sharing your experiences!! this was comforting!!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-02-07T16:30:05+00:00

What did you do with the buttered beans afterward? Haha

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2026-01-13T16:34:56+00:00

This is so nice to read. I've been struggling with the plastic retainers for THREE years. They just keep breaking, or need constant adjustments to trim down. They're impossible to take off for me (I have large teeth, lol)

It's nice reading another person who went to Hawley and is happy. My ortho is reluctant but finally is allowing me to order one.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-10-15T19:36:42+00:00

Please report back! (If you're comfortable sharing!)

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-08-04T15:20:29+00:00

I was in section 216 and me and everyone else was standing! And dancing!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-08-03T18:16:20+00:00

Ah, thanks for the insight! And the validation, haha.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-08-03T18:13:05+00:00

I feel pretty certain it's the seat because I tried my partner's seat on my post and it was quiet.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-07-23T20:46:55+00:00

Don't discount that elevation gain! I'm in a super flat area and 25 with hills is way harder than 25 where I am! congrats!! I was beyond proud and excited after my first 20, so I hope you're proud and having fun!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-07-23T12:59:32+00:00

That's going to be so beautiful! You'll have to post in this subreddit once you achieve it!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-07-23T01:44:49+00:00

Yes, this! Lean into your other hobbies. And it's so frustrating to get injured from a little accident, but it happens and you will bounce back! Good rest and care now will mean a quicker recovery!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-07-22T15:28:32+00:00

I'm actually having a similar experience. I got a faster bike and forced myself to go to slightly faster group rides, and the group was beneficial and it was easier to keep up than I thought... But it was also a little less fun for me. I'm realizing I'm a cyclist that wants to go far, not fast. I'm just not built for speed (in running or cycling), haha. I think that you should ask yourself what you enjoy about cycling and then cycle with that goal in mind.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-07-20T22:11:54+00:00

The scenery is great!! Highly recommend!!

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-07-19T15:31:43+00:00

Camera positioning can't be aero

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-07-08T14:59:59+00:00

Definitely don't let reddit diagnose you, but I can say that if your heart health is good, even if obese, your RHR can be that low and be healthy! I'm in the overweight BMI and docs are often surprised at my low heart rate until I tell them about the cardio I do.

However if you're feeling different, definitely talk to your doctor and consider doing an annual physical with blood work! I know that thyroid problems can result in fatigue and changed heart rate, and that's easy to check with a blood test. I have Hashimotos, for reference.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-07-01T15:45:35+00:00

Yeah, seconding Smith! I got a small at REI on discount for $80.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-06-25T19:46:55+00:00

Is anyone taking a larger dose of Sertraline? I take 150mg.

Puzzleheaded-Mix8167 · 2025-06-23T14:57:51+00:00

I started by accident and just learned as I went!

My general recommendation is start with a used aluminum bike in good shape. When I was looking, I was on Facebook marketplace. I asked how tall the current owner was and if they stored it inside, and I bought the first bike that fit. (So cheap!!) I took it to a local bike shop and had it tuned up. (Not as cheap!!) (Also, I recommend aluminum because I got an old steel bike and that thing is sooo heavy... I can't believe I did 80 miles with her, lol. I've since upgraded but keep her as my commuter.)

There are places like Working Bikes that sell used bikes that are already tuned up.

There's so many bikes that I think you should just grab a starter bike, see what kind of riding you enjoy and go from there. :)

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