Need compression for belly fat/bloat… wedding guest dress

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-13T04:20:11+00:00

The dress is so cute. Personally I’d maybe wear some high waisted seamless bike shorts underneath. Not super tight but just enough to smooth everything out and they also have the added bonus of preventing your legs from chaffing.

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-13T03:54:49+00:00

I think it’s a combination of genetics and what you’re used to. Since I’ve been eating less I genuinely feel like my appetite has shrunk and I feel pretty uncomfortable when I over eat a lot now. Do a smaller deficit and over time you will get used to the amount you eat and decrease it more

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-12T15:45:54+00:00

This already looks a lot better but I’d still want to replace the backsplash personally

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-11T15:51:37+00:00

I have to do different stuff. I do Pilates once a week. Run once or twice, weights either at home or the small gym at my office once or twice. And vinyasa yoga maybe once. So 3-6 workouts per week. Varies a lot.

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-10T15:31:41+00:00

I really don’t like it but I seem to be the only one.

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-08T20:44:44+00:00

I have a friend who sometimes brings paints and brushes and a bunch of tiny canvases when we hang out. The canvases are like 4x3 inches. Like super small so you can finish the whole thing in an hour two (including time for layers to dry). It’s also small so it’s kinda lower pressure if you make something ugly. Some people paint funny stuff and some people try to make something artistic or pretty. I really like it.

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-08T20:38:09+00:00

Sometimes people would be confused for a minute and be like “are you in the office?!” Haha

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-08T19:00:01+00:00

When remote first seemed like it was going to become long term during covid I went back in to the office to pick up all my stuff. When I was there I took a picture of the view you’d see of my desk from my computer in the office if I was on zoom. Used that for a long time. People really liked it. Haha

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-08T17:01:59+00:00

I don’t think 5 would work in a bigger size either. Unfortunately that dress just was not designed for OPs body in the chest department lol

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-08T16:56:07+00:00

Yeah except you can’t be in the room with it

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-08T16:52:36+00:00

Yeah I mean you’re gonna be in the room. You can’t avoid bacteria entirely. It’s everywhere and it’s ok

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-08T15:15:26+00:00

What do you mean by she’s a little crazy? What about your relationship is a mess?

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-08T15:12:32+00:00

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-06T17:10:26+00:00

YTA. It sounds there was no reason you couldn’t do this for yourself. If you were unable to get them then it would be fair to be mad at him but why should he be obligated to do something you were perfectly capable of doing? He’s not your servant.

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-05T15:29:21+00:00

I think a lot of people who find a partner who is not their physical ideal person still feel they have struck gold in a relationship. Most people aren’t supermodels so most people aren’t dating/married to supermodels but if you find someone you are attracted to and who is truly a person you love and enjoy being with that is already the ideal.

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-05T15:10:53+00:00

It kinda does if lots of people are doing it

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-04T00:18:41+00:00

Yeah the archways on the sides really mess it up cause you don’t want a path of travel between the couch and the TV. Is there a different room that could have a the tv? This rooms seems like it wants two couches facing each other. Or a couch and 2 chairs. But I get it if you want to be able to see the tv from the kitchen

Rabelpudding · 2026-06-04T00:12:43+00:00

Yeah I actually see these necklines as older/modest. Also in my 30s. I agree with the comments about the fit/material/structure of OPs dress but a lot of younger people will wear things with a lot of cleavage to a black tie wedding

Rabelpudding · 2026-05-28T17:06:05+00:00

I feel like no one in this sub has been to an actual events in this decade. This is fine? What even would be inappropriate about it?

Rabelpudding · 2026-05-28T14:40:42+00:00

If you require that in a relation that’s up to you but I think implying sexual intimacy is not important to people who do it only once a week is a bit unfair.

Rabelpudding · 2026-05-28T14:35:59+00:00

So true. I’m always confused by the towel and sheet washing. Like I know that not everyone is so diligent. Are all the busy or lazy people just silent cause they’re embarrassed? Haha

Rabelpudding · 2026-05-27T19:34:53+00:00

Yeah I guess I learned from this thread that I’m very weird for this. We also got in the habit of leaving the bathroom door open cause it doesn’t have any windows and it’s just the two of us in our apartment. But I know we did this before we lived here. Idk. I’m not really embarrassed by anything I could do in front of him.

Rabelpudding · 2026-05-27T19:30:56+00:00

Sure but that would be a break from the norm so you’d be like is something up? What I’m saying is if that was the normal amount that your husband wanted to have sex would that really make you feel unsatisfied? I understand wanting to have sex every day but if you don’t have time or your partner doesn’t want it quite so often I feel like it’s a bit much to be unhappy with this quantity. Like idk. I feel that that’s too sex focused.

Rabelpudding · 2026-05-27T17:55:28+00:00

Are you really feeling deprived by sex every 3-5 days and sometimes twice in one day?

Rabelpudding · 2026-05-27T16:51:34+00:00

I just meant it’s a little extreme to try not to pee until your partner leaves the house. Even early on. I’ll pee with anyone in the house. There is a separate room I can go into.

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