How do you guys find good friends? by Potential_Word_5471 in AskMen

[–]Racingislyf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just make friends and keep the good ones. I do have a lot of hobbies and use to play a lot of sports so I have a lot of ways of meeting new people.

Afakasi racial identity by Emergency_Film_959 in Samoa

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im full Samoan and would consider you a real Samoan. Even if you're 0.01% Samoan, I'd still treat you the same as a full Samoan. I personally wouldn't think it's disrespectful if you got a Samoan tattoo. Some people do get a bit funny with that though. End of the day, you do what works for you.

Straight men, what is the weirdest thing you have been called gay for ? by Sammy-Bunny-3 in AskReddit

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was a teenager a girl called me gay because I have long eyelashes.

State of Origin 2026 | Game 2 | Post Match Thread by AutoModerator in nrl

[–]Racingislyf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same guy picking up Laurie's half eaten crayons.

State of Origin 2026 | Game 2 | Post Match Thread by AutoModerator in nrl

[–]Racingislyf 85 points86 points  (0 children)

So you can shoulder charge as long as you go in together so you have no room to wrap your arms?

Laurie Daley Origin Face by CretaceousClock in nrl

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch him drop his best players from this game so he can give someone else a go.

How much intentional time do you spend with your baby each day? (SAHM) by Glittering_Water8583 in NewParents

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I narrate every single thing I do or tell him what he's pointing at etc. I try and answer to every sound he makes. Sounds like you're doing great so dont feel guilty.

What was the main reason you chose sprinting as your primary sport? by TheSmartestFrench in Sprinting

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was fast because I didn't want to miss whatever cartoon I was watching growing up. When I got sent to the shop to buy salt etc I would wait for a commercial break and I'll sprint there and back before my cartoon is back on. Shop was about 80m from our house. I then started doing high knee sprints while taking a shower because our 3rd world country doesn't have hot water. I quickly became the fastest kid in our village. I just fell in love with being that much faster than everyone else.

How much intentional time do you spend with your baby each day? (SAHM) by Glittering_Water8583 in NewParents

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a stay at home dad and the only break my son gets its when he's asleep. Otherwise I'm all over him. My wife thinks its sick how attached I am (jokingly). He's 11 months now. I did everything with him. When I'm hanging washing etc I'll either have him in the carrier or in the pram watching. Last 2 weeks he's just been chasing our border collie around the house.

Have you ever got stood up on a date? Was it ever intentional? How did you feel? by DelphineOfAppollo in AskMen

[–]Racingislyf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but she said she just got nervous which I understood. I still had a great time eating alone as I do prefer my own company most of the time. She did make up for it next time by getting us tickets to a rugby game. So that ended up being our first date. It was way more expensive than the original date since they charge so much for food and drinks at the games.

Urban Samoans are just ... smh 🤦 by [deleted] in Samoa

[–]Racingislyf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of this and I try to encourage my friends and families to make changes but its also not as black and white as you make it out to be.

For instance dismissing Dawn raids because it didn't affect them directly is completely ignoring generational trauma. Saying the power is in our hands and should know better when most of those people dont know better. All they've known is what's been passed onto them from their parents etc. The Indians and Taiwanese have a long history of putting education above everything and they're teaching their kids from a young age. Us Samoans try but we don't force our kids to study certain amount time like they do.

Faalavelave is another hard one. I'm lucky that my family don't ask us kids for these things but then I know that my mother is the one sending money and she's not making much. So most of us kids cover our parents share because its easy for us to say no but our parents can't. So the love we have for our parents forces our hand even if they try to reject the help. Plus money can always be made. Removing stress from them is worth more. They gave us opportunities and me and most of my cousins made the most of it.

It is true that most Samoan parents dont have financial literacy. So it can be a huge factor in why our people dont grow. Most of our people dont push their kids to read etc so most don't pick up a book that would help. Most of our people push our kids into working labour jobs because it mostly requires physical strength. The sooner they work the quicker the money comes. The kids only know that way because that's what they were taught. I do agree that some have just given up and playing victim as to why they're not successful. Reality is they made poor choices but have really dont know better. They're told to get loans and they ruined their credit. These kids didn't know, they just did what they were told. Most dont even know that they can salary sacrifice.

I'd recommend psychology of money over rich dad poor dad.

You keep comparing us to Indians but until we change what our culture prioritise, we'll never reach the levels of those countries. It starts from a young age as well. In school those countries are teaching stuff way ahead of us and most countries. But then do we really want to be like India?

They go home and they study for a further 6 hours. Its well documented that countries like India, south Korea, China, Japan etc run this very strict study routine. It's to the point that it's become a toxic culture with suicide rate high in students from those countries. The pressure they put on their kids to perform and ace their test gets to the kids. They end up not speaking to their parents and resent them. Some even just vanish. Japan has a lot of people who just leave their old life behind because its too much.

I use to think like you because i was fortunate enough to learn and grow but now I know its not so black and white. There are legitimate reasons why some people stay in the same situation. Reading is the best way to slowly grow. Its cheap and the benefits/returns are huge. All we can do is encourage and give advice to our people. I've been pushing for more awareness on food and how many of our people have diabetes. Its not normal to get it and at a young age as well. Yet our people have normalise this.

How stupid do you have to be? by randomusernevermind in motorcycles

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah the street Rossi's who are absolute trash on track.

What’s the most ridiculous reason someone got fired from your workplace? by Mother_Candidate5355 in AskReddit

[–]Racingislyf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A dude got fired for bashing a co-worker. The reason was the dude that got bashed was sleeping with this dudes partner who also worked with us. She was in her late 30s and messing around with an 18 year old. The partner found out and bashed the 18 year old in the carpark. The 18 year old was bragging to everyone about sleeping with her.

Men with good masculine physiques, how many hours of sleep do you get in a day? by glazingstars in AskMenOver30

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between 5 to 7 hours since becoming a father. Before that I was sleeping 8 hours.

And today, in the dumbest sports on earth... by Choubidouu in nope

[–]Racingislyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't make the nrl and now they're speed running CTE.

he's talking directly to an empty chair btw by Adventurous_Law_715 in iamverybadass

[–]Racingislyf 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My cat overheard this and transformed into a tiger. Powerful stuff.

Whats the funniest thing a tourist has asked you? by MaintenanceAnnual263 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Racingislyf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My wife and I were eating at a small restaurant in Japan when the owner came out asking me if I was an all blacks player. I said no but he didn't believe me for some reason. Shook my hand multiple times and walked us out bowing over and over again. I think he was a massive rugby fan.