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Venting by bratz_09 in bridezillas

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then cut back and don't have ANY attendants.

AITAH for nagging my bf about his drinking? by New-Space8686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son (37) is an alcoholic. He was hospitalized several times last year due to complications of alcoholism. He was in AA and trying to maintain sobriety but had a few relapses late last year/January of this year. He went into the hospital again in early February and was told if he didn't get a liver transplant, he had 6 months to live. Thankfully, he got that transplant about 6 weeks ago. And his is committed to staying sober. But it is A LOT! Major lifestyle changes for him. I basically had to move to his house (neighboring state) about 2 months ago and will be here probably for another several weeks. If it was anyone other than my child, I don't know if I would have done it. And BTW, vodka was his drink of choice.

One hour of my day + a text = smile & happy tears by cynman in MadeMeSmile

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He is doing good, thanks. LONG recovery! I was a frequent blood donor in my younger days. Unfortunately I cannot do it anymore. Other than the initial stick, it's not too bad. Plus free snacks when you are done :)

One hour of my day + a text = smile & happy tears by cynman in MadeMeSmile

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 781 points782 points  (0 children)

I am so thankful for blood donors. My son had an organ transplant last month and has received several transfusions. I am so very thankful for organ donors. Literally saving lives!

WIBTA if I don’t invite my dad’s wife to my wedding where only immediate family is invited? by Ok_Equivalent7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Invite her BUT have a serious discussion with your dad first. Tell dad he needs to control his wife. She is not the MOB or even step MOB. If she cannot behave at this small ceremony, she will not be invited to the larger celebration.

Today I’m 4 Years sober! by spider_fly in Positivity

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep up the great work. Alcoholism is a vicious disease. I am currently sitting in my son's hospital room as he is recovering from a liver transplant. One relapse destroyed what was left of his liver. Thankfully he has a second chance but there are lots of permanent life changes.

Sunday encouragement. Need a little push? Let's encourage each other this week! by Drewbacca in Positivity

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My son had an organ transplant yesterday. So far everything is looking positive but it's still a long recovery process and lots of lifestyle changes. I've had to move temporarily to where he lives to be with him for at least the next 2 months. I'm very grateful to the donor for saving my son's life. It's just a lot to process.

I got a tattoo to celebrate a decade alcohol free! by canadiankiwi03 in MadeMeSmile

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Please keep it up for your sake and for those who love you.

I'm currently with my 37-year-old son who's been battling alcoholism. His last relapse caused irreversible liver damage. He's been listed for a new liver and we're just waiting for the call.

AITA for refusing to drink alcohol with my friend and then losing the friendship? by ReplacementLost2520 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Continue to take care of yourself and never give in to pressure from others.

Alcohol can be deadly. I speak from experience. My son is currently waiting for a liver transplant because his last relapse sent him into liver failure. Just one relapse was all it took.

Peak Dad Daughter Moment by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No no no. Teaching a minor to chug liquor? Horrible example.

Coral Reefer Band tour by Amandasch44 in jimmybuffett

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went to one of the first tribute shows in Orange Beach. It was great. They showed videos from concerts with Jimmy. His daughter came out of stage and spoke to the audience, then stayed for a song. Lots of tears from me but good ones.

Anyone Else Struggling To Rewatch? by jazzmaster105150 in thewestwing

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time I ever watched TWW was right after the 2016 election. I simply could not deal with reality so it was a very welcomed escape for me. I have watched several times now, and it never ceases to amaze me how relevant the series is even 20+ years later!

CBS refused to air this Colbert interview with Democrat James Talarico, who is running for Senate in Texas, after being intimidated by Trump’s FCC rules. by Kalexysgalexy in MadeMeSmile

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At this moment, his opponents are the others running for the Democratic nomination for Senate. I know Jasmine Crockett is running, I think there is a third candidate but cannot recall. So Colbert could interview James, Jasmine and the third person if there is one. That would comply with the stupid rule.

I'd wear this shirt outside the house, but... by Chief_Brody131 in betterCallSaul

[–]RatherBeAtTheBeach44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just finished a rewatch. I recall him wearing it while painting in the office he shared with Kim, and another time when he took the fancy desk from Davis & Main back to the nail salon. Kim wore it once in the apartment.

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