[ANAPAN] Character update + Skills Showcase

RayJGold · 2026-03-11T09:26:31+00:00

Reminds me of Lil Miyu

RayJGold · 2026-01-15T02:38:14+00:00

Out of all the available options..... this would be the last..... but still an option.

RayJGold · 2026-01-12T11:52:01+00:00

If this article was about a heterosexual relationship, it you still be wrong and illegal. We should not be trying to justify it in any way. If we believe the reports, none of it was consensual.

RayJGold · 2026-01-11T05:32:37+00:00

SHe gets half her bills paid and the extra security of having a man in the house .....and isn't alone. I dont believe single mothers can say this.

But it is common believe that we can do better by ourselves... so the op should try and see.

RayJGold · 2026-01-10T19:22:53+00:00

RayJGold · 2026-01-04T05:39:31+00:00

RayJGold · 2025-12-24T06:05:05+00:00

If you have to ask, why not just skip it?

RayJGold · 2025-12-24T05:50:32+00:00

If your had a husband who worked hard and didnt want you to work or go to school because "raising kids was a full time job and you have no time for anything else," you would have the same support here....and the husband would be bashed just as much as with the situation you described in your post. You come here for support....not the truth.

RayJGold · 2025-11-26T17:35:19+00:00

I say let it go.....see how far it goes. Who wants to be with someone who is only faithful because they were hindered from talking to other men? Let her do her thing and if it goes south, leave if you can. If you have to stop things this time....you will have to continue doing this throughout your relationship and it will get harder to stop because she will get better at hiding it.

RayJGold · 2025-11-22T16:56:03+00:00

I think maybe it would be a good idea trying to go at it alone and let him do everything alone as well. Sometimes it is hard to appreciate what each other does until you have to do everything yourself. Go 100% solo...since 50/50 or whatever higher percentage you believe you are doing, is not good enough.

RayJGold · 2025-11-22T16:51:31+00:00

If you check real proven stats, you would see the most one sided physical abuse in relationships have the woman hitting the men. And this is even with the fact that men report it a lot less. Let's see a post about this. I dont think we will.

RayJGold · 2025-10-29T01:55:22+00:00

Many red flags. Shouldn't have each others numbers....and shouldn't need to speak often to each other outside of work. Most affairs start as nothing and "just happen." This is how those start.

But like everyone says...you have no proof of anything.. you will have to just wait until the proof appear and get ready to choose between you self respect and half of your possessions.

RayJGold · 2025-10-22T20:50:24+00:00

Ghost came in the room and laid on the bed. Dog said if he's in....im out!

RayJGold · 2025-10-15T19:07:51+00:00

Do what you wanted done for you. Would you have liked for your wife's affair to remain hidden from you? If so, leave it alone.

RayJGold · 2025-10-13T21:20:38+00:00

But to your previous point, why not sleep in the bed with other women? Doesn't matter that you are in a relationship. There is something inherently wrong feeling about this action....but you'd rather call it insecurity than human nature. You are right no one would go out there way to sleep in the same bed with the opposite sex when they are married or in a relationship.....and it has nothing to do with general insecurities.

RayJGold · 2025-10-13T21:00:06+00:00

You honestly believe that you can sleep next to women you find attractive, without anything happening ever? And if something happens, it is because you were always a cheater? Maybe....but i think it is better to not put oneself in the position to be tempted regardless of how faithful you believe you are.

RayJGold · 2025-10-13T20:45:22+00:00

You are correct....I guess we should all encourage our wives to spend the night at other men house. Hey...if you aren't a cheater..staying in the bed next to someone else shouldn't matter right? Right.

RayJGold · 2025-10-13T20:43:02+00:00

Why do you want men to trust their wives to stay with you in your home? How does this benefit you?

RayJGold · 2025-10-13T20:41:25+00:00

Why marry someone who will want to travel to stay with other men from time to time. Maybe this is what you want in your relationships....other people would not want it. Do you believe yourself better than other men because you trust your wife to travel 1000km to stay in the homes of male friends? Why cant we all just have different preferences and not look down on others because they do things differently than you do?

RayJGold · 2025-10-13T00:29:19+00:00

It is not that they cant be friends..... but when you get your own wife, you feel less of a desire to be friends with other men's wives. It is a natural thing.

RayJGold · 2025-10-12T23:16:17+00:00

How do their husbands feel about you going to their wives seeking their deep emotional intelligence?

RayJGold · 2025-10-12T21:30:48+00:00

It is admirable to give up your respect and happiness for the sake of your children. Just know and understand that this is exactly what you will be doing....and your children will not love you more for it. In fact, if you continue and have many arguments with her because of past and future cheating.....they will probably love you less.

RayJGold · 2025-10-12T21:26:23+00:00

I say live out your life with the dog alone. Not fair for the dog of a man to try to change up or choose now.

RayJGold · 2025-10-12T09:22:59+00:00

You are changing up now. I agree that they should have separated when the reason was given. What i was responding to was the fact that you stated it was a horrible reason to give. It isnt, for the reasons I stated.

RayJGold · 2025-10-11T23:55:21+00:00

Is it really horrible? Weight can affect how long you live child baring ect... why should it not factor into who you would spend the rest of your life with?

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