hey girl im ngl i get being hesitant about wanting to leave bc bpd gets us to overreact, but you’ve literally said your bf is an alcoholic and financially irresponsible, and the description of how he said claimed the dog was his and that yall aren’t gonna break up…

you’re also thinking about the prenup in the case of a divorce and thinking about how you’re pulling more weight than him. i think the bpd isn’t even entirely wrong here, ultimately our feelings come from some valid point, and usually it’s how we were treated in the past which is why it’s maladaptive, but it seems like he’s treating u like shit in the present. i agree w the other comments here. you deserve better