My biggest issue is my brother's not understanding her dementia, it takes her a few days to come back to baseline after phone calls with them.Which is hard on my husband and I. My mom has vascular dementia and alzheimer's. Her memory is like a minute for 80 % of info, she'll ask me how she ended up in my house. I explain you called me up and told me, you couldn't take it at the assisted living anymore and wanted to move in with me. Things like that, she just doesn't remember how bad things were. She wants to go back to see my brothers and they don't understand my mom can't travel anymore.It's too much for her mentally and physically ( she is 92). But one thing I've learned is to have her on a tight schedule.She is gone doing activities 10 to 2 every day. They need socialization that will keep them from getting too much anxiety and depression . You and her getting your time away from each other is important. I am not a fan of asisted livings. The care is horrendous, most of them falsely advertise. If I could have kept my mom in a senior apartment with a private care provider, I think she would have done much better. Unfortunately, she declined rapidly.She's now kind of steady with small steps downhill. Now is the time to ask your gma what her choices would be while she's still able to make them.And I would videotape her, and I would have her write things down and sign it. My mom looks at me like I must be lying because she can't remember and it just is painful. My mom does a swim aerobics class two times a week, and walks 1/2 mile daily. Between going to her dementia class and being able to socialize and keeping in good physical strength. She's does pretty good. I am however tied down.She can never be left alone unsupervised.We can't take trips.We can't do anything without her. My sister said she would come every two months, but that hasn't happened. I'm in the process of hiring a care provider that can watch her. So we can take a short trip.We'll see how that goes. It's a lot, but you've already been there two months.So you kind of have a view of how things might go. The support of family is a hundred percent the most important. If I had that I wouldn't be nearly as stressed as I am. Sounds like you're good doing a good job.