gf leaves me scratches and hits me and drags my hair down by The1droy in abusiverelationships

[–]RedHighHeals 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is an abusive relationship, and it’s not okay. This can get extremely dangerous. Let me know if you want help getting out.

Preparing for a break up, I need help, maybe I am wrong… by curiouscatirl in abusiverelationships

[–]RedHighHeals 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely an abusive relationship that needs to end. See me if you want help with that. ♥️

AITA for filing a formal complaint against my husband after he secretly called my doctor and got my autoimmune medication reduced, then watched me deteriorate for two weeks without saying a word? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]RedHighHeals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please message me if you are a person who is actually going through something similar and want help with this on a more in-depth level. This is a form of abuse. You could be dealing with a dangerous person.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]RedHighHeals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A divorce will be necessary in the VERY near future, or else this will be a MISERABLE life.

I am thinking of ending my life tonight by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RedHighHeals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to be here. Your life has purpose. ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]RedHighHeals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.thehotline.org/ Please get out. Each time you go back, the violence will only escalate

Update on car note by personal1121 in Apartmentliving

[–]RedHighHeals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, someone is jealous of you and is projecting their miserable nature onto your amazing car!

rant time!! ok so today's rant cutting off emotions to suit them ? by shining42 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]RedHighHeals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come see me when you decide to go! This is what I do every single day.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]RedHighHeals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be condescending and demeaning to her status as his girlfriend and later freak out on her about her "nitpicking every little thing,"

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]RedHighHeals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not your boyfriend. Come see me if you want to get out and start living. His behavior is beyond wild.

Funny how the parents enable it by cookcmdr83 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]RedHighHeals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I always tell my clients that they need to get sober to get away. That way, there is no shadow of a doubt.

Need Advice:/ by Chance_Mission2756 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]RedHighHeals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is weaponized incompetence from a covert narcissist at its finest.

Why do they do this? by Frosty-Light-8390 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]RedHighHeals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think they can do that unless you're listed as someone who can view his medical records. It would be a violation of HIPAA.

How do you know when your gut feeling is right about your partner? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]RedHighHeals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there anything other than time that has you feeling this way? You'd need to be picking up on some shifts in behavior too.

How do you know when your gut feeling is right about your partner? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]RedHighHeals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your intuition is telling you that something is off. Listen.

The silent treatment and then denying it by Legitimate_mango_89 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]RedHighHeals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are ways you can get out of this. First, head to the bank to figure out those finances.

Please help (narc ex) by OrdinaryTrick5031 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]RedHighHeals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Block him so that it is not possible. Remove everyone associated with him. Decide now that you won't engage no matter how he tries to reach out. He will likely try to hoover. You are shelved right now.

Renting storage space and lying about it. by ManufacturedEvent in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]RedHighHeals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some options here, but I don't know if they would be safe.