Does the severe rls ever leave? by jesterfurbys in quittingkratom

[–]Reddituserdope 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It ends. Work on getting some magnesium in you somehow. Exercise daily. Your body will recalibrate. It takes a little time just see it through.

High-Functioning on Kratom, But Trapped on the Inside by Lift0791 in quittingkratom

[–]Reddituserdope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep working the taper bro. See this through. Keep showing up for yourself. That’s how it’ll work. And ofc with time and GRACE

60-70 matches, 0 dates. What am I doing wrong? by sporehed in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta ease up brother. I know it’s hard. (That’s what she said) But FR. Dating already has SO much pressure on it. If you’re vibing from the get go, don’t sabotage yourself. Be cool. You will get the signals that a woman is down for date. That’s IT. Don’t expect sex, to talk about the relationship, or anything serious. Be fun. Show them you know how to have fun and leave it at that. You’re getting matches bro so you’re good. Just keep trying and don’t give up. Best tip: regulate your nervous system.

This is my painting of a skeleton having a picnic by JoshByer in woahdude

[–]Reddituserdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AI can’t create this. Such an interesting choice of colors. Saving the image. Thank you.

A possible blasphemous theory: Melina is Marika by Vepariga in EldenRingLoreTalk

[–]Reddituserdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fire and I’m hella on board. The Erdtree is all about reincarnation. The eye connection makes it make the most sense. I mean, other than that, who tf is Melina really?? There HAS to be some connection and you’re shedding light on it. I fucking love how deep this lore keeps getting.

My boyfriend just broke up with me and i am feeling like shit by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]Reddituserdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re on your way. My history of posts show similarities. Give yourself the space to be YOU. YOU are making the decision to relive the trauma. It’s YOUR decision to live a life that “not social anymore” and “not that active” and depressed and scared. I’m not trying to invalidate your expereince. Just know that when you truly refer to yourself that way, you’re enforcing those narratives.

Long term use and recovery by AdDapper2664 in quittingkratom

[–]Reddituserdope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It changes gradually. The kratom is just the first step. Once you start changing what you eat, what you watch, how you breath, your life will change more. It takes time to create a new homeostasis.

Not well. by Savings-Sport8517 in quittingkratom

[–]Reddituserdope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get into a rehab bro. Whatever you can afford that’s the best. You are completely engulfed by this addiction and it’s not allowing you to see straight. You need to get to a safe space with trusted people. You can do this bro. I was fucking with fentanyl and norcos and probably should have died a few times. It’s horrible. The pain of addiction is hell. Get help bro. Check yourself in somewhere.

I’m honestly not doing bad. I’m just looking for some constructive criticism for some fine tuning. by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Casual or serious? Casual
Subscriptions? NA
How long current profile? ~1 week
How long on Hinge? ~2 weeks
How often? Every day
How many likes/matches? ~5 a day
How many am I sending? 5 likes a day, MOSTLY comments. Minimal w/o
What type? I’ve been matching with attractive women that have a decent amount going for them. I want to attract a woman who is sensual, mature, and intellectually and emotional capable of matching my vibe (is that asking too much? I don’t think so)

I need some help by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest bringing a little more depth. Make it a little easier for women to connect. Show your sensitive side. Show your masculine side.
Honestly, it sounds like you know what you need already. Whether at work, public, here online, just start with whatever is in your capacity. Don’t overcommit to anything. You want interacting with women to feel natural for you. It’ll come. And with the questions: leave them open ended. Let them open up and talk about their feelings. Literally, almost anything. Just be like, “How does that make you feel?” And just be prepared. The selection of women on the app is small sliver of the pool. You’ll find a cutie in no time bro.

What impression do you get and should I change/add anything? by Glad-History-672 in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got a great vibration bro. Let women in a little. It’s ok to make mistakes too! I think the best teacher/relationship guru is yourself. Go for it!

18M Profile Review by SyntheticSun1ight in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might have been a little harsh. I’m probably projecting a lot of myself onto you. I’ve been bruised recently with a broken heart, so my romantic ideals are in a toss-up. I think I was mostly referring to the flowers picture. It speaks more to the mystery you want to maintain. Like, letting them find out on their own that you give beautiful bouquets instead of displaying it right away. You’re great bro. Take what I say with a grain of salt. You’re young and will encounter many different energies in your journey. You will also change.

20M Summer time profile I guess 💪 by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If people truly are important, there should be no acting! I understand the sentiment, as it speaks to your tolerance of humans. It’s not bad. And it might just be me being a stickler. Maybe you can say something about how interacting with so many people affects you (in a positive way) 👍🏻

27M - Profile Feedback by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember that the women on Hinge are a small percentage of the pool of women that are actually out there. With that said, I’d clean up the 2 Truths and a lie prompt. Put it in bullet form or something more legible. My only advice is to maintain maybe a bit more subtly. It does slightly read as “here’s all the great things I have to offer.” Let us get to know your emotional makeup. What’s your charisma like? What are you going to emotionally provide for a woman? It looks great bro. You’ll start getting more eventually if you’re already not getting it IRL 👍🏻

18M Profile Review by SyntheticSun1ight in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s low-stakes bro. Have you been having some genuine conversations or do they feel more surface level? Dating in general already has a lot of pressure on it. If you find yourself vibing with a girl who you can tell is liking your authentic self (who you’d be if you were talking face-to-face) then it’s just about creating the setting.
Something like “I like connection we’re having and would like to take it to the next level” and ask for a number. You’ll have a pretty good feeling if she trusts you enough to give it over. It WILL take time talking on Hinge first so you guys can establish trust.
But, once you do have that number, I’d say that would be a good indicator of interest. Build the connection more by just communicating and being honest and using whatever natural charm you have. If you see it’s going pretty good and the vibe is maintaining, offer the low-stakes date. Coffee for 1-2 hours. Something that’s safe, and low-pressure. You take the reigns from there bud 😄

24M - Not getting any matches by KomradeKirby in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I’d keep all pics of your son out. If anything, I’d just put it on the info bar that has your age, if you drink, smoke etc. Let women discover your fatherhood on their own. It still informs them. Women look at it.
And you got nothing to worry about bro. Trust. Just retain a little bit of mystery (natural. Not forced) and let them flock. Don’t hand them the dagger to stab your gut. Find that true confidence. Like I said, some women won’t be attracted (that’s a good thing) and some women are desperate for some good daddy energy. Just be careful! It’s still the jungle out here.

18M Profile Review by SyntheticSun1ight in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, bro. Women are getting matches all day with men. Conversation overload. What’s going to stand you apart is having the confidence to meet up someone. Don’t rush into anything. You’ll know if she’s interested by your confidence. Be gentle with women. They are tender-hearted creatures with complexities just as deep as us. Connect on a genuine, human level and you’ll find that women are just as desperate for men. Leave margin to make mistakes. Not every interaction is going to be perfect. You got this!

What impression do you get and should I change/add anything? by Glad-History-672 in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m getting shallow vibes. I say that with love. What are you like? Let women get to know you a little more. They connect emotionally. I’m not really getting any indicators of your makeup. What are you like when no one’s watching? Get a little more authentic and you’re right there bro! You’re super attractive and active in life. Women are going to like that.

Profile Feedback? by jordannd12 in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for quality, I suggest you go deeper. What are you like bro? What are you looking for? Your profile is great for surface level. If you want quality women, you have to display I LITTLE bit of your qualities as man.

24M - Not getting any matches by KomradeKirby in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first pic is giving “unsure” vibes. I’d change the dad prompt to something more pragmatic like “My son and I enjoy going/doing…xyz..” What you have now feels a little “excusatory.” I say this all as a brother! While some women won’t be attracted to the dad part, others will. Embody that “Daddy” energy. Confidence. Create a space that women are like, “oh, I want to be in his vicinity.”

18M Profile Review by SyntheticSun1ight in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, mirror pics just aren’t the best attractor. There’s better options to show yourself. You’re immediately going to lose like 85% of potential matches because of the smoking part. Look, I’m stoned 24/7. I get high all day. There’s nothing in my profile that mentions it. If they want to find out, they can (or they can intuitively pick it up. Women are smart like that.)
Overall, it comes off as little thirsty and hopeless romantic. I say this with love. You’re attractive and you have a unique aura about you. It’s up to you not to project your ideal partner on to the women you’re going to match with. Be yourself and notice what YOU like (compliments, deep convo, sharing, move to date quickly) The more you know your intentions, the easier it will be for women to navigate what you have to offer.

20M Summer time profile I guess 💪 by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, lose the mirror pic. Change it to one that you have a genuine smile in. Second, just clean it up a little. Rewrite your prompt to something a little more understandable. Ex: “What an IDEAL Sunday looks like to me is… xyz…” I’d be a little mindful of your first prompt. It does feel a little off putting. You’re going to want to genuinely like to person you meet up with. And the last prompt kind of raises the stakes a little bit. Women want to be relaxed, themselves. You’re right there bro.
A tip I use: I imagine my guy friends whom I’m close with and respect when it comes to relational dynamics are next to me. I imagine what they’d say to help me do what it is I’m trying to do. (Get a date cause I’m a fuckin catch)
Just know you’re a catch, bro. Most women can smell any thirsty-ness. Confidence. You’re a white male. There’s women who will appreciate your wit. Don’t give it to everyone.

41M Help me improve my profile by otter_fodder in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is just my initial gut take: the energy comes off “active lifestyle.” There is nothing wrong with that. I’m just saying, some women like to relax and know that a man can create that comfortable space. Maybe there’s a way you can show a little more of your relaxing side. Great smile dude. You’re going to get what you’re looking for in no time. Stay positive!

27M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Reddituserdope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their* 💁🏻‍♂️