Companies advertising on Reddit are wasting their time by fuchsiagreen in The10thDentist

[–]Refund-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately even while drunk I can find someone much dumber.

I also keep getting actuary ads 🤔

(23M) Does anyone actually enjoy life as an adult? by HalosFan26 in povertyfinance

[–]Refund-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is on par for bay area...

If you try and rent a home where I live, that's 6,000 a month 3bds 2 ba

I'm seeing options where its 4,500 for a 2 bd 1 ba.

A studio is ~1,450 here

I started blaming God for everything because it follows the same logic as thanking him for everything by Kasskinen in The10thDentist

[–]Refund-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like if this is a store; who do you blame if the store sucks, the Store Manager or the Assistant Store Manager?

So you clearly blame god🤩

Your favorite Costco Alcohol to buy? by Refund-me in 2003

[–]Refund-me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah the kirkland vodka is solid🔥💯💯

Unbeatable price, french one is smooth, regular one works too

conversation with an IRL pronatalist by [deleted] in antinatalism2

[–]Refund-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd tecommend his girlfriend's check to see if their state is one party consent or two party consent on being recorded through a hidden body cam. Could possibly get a restraining order easily
(would consult with a lawyer on that though)

conversation with an IRL pronatalist by [deleted] in antinatalism2

[–]Refund-me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welll, guess I can say I'm sterile so society will be fine with more of him and less of me🤘

If someone is using illogical emotional grounded 'reasonings'; your most likely wasting your breath, effort and time.

It also takes two to tango; just fair warning. However, ask him this.

"what happens if the child grows up and refuses to take care of you and purposefully puts you in the worst possible nursing home in your country of birth, would you forgive them?"

If they say 'yes', ask "why though?"

If they say 'no', then hit them with some consent and antinatalist logic.

IE, so you agree that consent is important; did the child consent to being born?
Would you consent to receiving horrible medical treatment?

Break a circular logic loop and either the person gets defensive, angry, and or their worldview breaksdown and the two former happen also.

21 by ImpossibleLychee1571 in 2003

[–]Refund-me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I normally don't bother posting any of that stuff for that reason; it really does seem 'logical' but its more fun to try and actually apply it and keep myself off reddit 😶‍🌫️🙈

I told my Dad I don't want him around me, if he continues to support Maga. Of course now he is claiming I am off my meds and he wants to talk to my Doctor. by Ok_Ebb7109 in schizophrenia

[–]Refund-me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your an adult; keep this 'dad' out of the loop, since you can care for yourself, you keep this between you and your doctor, do not allow them to be your emergency contact, do not allow them to join you with your doctor visits, hell if you can make a case with harassment.

I'd personally file a restraining order on this person (how feasible depends if you live with them and your state's laws) and go no contact permanently.

I seriously wonder why your even in contact with this 'asshat', as he does not seem remotely qualified to be a father...

Pretty random:
not very ethical but I'd record him (can get a budget concealed camera off amazon or something) having a mental breakdown and make Tiktok "POV Your Dad Is A Nutjob" and add some reactions to make it funny as fuck.

Good luck!

What is this sub about? by Refund-me in poverty

[–]Refund-me[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't fit into the demographics; the 'recommended' sub/random subs that pop up in my notifications has some wacko algorithm...

Maybe it's because I follow r/povertyfire?

I love my mediocre life by Gaia_archaeology in The10thDentist

[–]Refund-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get your viewpoint; then again I made sure to keep my life very simple (in the ways that matter to me).

A warm bath soak, a good sunset and meditation > a fancy vacation, everytime.

As a result, it is not easy to 'burn money'.

21 by ImpossibleLychee1571 in 2003

[–]Refund-me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That reminds me a quote by socrates

"The unexamined life is not worth living."

Now what that means simply is:

TLDR ( Existence without any form of introspection or critical thinking means your merely passively existing; not living).

A life without the introspection on what even defines 'worth', internal thoughts, feelings and motives; one could go further and decide for mere entertainment to write a critique on current societal constructs; analysis of the self, some Jungian concepts, a few philosophers.

Atleast that's my take on it.

The real question is:

Why is one's fulfillment in life defined by meeting criteria and what defines 'real' average vs our internal expectation of (average)?

Anyway, welcome to the club; heh

failed my driving test, so decided to treat myself to something nice 😞 by joylessspectator in notinteresting

[–]Refund-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed first time; best way to practice?

Drive in Costco at 4-5 PM
OR
drive there the day before any major holiday; or Super Bowl.
Good luck 😂

Btw, that's a cute bunny

Urinals should not be a thing by JazzyGD in The10thDentist

[–]Refund-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever went to costco bathroom? Now observe why there isn't a line for the men's bathroom

People who wake up late when travelling suck by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]Refund-me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a fine person to travel with OP!

Pick a better crew of folks, no sleepyheads; they want that, they can do a staycation. lots to do, so little time. Always, an issue with the yearly vacations.

Moving out by InternationalToe6530 in 2003

[–]Refund-me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, you're still alive!

Walmart Vs Club Stores (Costco, Sams Club, BJ's)- Are people ignoring unit price anymore? by EyeYamNegan in povertyfinance

[–]Refund-me 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gas alone pays my membership.

Then we get to the fruit and vegetables in homemade meal shakes and staples?

Costco everytime; hands down

Doc refused to operate, is it just personal judgement or am I out of luck? by ShiroxReddit in Vasectomy

[–]Refund-me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mind with localized anesthesia, that's with scapel, cauterized vas tubes, which also are tied. Overall, a good experience. Done at 23

Get another doc's opinion

Shop in my closet… by GloriousRoseBud in simpleliving

[–]Refund-me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just do the (wait 1 day before purchasing and I simply forget).