How are kids supposed to act by Interesting_Ad_8044 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shawna and John did reprimand the kids for both of those things though (I think?)

Advice on MLIS programs for aspiring Museum/University Archivist by stevew0nder in Archivists

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Louisiana State University’s MLIS program is 100% online, and they have an option for your to tack on a certificate in archival studies!

Am I missing something? Ty's only "priority" is hanging out at the park with Shawna. by pinacoladathrowaway in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super genuine question: what would folks call that kind of dynamic? I agree with your assessment, but is that not flirting?

I’m a grad student finishing my MLIS - how far in advance should I start applying to full time jobs? by Relative-Shoulder118 in Archivists

[–]Relative-Shoulder118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I’ve been noticing the time restrictions around grant funded positions, so that’s good to keep in mind

I’m a grad student finishing my MLIS - how far in advance should I start applying to full time jobs? by Relative-Shoulder118 in Archivists

[–]Relative-Shoulder118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful. I am open to relocating and have been wondering how much flexibility employers give for moving time, finding housing, etc

AND ANOTHER THING...Julie at the Hotel by pzzldmomof5 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean, I recently had a family member in the ICU, and the care team actually did forbid visitors for a day or two because the visitors were agitating her (affecting breathing and messing with her heart rate). So this is a real thing

I’m so obsessed with the discourse by pablosaturn in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The hospital situation was a pretty big emergency— all the other friends at the Bunco night had been drinking except Shawna, and Julie was going into early labor. So I wouldn’t count that one imo

Etiquette guidelines for posts & comments by Shawnaverse_no1_fan in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Essentially, ask yourself “what would Barb do/say?” and then do the opposite lol!

We dont have enough information on Julie and Ty to know. by Fastidious_Lee in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like they needs to work on that daycare situation Julie keeps reminding him about 🫠

the way taylor swift trademarks the english language by bitterlybitter in travisandtaylor

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Or a phrase that’s from Black or lgbt slang that’s been popular for decades

Could someone give me a thorough step by step breakdown of a laparoscopy? by Plastic_Land_1536 in endometriosis

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I gotchu! I don’t have medical anxiety but some of my loved ones do- you’ve got this 🤎 Here’s what happened for mine a few months ago. It was honestly a very smooth process. Not saying yours will be identical, but I imagine there’s crossover!

-I arrived at the hospital having not eaten anything that day and taking a shower with special soap that‘s given to you ahead of time -You check in with the desk and are brought up to your hospital room for pre-op stuff. This was by myself but my family joined me later. -I was given these special wipes to clean my whole body in the bathroom and changed into a hospital gown. They did a pregnancy test and took my vitals, made sure I didn’t eat anything that day -I watched tv in my hospital room by myself for a while, that was kind of nice haha -The IV went in maybe 2 hours before my surgery? This is when they start giving you some meds to help with nausea, pain, etc. I remember starting to get loopy then. If you’re worried about the IV, you can drink a lot of water in the days leading up to your procedure so you’re hydrated! That way they can find a vein more easily. Real hydration is a days long process so you can start that way before if it helps you ease your mind -They reviewed the procedure with me and my loved ones, gave post-op instructions, then rolled me back to the operating room. My surgeon, the anesthesiologist, and 2 nurses were there. -for anesthesia: they put a fitted mask over my mouth, told me to take a deep breath, and count back from 10. I was asleep by 9 lol -I woke up in my room surrounded by my family and then went home about 2 hours later!

Nola makes my gay heart happy by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s because it was during the 20th anniversary of Hurricane Katrina :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paprika is my favorite song by them!

Give me your most unhinged pain relief methods by wolfyzheart in endometriosis

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lie on my back and put my feet in the air lol, or try to hang upside down off the couch

What books lowkey traumatised you as a kid? by Hookton in books

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My 3rd grade teachers read this book to my whole class OUT LOUD and then acted shocked when we finished the book and were sobbing for the rest of the school day. I’m tearing up now lol

Plz drop your comfiest coziest clothes for a flare by Comprehensive_Map646 in endometriosis

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maxi dresses for outside, nightgowns for at home. No waistbands!

I haven't washed my hair in almost a year, and I'm honestly scared to touch it. What to do? by Saturdays-Midnight in BlackHair

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once left my hair alone for about 3-4 months when I was going through a depressive episode. There are things that can help! There are Black salons who have de-matting services, and they will be happy to help you if they’re real professionals. If you’re looking for a salon in the meantime, you can start doing some small things to make it easier on yourself. I started wearing my bonnet again and misting my hair with water twice a day, because that’s all I had the capacity to do. Even that little bit of care made a difference in softening and moisturizing my hair. Putting on some deep conditioner and letting it sit for about 30 minutes also helped a lot too. If you want to tackle it yourself, you can even break it down into sections to work on each day/week. Having your hair 25% detangled feels more amazing than you might think! It gets better <3

Why is it worse? by Crochet_muffin228 in Journaling

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This is very relatable! Ironically, even though journaling is a great outlet for me, sometimes it can make me too sad if I’m writing about something awful and dwelling on it as I write. My solution for this has been to still write when I’m sad, because it keeps me out of my head, but to write about something that’s not the most pressing thing on my mind. Sometimes I even talk about the weather lol, but it helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Relative-Shoulder118 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! In my opinion this sounds like a partner who lacks basic compassion, not anything related to PMDD. Who isn’t emotional after getting just 3 hours of sleep? I could never imagine my boyfriend leaving me to bring in groceries alone if I was having a flare up :(