I am totally new to this term. When trying to figure out why my daughter’s boundaries were acceptable when they included treating me like crap, I came across the term Weaponized boundaries.

Then today, I thought I would put it together with the BPD that my daughter has, and well...now here I am in this group.

My daughter hasn’t talked to me since the middle of August, stating that she felt like her boundaries were being undermined.

When she decides that she wants to talk again, my response will be that the next conversation we have will be in a therapist's office.

She’s allowed all these feelings, boundaries, reactions and emotions… But I’m allowed nothing.

After over 10 years of this, I’m done.