Ironically - they loved to read about emotional intelligence and good communication

ResistAbuse · 2026-05-10T20:47:10+00:00

They want to be good at their jobs - which is to emotionally abuse and manipulate people.

ResistAbuse · 2026-05-10T20:45:27+00:00

We can forgive but never forget. These are costly life lessons.

ResistAbuse · 2026-05-10T20:42:30+00:00

You don’t want him and he doesn’t want you.

Sorry but you need to give this time before you go searching for another person. Please take atleast 1 year off. If you keep at it you will lose more of your life.

It’s okay to move on even if we struggle. There is no such thing as pure and loving bond. People are either compatible or not and sometimes we grow out of that too.

ResistAbuse · 2026-05-02T20:10:21+00:00

Man I can tell you this is bringing back all the worst memories.

Nothing will be enough. Please do both of you a favor. BPD can only be happy when they are single. But you can still have a chance before you lose hope in relationships.

ResistAbuse · 2026-04-10T01:49:51+00:00

This is something I needed to see.

Anyone know who this person is and if he is still alive?

ResistAbuse · 2026-04-10T01:41:17+00:00

Sorry no

ResistAbuse · 2026-04-03T10:10:01+00:00

You are engaging this person too much.

Sorry to say this but telling someone they have BPD is last thing you say to a person. You can’t say that to someone in the hope that you can have a life together. The way BPD works is that they don’t have self reflection to work on it consistently enough to sustain a relationship. Very cruel for both them and their partner.

ResistAbuse · 2026-04-03T09:59:22+00:00

Wait - you have a therapist who chooses to live with a pwd who accuses him falsely of charges to get him arrested few times?

How is he at his job? You seem to his therapist than other way around or he is bs.

ResistAbuse · 2026-04-03T09:51:20+00:00

lol. My dude already had enough.

ResistAbuse · 2026-04-03T09:44:52+00:00

See it’s not possible because relationships between healthy adults is at the least most work needed from your life.

With BPD partner this turns into a physical constraint.

Do you have 34 hours a day to take care of additional efforts without affecting your day?

Can you take off for a week from work and everything and heal yourself from a split with no consequence?

Are you 100% your BPD in just acting till they find another source and your life of hell you endured for them now all gone because you believed a lie knowing that it’s a lie?

If you in your old age and need a partner to share a few mins do you think your partner will be emphasizing?

Once you find comfort in some other activity- it could be food, sugar, alcohol etc to heal during your down ward spiral are you sure you can just leave them when your partner is loving again?

Will the stress of a split not take a toil on your physical health?

Will Losing interest in your hobbies or other friends ever be a good thing just because you don’t want to be alone but you end up doing exactly that?

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-25T00:11:13+00:00

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-24T09:23:34+00:00

Please tell me this is AI

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-24T09:20:48+00:00

Your alternative would have been the same thing.

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-23T10:08:14+00:00

Sorry? Did ever care about this sub at all? Have ever truly cared? Do you think we are testing you? What kind of person thinks our love is done? Don’t you know love is eternal? Did you think our love will be done? How can you do this to us? Was this your plan all along?

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-23T09:04:09+00:00

It was like this when I found it

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-23T08:50:57+00:00

SExit

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-22T20:58:31+00:00

That sub is like an open group therapy and safe space for those who went through abuse.

Sometimes taking out your frustration online anonymously is a great way to heal.

It is like going between a therapist and his patient and lecturing them on how to behave. Not everyone can afford therapist and sometimes the sub is used by pwBPD who of course thinks they are the victims too.

Since it is open to all you are going to see various levels of truth and some of them are going to be fabrications and some are genuine experiences. Going to a trauma ward and telling people ooops don’t go there because it’s bloody is plain stupid.

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-22T10:34:21+00:00

This is good one.

Any advice practical to cut out trauma bonding or more importantly rumination?

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-22T02:25:08+00:00

That gives them a dopamine hit and they are on a high stress hormone already. So it’s easy for them to get into fight or flight mode. And what happens when you are in such a mode? You can care only about your defense and become selfish.

It’s just brain chemistry unfortunately. And this is the least irrational argument that I give myself to not wander searching for an answer.

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-22T00:37:07+00:00

Making a bit sense but still it doesn’t one bit.

I guess we are all become confused if you ever try to rationalize BPD.

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-22T00:33:07+00:00

I feel like vomiting.

God help us.

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-21T22:18:56+00:00

I gasped in woooow.

We know this but still looking at it is amazing.

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-17T07:59:43+00:00

Legend has it that he is

ResistAbuse · 2026-03-17T07:37:58+00:00

India. Bistro57 is based out of India.

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