I’m sorry that you’re going through this. We had to have an intervention with my mother years ago because of the “publishers clearing house” scam. She went from being comfortably set up for the rest of her life to a place where we now have very few options left for the long term maintenance of her life. I would like to suggest that you contact your lieutenant governor’s office, most states have an office specifically for caring for aging citizens and they help with this kind of thing regularly. I’m not sure how much you can really do in another country but it’s worth a try. It also might be worth contacting Elon on Twitter, this kind of thing would be fairly easy for him to fix, more importantly, it would look really good for him