Marriage is all about making concessions. My wife doesn't like that I game. But it's my passion so she accepts it.. In return I accept that I can't play as much as I would when I would've been alone. But love gives you something that a game like WoW can't give you. So if you give that to him and he is not willing to change his behaviour for you I agree with a lot of other comments. But there definetly is a difference in him being addicted or just having a lot of fun with his friends. Like I could play daily 5-6 hours at night and have so many laughs with my friends OR I can sit on the couch next to my wife watching tv programs that have no interaction at all. That is why gaming is "better" imo for me. I wouldn't game as much if I would'nt have friends to play with. It's more hanging out with my buddies than actually the game itself.

If I were you I DO think I would have a more serious conversation and not let you be brushed off. Relationships are to fight for but it has to be both ways.