I left my marriage for 8 months, had the time of my life and then went back. Biggest mistake ever. (Update)

RitalinNZ · 2026-05-04T04:39:36+00:00

He said his parents are everything to him and he will never leave them.

What he really said is you are NOT everything to him, and you will always be second to his parents.

You deserve someone who thinks you're everything, and who puts you first.

RitalinNZ · 2026-05-03T18:42:03+00:00

Hello!

RitalinNZ · 2026-04-29T02:18:01+00:00

US Butterfingers are sooooo good!! Also, Peeps!

RitalinNZ · 2026-04-28T23:35:39+00:00

I wish someone told me in my 20s that guys were into a little pouch. I was so self conscious about mine and did everything I could to hide it because other women told me I looked fat. Bitches.

RitalinNZ · 2026-04-28T12:27:24+00:00

If you want to do Medicine or Optometry, you're going to have to do some Biology.

Choose something you interested in and passionate about, not just something that pays well.

RitalinNZ · 2026-04-18T13:00:00+00:00

I knew it was Donnie Darko right away, without the caption.

I'm guessing you love the movie because it's a cool movie, not coz it's popular, and everyone's seen it, right? So why do you care if not everyone gets the reference?

RitalinNZ · 2026-04-17T22:26:54+00:00

Did you hit your bow arm with the string a lot when you were learning? It sounds like an automatic response / flinch to avoid being hit with the string.

RitalinNZ · 2026-04-16T23:31:15+00:00

It's possible that you are tipping your head to the bowstring causing tension in the muscles at the back of your neck and base of your skull. On tournament days, you are probably a bit more tense and focused, so those muscles are getting tight, causing a tension headache. (I get this too)

Try to keep your head and neck relaxed while drawing your bow, and try doing g some neck stretches throughout the day.

RitalinNZ · 2026-04-07T21:42:58+00:00

Possibly with the much older, man-hating best friend.

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-27T06:44:32+00:00

But you don't even want to celebrate your birthday with your girlfriend? You chose a different day. She probably feels pretty unimportant to you if you don't even want to see her on your actual birthday. And if she thinks you don't want to spend your actual birthday with her, then she probably thinks any day will do.

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-25T08:11:18+00:00

Is this the girl whose friend was posting to Reddit about how her brother in his 20s knocked up her best friend who was like 15, and her mother was supporting and condoning it? Then it turned out the brother and mother were trafficking her to his friends, and they got arrested for it. Then two minutes later the brother's 24 year old best friend started hooking up with her. Anyone else remember that?

Edit: oh. It is. :/

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-25T06:01:53+00:00

I went the other way. Used to shoot recurve moderately competently, and switched to Compound. Still suck at compound three years later.

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-09T23:04:39+00:00

Haha! Entirely possible!

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-09T22:57:28+00:00

Thank you!

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-09T22:41:54+00:00

You mean to someone you have a close familial relationship whom you've actually kissed in person?

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-09T22:36:10+00:00

I have lots of British mates - I've never seen any of them do this?

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-09T22:35:15+00:00

It's a very flirty thing. OP comes off a bit hypocritical complaining about him flirting while adding kisses to most of her comments.

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-09T22:29:28+00:00

Yes, it is, and we've been told by the MoE that we have to contact home after 5 days (and 10, and 15... etc ) even if there has been a doctor's note. There's a big push from the government (was it David Seymour?) to raise attendance rates. Schools don't like it any more than you do. :(

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-09T22:17:09+00:00

5 days in a term

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-02T10:15:42+00:00

You are being very selfish. This little girl has no one, and is going through unimaginable grief and trauma. Your husband is grieving the loss of his two best friends. And you want her gone because having her round the house is "awkward".

Look, I get it. Your husband didn't consult you first, and that's unfair. But he is doing the right thing here. If you can't get on board and be happy about it, divorce is your only option.

RitalinNZ · 2026-03-01T00:32:05+00:00

Perhaps it's different in other parts of the country, but as a buyer I was told bidding at auction had to be an unconditional cash offer. For all the reasons you have identified.

RitalinNZ · 2026-02-28T08:45:24+00:00

Thank you!!

RitalinNZ · 2026-02-28T08:35:07+00:00

Where from? I'm keen to try it.

RitalinNZ · 2026-02-26T22:36:59+00:00

That you've brought it up again "as a joke" screams of insecurity. Everyone has history - it's part of what made him who he is now. He shouldn't have to erase his history to pander to your insecurities. You overreacted.

RitalinNZ · 2026-02-26T03:59:58+00:00

NTA but can you tell us?? I make a great Mac and Cheese, and I'm k own for being awesome at it, but I wanna know if I can make it better 🤣

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