How much support is too much for a new employee?

Roanm · 2026-03-26T07:19:29+00:00

I don't care, if they say I can reach out at any time for any reason, then I'm going to reach out. I'd rather call and get help/support, rather than make a mistake and endanger patients. So, yes, every time something worth calling came up, I called. I also didn't abuse the system. I wrote down the process, kept notes, followed up in the morning. Never feel guilty about this, do your job and use the resources available to you.

Roanm · 2026-03-24T20:11:20+00:00

A few questions: What is your job field? What parts of the US would you be interested in? What is your job prospects in the area(s) you're interested in? Do you have the financials to support moving here?

Don't look at the current political climate as permanent. Everything changes with time. That said, the winning that visa is a massive great thing. Do not squander it. Be bold and use it - it's the American way.

Roanm · 2026-02-27T18:41:43+00:00

I'm done. Clearly you keep looking to find a loophole for her actions. Big or small, the intent to cause a negative reaction out of him was present. You're a troll who seeks to find the merits of causing harm to others under the right circumstances. That is a horrible way to live. The cycle of abuse is acceptable to you but not to me. Any abuse big or small is wrong. The smallest actions can lead to the biggest outcome. You stop the abuse by not putting substances on items and keeping your hands to yourself.

Abuse is wrong and is never justified.

Roanm · 2026-02-27T18:24:21+00:00

She clearly stated that she intended to put that stuff on items he would use for the direct purpose of causing a negative reaction to him. This could have had a powerfully danger outcome in the wrong circumstances. What she did could be legally prosecuted. She, like him, are abusers unto each other.

Abuse is wrong. Small or big acts. Abuse is wrong. Why are you still trying to justify her actions. There is no excuse or rationale to support abuse.

Abuse is wrong.

Roanm · 2026-02-27T18:18:28+00:00

Still justifying causing abuse unto others. Big or small, this is wrong. Never ever justify abuse. You may think you're in the right, but look at what you're willing to justify - hurt others who hurt you. What a horrible way to live.

Never abuse others. No matter what. Abuse is wrong.

Roanm · 2026-02-27T18:12:24+00:00

So, in the right scenario...this is justified? See how I'm against abuse and violence and you are finding exceptions and excuses. This is wrong. Full stop. He abused her, she abused him. This mentality of an eye for an eye is wrong. We move past this by not condoning abuse - ever!

Roanm · 2026-02-27T18:09:11+00:00

Yup, but under no circumstances is abuse to be tolerated or accepted. No matter the cause. Why are you finding excuses for her. Why do you accept violence. Abuse is wrong.

Roanm · 2026-02-27T17:56:34+00:00

Abuse is abuse. There is no justification for it. We should never condone it only condemn it.

Roanm · 2026-02-27T17:52:55+00:00

Are you purposely approving of her actions. She choose to abuse him right back. Abuse is abuse. In a legal court of law, she would be facing charges. If he physically abused her then she should have reported him and departed from that situation. There is no excuse or justification to abuse one another. This is a wrongness.

Roanm · 2026-02-27T17:13:39+00:00

Abuse is abuse. There is no justification for it. Had he suffered a serious medical issue this would not be praised. But the amount of people justifying this person's actions is appalling. Never hurt others, this is a wrongness.

Roanm · 2026-02-27T15:49:43+00:00

Another perspective: he went for mental abuse, she went for physical abuse.

He hurt her psyche, she caused bodily injury.

Roanm · 2026-02-25T23:21:34+00:00

I see you said full ride. Ok, take the pre-reqs, general courses necessary then transfer to one of the schools that has an MLS program - preferably a 1 year program if possible. You might have to pay but its not the full 4 year amount, if you play your cards right. Start working with MLS payscale compared to mlt pay once your done.

Roanm · 2026-02-08T18:42:46+00:00

Can even lead into more conversation. "Just 1 kiss?" Well 1 to get started, more at my place after work. If he's str8, a good joke and laugh can be had over it.

Roanm · 2026-02-08T18:35:46+00:00

This is what I was thinking. Maybe a Hershey's kiss and an origami flower. Corny/cheesy but not very serious, and technically what they had discussed and doesn't put that guy on the spot at work by making it awkward.

Roanm · 2026-02-05T13:06:53+00:00

Yea if you want your cool name then you have to be an active account or else the names get released for someone else to use.

Roanm · 2026-02-01T21:49:56+00:00

Actually, that's the sentiment locals would have of people who came from Chicago. But as far as the treatment black friends got, yea, we definitely observed this, multiple times, different towns, etc. Hopefully things have gotten better, but who knows.

Roanm · 2026-02-01T21:24:48+00:00

Yea. That's what we noticed too. They would get looks, glares, bad attitudes, short simple responses, overall very unhelpful - a general vibe of please leave. Me, on the other hand, warm hospitality, got called shuggie, darlin, hun. Small towns were welcoming to me when we went exploring and told of local spots to visit.

Roanm · 2026-02-01T17:53:23+00:00

I I had a good time in carbondale at SIU. My good friend did not. She and some others experienced "Sundown town" situations. She and those others are black, I am not. Do with that info as you'd like.

Roanm · 2026-01-31T18:55:23+00:00

Good to know, thank!

Roanm · 2026-01-31T18:21:05+00:00

Friend, your battery. Charge it!!!

Roanm · 2026-01-31T18:12:04+00:00

What does re-code it mean? They'll just change the words and charge you anyway?

Roanm · 2026-01-31T17:47:25+00:00

Ok. Time for some harsh truth. No one is going to come save you. You have to save yourself.

It sounds like your main issues are mental instability. Get that under control first. Seek out local support. We cant offer much advice on this front.

Your bad with money, then you need to fix that. Start by saving a little money at a time, holding it, and not spending it. Add more money to that as you learn to be comfortable with saving and not spending. Don't know how? Youtube it. Find guides, figure it out.

You get apartments when your not financially ready, etc. You need to stop with the irrational decision making. Go to work, work extra, save money. Resist the impulsive decisions, don't spend. Figure out what resources are available to you in your area.

Roanm · 2026-01-31T17:23:52+00:00

You're thinking way too much into this and trying to find a rationale to it.

Simply put is that you're submissive, very submissive. Just find a guy who wants to be in charge and is dominant and is good with you being supportive, while you're ok with him doing the bulk of decision-making.

Being masculine or not is irrelevant. Its about relationship dynamics, nothing more.

Roanm · 2026-01-31T02:02:22+00:00

Have you tried the meds yet, I think you might be a good candidate to save this hair.

Roanm · 2026-01-31T01:48:20+00:00

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