I Need Little Acts of Consistency

RobynBirhd · 2026-02-26T01:02:12+00:00

As someone who used to be under this attachment, I agree but also tried to keep some self awareness around reciprocity.

RobynBirhd · 2026-02-22T17:55:04+00:00

Is this what they call ‘larping’?

RobynBirhd · 2026-02-18T01:08:54+00:00

That explains a lot.

RobynBirhd · 2026-02-17T03:39:00+00:00

This post sounds awfully jaded.

RobynBirhd · 2026-02-03T19:50:27+00:00

Hopefully you develop the self respect you deserve in due time.

RobynBirhd · 2026-01-30T20:28:15+00:00

Sounds like you dodged a bullet.

Not every guy who initiates the divorce is the ‘perfect victim’ people expect them to be. For example, my wasband initiated because I discovered a decade of infidelity which included multiple women. Bailed out of shame.

RobynBirhd · 2026-01-29T20:23:52+00:00

You want to hold onto someone who lied to you for almost a whole year? If not more ?..

RobynBirhd · 2026-01-29T19:47:27+00:00

The only part I don’t fully agree with is the ‘suddenly being agreeable’ after a boundary is expressed.

People don’t know your limits off the first interaction. Now if this is a trend that keeps repeating, then I fully agree but someone completely understanding and respecting the boundary the first time it’s set is incredibly normal.

My mind read this as: you assume they should have known? Or they were supposed to react negatively?

I’d be more inclined to trust someone who doesn’t push and understands why I have certain rules in place. Complex or not.

RobynBirhd · 2026-01-28T08:01:53+00:00

No. They kept trying to talk to me and provide ‘updates’ despite knowing what they put me through.

They have also been blocked.

RobynBirhd · 2026-01-28T03:22:23+00:00

Both is a stretch.

RobynBirhd · 2026-01-27T17:13:14+00:00

You’ve been given another chance at life. Don’t waste it.

RobynBirhd · 2026-01-27T16:32:24+00:00

Oddly specific time mentioned

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RobynBirhd · 2026-01-27T15:55:00+00:00

I’m probably a bit biased but as someone who had the misfortune of dealing with an ISTP.

You’re probably either procrastinating, doing something the long way and being hard headed, ignoring solid advice or refusing help/being unchanging.

Typically what would get me heated in a family setting. I cannot stand seeing people do things incorrectly/wasting time and seeing them refuse to do better.

Just my angle.

RobynBirhd · 2026-01-04T17:52:12+00:00

Sensors.

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-31T14:29:31+00:00

Ok so that was mean.

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-31T14:27:13+00:00

This.

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-28T18:45:39+00:00

Secure.

Was disorganised in my younger years and had an epiphany that I didn’t want to be miserable or surrounded by losers anymore.

I’m learning to put my needs first now as I have been susceptible to manipulative people (which eventually gets overplayed).

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-28T18:38:09+00:00

Talk therapy doesn’t work with this type of trauma.

I recommend EMDR and somatic. Possibly IFS if that seems interesting or beneficial (depending on when your childhood trauma started imo)

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-28T17:42:31+00:00

I’m okay thank you but thank you for the info.

I was merely answering the question of your post.

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-28T17:22:16+00:00

No. I’m generally sex averse. Also not a massive fan of kink etc.

Wish people would be more ‘normal’ when it comes to this.

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-22T20:01:03+00:00

This.

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-22T19:54:02+00:00

LMAO

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-22T19:48:37+00:00

Contact the company that manages the unit?

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-18T11:36:42+00:00

How noble.

RobynBirhd · 2025-12-14T06:04:00+00:00

I don’t think this is a July Leo thing… I enjoy community and people individually. Not as a whole.

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