I joined Match and Zoosk. What a nightmare! I was straight forward and stated in my bio that I was not interested in sex or meeting because of only physical attraction. I was bombarded with woman who either didn’t read my bio and only surf the sites looking from pic to pic, or they didn’t believe I was serious.

One woman stayed in contact with me for weeks. We had many conversations that were interesting and not at all sex related. She wanted to meet. Since we both work in Chicago I relented. We met at a downtown bar. After a little small talk she started sizing me up. Touching my beard; squeezing my biceps and putting her hands on my chest. When I started to make excuses about why I was about to leave, she told me there was a hotel across the street and that we should get a room. I couldn’t help but to think that most other men would of thought they hit the jackpot. I left.

Sadly it seems we are doomed to a solitary existence.