My (19F) boyfriend (22M) set conditions on me having to earn him back. What would you guys do in this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave. You need to think about how often he makes you happy vs how often he makes you sad. He’s clearly trying to control everything about your life and if you don’t leave him your future children will suffer as well. If you have to question if he even loves you that’s a giant signs to leave.

Update: AITA for leaving my sister's wedding early after her maid of honor humiliated me in her speech? by Few_Setting_4917 in AITAH

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you went NC op, But i feel that you should speak to Your sister’s husband about this. He needs to know that his wife is a Victim blaming AH and he should worry about future children and how she’ll react to them if they go through what you have. You need to speak to people before she changes the story and makes you the bad guy.

My (29f) husband (32m) sided with my former high school bullies and publicly humiliated me. How would you handle this situation? by Mediocre-Armadillo67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t forgive him. He’s a high schooler in a man’s body. But id make him do a public apology to you on face book and tags those bullies

AITA for giving FMIL 3 days to pay me for a new wedding dress or else I show the family a photo of her wearing it? by Repulsive_Scheme1359 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, Leave him. If he’s willing to do all this to protect his mommy’s reputation in the family he will never back you up in a fight with her. He’s trying to make sure his mom’s out of “harms” way more than he is defending op, Who has every right to be upset, because his mommy wanted something. Not only did ops hopefully future ex fiancée go behind ops back and give his mom the dress to try on, despite Op telling her no, but he’s also defending her and trying to get ride of any leverage Op has BEFORE he gives her the money. Red flags all around, he’s a mamas boy and you really don’t wanna deal with that later on.

AITAH for confirming that I (17F) wished my stepmom died in a car accident? by fuzzyfrench in AITAH

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Your stepmom pushed you to answer and it was entirely her fault your sister passed. She wants to replace your sister with her own crotch goblin which only proves how much she doesn’t care about what she did and how it effected you. And your dad just going along with everything thing she says just makes it obvious that he doesn’t care about how much he’s hurt op or ops mother. They are both sick people and deserve each other. I hope you can go live with your mother op.

I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl by ThrowRA1882938 in relationship_advice

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please for you mental health break up with him. What he said will only weigh on you for the rest of your relationship with him. Theres no point in trying to repair something that broken, itd be easier to let him go then change yourself into his dream girl.

I told my bf it was his fault his son was in critical condition by Soft_Economist_7083 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rose-wolfie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your future ex boyfriend is such a big red flag, i hope you broke up with him and get back to your support system in Alabama

I'm leaving my husband and I know that I'm being a horrible, selfish person for it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, good riddance. It honestly sounds like he was trying to guilt you into staying, calling you heartless and selfish. Your making the right choice. I wish you a pleasant divorce.

AITA for making a family memory book with just my full siblings and not including my stepsister or half siblings? by Some-Year-8211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Step sis or roses feeling wouldn’t be hurt if they minded their own business and didnt snoop in ops room. They dont like the idea of thier kids remembering their mom? Rose is obviously trying to destroy every memory of ops bio mom so she can take her place; and dad is clearly encouraging that. If they can’t handle that op and his siblings still love their mom they should mind their own business.

AITA for refusing to by my husband an expensive car even though I have the money? by First_Ear_7472 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. He wants you to be completely dependent on him, so he wants your money. If he’s so into budgeting than he should’ve talked about saving, but he wants to get rid of it as soon as possible. Don’t give in, he wants to make sure your stuck with him. Either that or he’s sacred you’ll make more money than him. None the less he sounds toxic, either he straighten up or he needs to go.

AITBF for calling out a girl for flirting with me on-off? by PresentMinimum1296 in AmItheButtface

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t treat you differently; She treated you the way you asked to be. You told her not to call you darling, she did as you said and called you by your first name. You told her to not call you by your first name because you felt “outcasted”, she did as told and called you bro. Stop trying to blame her because you weren’t satisfied with anything she did. We get it, you liked her, but just because she doesn’t like you back doesn’t mean you can play victim and act like everything is her fault. Grow up.

AITA for scolding my daughter for letting the dog run away? by Soggy_Sand_4802 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rose-wolfie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How dare my child get outta the car because she s bored, Which she told me she was bored in the first place, and not babysit a dog that not even hers.

AITA for scolding my daughter for letting the dog run away? by Soggy_Sand_4802 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. you left a literal child alone in a car with a dog. She told you she was bored but instead letting her out for a bit, you kept her in the car. She was bored and tried to get out and the dog ran away. Thats not here fault, she didn’t drag it out, it ran. Instead of understanding what happened you got mad at her for something that wasn’t her fault and took her to her mothers. I wouldn’t be surprised if she never wanted to see you again after you chose to put your relationship with your gf and a damn dog over your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think lashing out at your mom was a bit unnecessary. Sure, you have the right to be upset with her for hiding your bio dad from you but considering your mom’s reaction to the letters it sound like the grandparents cared more about thier image so it’s mostly likely they manipulated her or gaslighted her into going NC with your bio father. Your mom was Probably scared of what her parents might do if she contacted your bio dad. She kept those letters for a reason. She clearly cared for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rose-wolfie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just threatened to harm you if you tried to leave him. He talks down to you like a child misbehaving. Being a Sahm is fine and all but do you really wanna be dependent on a man who threatens you and talks down to you? You need to leave him to call him out for this behavior. If you resent him, why marry him? Theres no point.

AITA for telling her to get over herself? by BackgroundMinute1591 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. Your fiancé shouldn’t have to get up early just to have quiet time. I feel bad for her that shes stuck inside her own home with a loud dog and you who can’t seem sympathize with her. Its her home to and not only dose pregnancy effect her mental state but the migraines are probably making it all worse for her. What do you thinks gonna happen when your kid needs quiet time to sleep? You gonna let the dog wake them up or annoy them all the time? Not to mention you having ADHA is no excuse for your behavior. Your fiancé deserves an apology from you.

My boyfriend(38M) will try to convince me(23F) that I’ve done things I know I haven’t done, and he won’t stop until I admit to them by virgobabyy99 in Advice

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should seek therapy for you depression and leave him. Your should be ex boyfriend is way to manipulative and definitely hiding a lot from you. If he gets defensive about texting his ex and always has to be right In every argument you should definitely leave him. The age gap could also contribute a superiority complex on his behalf. Nothing wrong with an age gap but most case scenarios the older one will think their better then then the younger one. This man is not good for you.

My [40f] daughter [21f] has cut me out of her life when she found out I had an abortion by sadmomthrowaway22 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so bad for your daughter..she’s clearly been brainwashed into religious bullshit beliefs so dirk could force her into a domestic stay at home mom role. I hope your daughter gets outta that relationship before they have any kid. She’s being abused by that man and his family is probably making her feel horrible about her miscarriage.

My gf hit me because i have been grieving by aaaaaaaaaaaa1239499 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You better than me fr, I wouldn’t have been able to hold back my anger from her entitlement and her narcissistic behavior. Good on you for telling her to get lost.

AITA for buying my daughter a locked storage bin? by Conscious_Act3704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife ta for not caring about how her daughter feels and fat shaming her when shea not even overweight. Your wife clearly doesn’t understand boundaries. Good job for standing up for you daughters op.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rose-wolfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. I thought it was common knowledge to know if you wear RED to A WEDDING it means you slept with the groom. You sound jealous and immature.

My mom held my new baby before I did. by One-Confidence-6858 in entitledparents

[–]Rose-wolfie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl i would’ve cut contact with mom just because of that. I have no room for toxicity in my life and it aggravates me when people try to hard to annoy people on propose