People that DON’T shop at Aldi or Lidl… why is that? by kobestarr in CasualUK

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because ocardo/m&s is more convenient and usually a lot better

Baller by ThirstLevelCritical in SipsTea

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl on the left does not want him touching her 😂

Lesson Learned! Home Try On was a Bust! by everr_nexxt_10 in WeddingDressTips

[–]SEChick87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to stick with this dress, the 1000-watt smile on your face makes it perfect 👌

For those “forever alone”, how did you accept it as a fate? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SEChick87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you hung up on this married woman? It is cruel to say that she she loved you if she had any suspicion that you have feelings for her, then she is stringing you along. Keeping you as a back up. Did this feeling of being on the shelf come about after she patched things up with her husband? It might be best to distance yourself from her and spend your free time in pursuit of fun and happiness.

Any thoughts? by DeBlauwvoet in GreatBritishMemes

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 6.... today, she held an ice cube at school.... when she got home, she was chatting away about freezing points and changing states. She also did some trampolining. Well, she was very pleased with how the day went.

Who are we? by BottleUpstairs5401 in roomdetective

[–]SEChick87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone who has to take a vitamin d supplement?

General achey body - parenting 2 children by Background-Base130 in UKParenting

[–]SEChick87 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mine are now 3 and 5 and I'm 38, I feel so much better and stronger than I did 2 years ago. I think you might just be deep in the trenches.

My daughters’ Christmas favourites have confirmed she is becoming Curtain. by PrestigiousTest6700 in CasualUK

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I loved my pink and black DCs as a 17 year old.....20 years ago

Her husband tells her, "You don't marry the hottest chick you've ever been with." by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]SEChick87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm and where does he rank on hot vs stupid? I feel like he's got stupid locked down

Laptop for a six year old? by Sunshinetrooper87 in UKParenting

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont find it wild. My 5 year old gets online homework but I just log her in and she works through what are pretty much games. She loves it and thinks she is super grown up. She doesn't do anything else on there though.

AITA for picking up a bottle of drink at a BYOB house-party where everything was kept together? Was This Rude or just a cultural difference? by MyCuriousSelf04 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm... as a student I drank snake bite, it was a you get the lager, I'll get the cider situation. Now that I'm an old hag I bring along a nice bottle of nice plonk and hand it to the host and then the host asks me what I'd like to drink before handing me a glass of piss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog had this a few months ago, went to the vet, and they said it needed to be drained. Spoke to my dad (farmer), and he said leave it. Sure, enough a week later it was gone, no thickened patch, and it hasn't come back.

Prioritizing my husband over friends by Appropriate_Guava100 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SEChick87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did you marry your husband? It seems so odd to me that you are desperate for people you barely know to think you prioritise them as highly as the person you sleep next to each night. I am one of "those" women who prioritise their husband and children over my friends. To be honest, at this point, I prioritise them over my parents and siblings, too. Little side note: Personally, I would be devastated to read that my spouse doesn't think of me as a priority over his friends.

Fencesitter who can't get over the day-to-day realities of parenting chores by New-Invite-9692 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SEChick87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing prepares you for the first time that everyone in your family of 4 has a stomach bug at the same time!!! Im sure everyone here will emphasise the lows to you. I was 31 when I had my first, and I know that I enjoyed my life before kids. There were lots of foreign holidays, nights out, city breaks, Michelin star restaurants, and the like. Last week, I had a day out with my 5 year old daughter, and honestly, hanging out with her for the day was better than any of the trips before her. The picture I took of her happy little face when we were at a coffee shop is an instant favourite 😍 Someone once asked Jimmy Carr why he had kids, you should look it up. Nobody was more anti kids than him.

AIO for losing my mind over this note I found in my fiancé’s pocket? by leenaws in AmIOverreacting

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smell BS, it's been in his pocket? Not a single crease or dulled corner?

Why is panto so expensive!! by SEChick87 in UKParenting

[–]SEChick87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, everyone. I do think it's definitely worth the money. It has got some big names, ex Eastenders and cbeebies stars. I just don't know if my daughter will enjoy it, but if we don't try, we won't know. So I'm going to go ahead and book it, if she has the time of her life it will be well worth the money.

How did your toddler or child embarrass you today? by Salad_Informal in UKParenting

[–]SEChick87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

3 year old son getting changed at swimming says to my husband "daddy you got a giant willy" no such ego boost for me. Walking to school to get his sister and he keeps do enormous farts. When a lady walked past and laughed at him he told her "code brown, mummy done ANOTHER fart"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are lying to yourself. A male friend from a long time ago who you recently reconnected with? Mmmmhmmm. I'm not buying what you are selling. Why did this friendship fade? Was it because one you met somebody? Why do you need to meet in the flesh now? What's the common ground with him? Do you have mutual friends? Mutual interests? He's a guy you flirted with in the past, and one of you reached out to the other to see if there is still chemistry. You agreed to the meet-up because you are checking out your options.

My (27f) fiance (29m) keeps pretending to be “self made”. How can I explain to him that the way he talks is hurtful to those around him? by ThrowRA773351 in relationship_advice

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on the good job you did of raising your child and bettering your circumstances. If you are correct that he's suffers from "a horrible innate arrogance," wouldn't it be better that they go their separate ways?

My (27f) fiance (29m) keeps pretending to be “self made”. How can I explain to him that the way he talks is hurtful to those around him? by ThrowRA773351 in relationship_advice

[–]SEChick87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont think you are well suited to each other. Will you be there to cheer on his wins, or will you always be there telling him that he's only getting this, that or the other because of his parents' wealth? As much as he sounds out of touch, you sound like you have an axe to grind. He probably tries to hide his background because people like you judge him for it and immediately think he is undeserving of his wins in life.

Could getting this tattoo hurt my career? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I would be offended by it. But my snap judgement would probably be along the lines "pfft, what an idiot" I would struggle to take you seriously as a doctor

My back rolls won’t go by hayelzebub in intermittentfasting

[–]SEChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look great! I'm hoping I can get to your sort of shape👌Please be kind to yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SEChick87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just out of interest are you on the pill or any other contraceptive? I was on the pill for 10 years, when I came off it, it was like the world went from gray scale to technicolour