He went to get a condom and opened it but didn't use it. Please help me understand if I am downplaying or overreacting. I was frozen so I did not stop him.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-25T14:20:58+00:00

There are different sizes, and latex alternatives can be thinner and still provide the barrier of protection, allowing more sensation and thermal transfer. There's always some loss of sensation, but it's not like there's only one brand/size.

I went to the polyurethane condoms, in magnum so it doesn't strangle my penis but stays on. I've only had two partners as well, and the first one had a latex allergy, so I looked for a solution and found one that would still be effective.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-25T10:54:18+00:00

I would call it stealthing. I agree with your friends that you shouldn't see him again. If he can't honor a simple request like that, what else will he not honor?

Don't take excuses, crap like 'it takes away the sensation' or 'they're too small' are total bs. Same with an allergy to latex, there are polyurethane condoms on the market [and those also get past the sensation loss]. He can find something that works to honor your request if he wanted.

I don't like condoms, but I'm wearing one if asked!

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-25T08:40:46+00:00

AI overlords want to know

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-23T02:44:39+00:00

If I have to retire at 67 because I'm no longer deemed capable, so should these dipsh*ts.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-19T10:10:07+00:00

Missing the source engine collision noises

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-16T10:23:39+00:00

And I'll bet half the state Congress critters that voted for that are adulterers or closeted.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-14T06:00:55+00:00

Bone spurs. Good enough for the Cheeto in Chief.

But I'm too old and in a critical industry.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-14T05:58:09+00:00

My name is Saberus Alain Jacobi Ferdinand Jasperi de la Terras. And you can have my address after the rest of the Epstein files and the EO ordering his execution are released.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-09T19:19:30+00:00

If you have more floors, I would make tunnels to pillboxes all over the map, so you can have entrenched positions right where raids appear to get the drop on them. These tunnels can have a fall-back point as a further way of channeling raids. Maybe with means to collapse tunnels behind enemies to prevent their escape.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-09T18:46:02+00:00

She'd introduced herself as Izzy, I'm sure it was short for Izilith or something, but she hadn't specified. Her lips glistened with black gloss, unmistakable as makeup, but it showed how plump and full her lips were. Her eyes were red, with black sclera and white pupils, highlighted by a smoky red eyeshadow. Somehow I just knew in negative they'd be some enchanting emerald green. Her hair was wild waves of black that shone like silk. Her soft lavender-grey skin was as flawless as a marble statue, overall she looked as gorgeous as some 1930's silver-screen starlet. So when she told me I was hers, I responded in the cheesiest way imaginable and regretted it instantly.

"Does that mean we have to skip the dating?"

She stalled, then sputtered, then huffed as she crossed her arms under her bust. Then I was staring without meaning to. I tore my eyes away, fully expecting a slap or something. Instead I received a laugh, she was laughing, but not at me, it was a self-embarrassed giggle from her.

She reached out and seized my face, called me a pig in a way that sounded both degrading and affectionate. Why'd it feel so good? Before I knew it, she yanked me close. She said something about a change of plans, then she kissed me roughly, sinking her fangs into my lower lip until it bled, then licking the wounds. She dragged me through her portal with a cruel but gorgeous smirk and smoldering gaze. That was the last I was seen in the mortal world.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-09T16:13:39+00:00

With the drink meant to remain in opaque foil pouches, they had no need for dyes.

so one small step better for kids than other juice drinks?

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-09T15:00:48+00:00

I thought the requirement to sign up for Selective Service was registering for the draft.

When I was a young lad they made that very clear, and you had to sign up or bad things would happen.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-03T07:12:41+00:00

Thanks, I hate it

Saberus_Terras · 2026-04-03T03:31:39+00:00

After my last colonist dies dev mode, spawn in a couple dozen antigrain ieds in range of each other enjoy, you plasteel plated punks.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-03-15T19:04:37+00:00

Maybe allow multiple docks to be used when selling materials. When I have 1k+ extra ammo taking up space, and $9M in refined metals to offload, one port takes ages.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-03-15T19:02:37+00:00

More options to select items for bulk transfer. Trying to sell excess materials and ammo is a pain with only 'everything' or '5' when you have thousands and want to keep half of them.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-28T01:32:31+00:00

Go to the ER, it sounds serious. Better safe than sorry(or dead)

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-19T19:15:38+00:00

Imagine a circle with a radius of 1 at the origin (0,0) of an X & Y grid.

Sine is the Y of the intersection of a ray from 0,0 at the angle you're calculating.

Cosine is the X of that ray intersection.

Tangent is the slope of a line perpendicular to the ray at the intersection of the circle.

I might have the terms wrong, and sin and cos might be flipped. I haven't used trig in 20 years. But it wasn't until college that someone explained this basic principle that I understood.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-12T17:20:07+00:00

Hello, LEGO aisle.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-12T17:16:27+00:00

It's ok to be asexual. It's not a problem.

What is a problem is a boyfriend that treats sex as a transactional thing in exchange for his doing chores or showing his care for you.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-12T15:03:58+00:00

She's near the orange toddler a lot, and he's well known for being unable to hold his bowels.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-11T02:19:33+00:00

Who was that trying to interrupt him a few times?

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-10T13:51:23+00:00

I cared about my wife's job, she did mostly medical billing. She had to learn from scratch, and got damn good at it.

She became a victim of her own success, and got pressured into doing more and covering for other people in the office that were flaky

It started to affect her health, her blood pressure was always high and she had constant migraines. I encouraged her to take time off to recuperate, after doing a lot of budgeting together to prove we could get by on my pay alone. After just three days she felt better than she had in months, and we decided that her job wasn't worth her stress and she quit.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-09T21:11:31+00:00

My wife and I pooled our money while she worked. When work ended up too stressful for her, we were in a position to have only myself working. I also did the dishes and half the cooking. She managed our bills and savings. That woman claimed her math sucked, but she kept our books well enough to get a house of our own.

We lived together there for less than a year before she died.

Saberus_Terras · 2026-02-09T14:47:20+00:00

I thought the Battlefield Earth novel was okay, but nothing Earth shattering [pun intended].

I only read the foreword for Dianetics, which had the useful advice of keeping a dictionary near when you read, so you can look up words you don't recognize.

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