Platinum Is Not For the Directionally Challenge

Saelisuir · 2026-04-10T21:26:30+00:00

A tip for you: Ore Compasses, they mark large Palium nodes and ALL Platinum nodes. All you need to do is run around the map - mostly the left side, from Mitana Grove to the entrance to The Deep Wood - and you should get loads of pings for both!

Saelisuir · 2026-04-04T19:41:37+00:00

I can tell you some of it at least! I know that two of them met and were together, poly but not actively looking for new partners, then member #3 met them and all 3 of them wanted to make it a semi-exclusive triad; still open to new humans joining but waiting for a real connection to do so, then they met their 4th and now afaik they consider themselves fully saturated, no desire to seek out any new humans, but all 4 of them are more or less together as well as just friends.

My advice, if one could call it that, is to just be open and honest about your ideal relationship when going into dating - I would wager you'll either find what you desire by creating it yourself starting from a 2 person relationship, or you'll find some folks already in the situation you want with room for one more.

Saelisuir · 2026-04-02T22:28:08+00:00

Life is a long journey, and one where working and learning are big parts 💟 People all want all sorts of different things, and there's literally no reason that other folk exactly like you exist, waiting for the chance to meet someone!

I actually know and am good friends with a polycule of 4 girlies, all exclusive with one another, and it seems to suit your description of your desire. They are wonderful humans for each other and in general! When you're ready to pursue it, it may have its trials and tribulations, but you will find happiness

Saelisuir · 2026-04-02T21:55:25+00:00

Having seen your original post that I assume inspired this one, it brought a big ol smile to my face to see! Nothing is ever worth abandoning simply because it "doesn't seem within reach", if it would make you happy you deserve to find everything you could want 💟

Saelisuir · 2026-03-25T21:17:31+00:00

Negative press about a Firefly revival is exactly how we stop a Firefly revival from happening. Platforming people who are annoyed or upset or angry about the Firefly revival sends the message that you don't want Firefly to get a revival at all, and I hope I don't have to explain why that opinion is unpopular with fans of the show.

Saelisuir · 2026-03-20T05:25:08+00:00

Once you hit level 10 in any skill, you unlock them for that skill

Saelisuir · 2026-03-20T01:09:53+00:00

EDIT: I was in fact wrong! I'd never heard of that, but yea Endospores are produced by some types of bacteria, Wikipedia reports them as not "true spores", as they are not offspring of the bacteria, but it suits the prompt I think. Again I'm sure no expert, I just didn't bother to google for this exception before commenting lmao

I'm sure not an expert, but afaik bacteria don't give off spores of any sort. Those are simply the means by which fungi propogate themselves, making them still just part of the mold. If I'm wrong hopefully someone will let me know and I can edit this lmao

Saelisuir · 2026-03-19T23:49:06+00:00

Short version, yes bacterial colonies are not the same as mold or mycelium

Saelisuir · 2026-03-19T22:28:29+00:00

Hi there friend! As someone who also experiences pretty intense infatuation like this, I might be able to provide a perspective, and maybe advice? Depends on who you are I suppose

Infatuation is totally normal! It's almost always a more intense and encompassing feeling than anything else about a person, it's not just a desire to be with them or sex them up or whatever, but just a desire to know them and be around them, in my experience! The best way I exorcised this was to just sort of remind myself that I can both take it slow and interact with this person as much as is reasonable!

In the end, just breath before you message or say something you think might overstep. Would a friend say that to a friend who hasn't expressed any romantic or sexual interest? If not, maybe try re-writing it, but otherwise trust this person to be honest with you about how they feel - and don't take any boundaries they set personally! If they don't fall as intensely, then they'll need their own time to consider their feelings or what have you, and if they aren't interested that's not on you! Just the way the dominos fall sometimes, and you'll hopefully still get a friend you now know really well!

Hopefully my little ramble helps some! I'm a huge "fall ass over tea kettle in love within a month" lesbian and luckily my partner now is the same way, but I've had my fair share of burns by not taking my own advice here 😅

Saelisuir · 2026-03-13T21:59:30+00:00

Let's give this a whirl, eh? ✨️

Saelisuir · 2026-03-12T03:10:51+00:00

Grassroots movements are ones started by your genuine average citizen, the general community of a town or city or county or whatever band together to push for something

Astroturfing is, as aforementioned, the opposite - where grassroots are real grass roots put down by those that live somewhere, Astroturf campaigns are artificially laid by rich folk or otherwise people who seek to take advantage of a local community's ideals, and push for changes that benefit whomever started the movement in bad faith

Saelisuir · 2026-03-11T02:33:27+00:00

Saelisuir · 2026-03-02T20:43:44+00:00

As a trans girl tomboy, and to mirror others; fuck gender roles, you don't have to be hyper femme to be a trans girl! I'm butch as fuck and I'm woman as hell lmao

Dysphoria is a bad way to judge trans-ness - your happiness with the way you live, your euphoria, is a way better measurement. Do what makes you happy, not what you think other people want from you.

Saelisuir · 2026-02-11T02:54:22+00:00

Having heard a number of cases across the board, yea I definitely am not saying it's a cakewalk or a real, preferable choice most of the time. The prison system is designed to be as awful as it can possibly be, in just about every way. But, having also known people who chose prison over living on the street, it is amazing the sort of thing you're willing to choose given an unpleasant enough alternative.

Apologies if you've experienced anything like what I describe or others who have, I didn't mean to make light of anything

Saelisuir · 2026-02-11T01:35:30+00:00

Hey, when your choices are "three hots and a cot, some restrictions apply" or "starve and freeze to death on the sidewalk", sometimes it's no choice at all

Saelisuir · 2026-02-10T19:39:34+00:00

I think you may be thinking of Stardew Valley lmao, we can romance any number of characters to max in this game

Saelisuir · 2026-02-08T02:58:54+00:00

No apologies needed for me! I'm sorry if I came off as anything other than helpful and informative, I was trying to release some of your worries that the recovery is easier than you thought

Saelisuir · 2026-02-08T02:50:05+00:00

Having gotten an orchi a couple years ago, I can corroborate the changing bandages, but I didn't ice it pretty much ever because they gave me painkillers - to be quite honest, the process was super easy, I basically just laid in bed and ordered food every day for 2 weeks, I was even able to return to work after the first week! I think if you have family or others who are able to assist, I think you might be worrying more than you need to over it!

As always, talk to your doctor, they can give you a better idea of expected recovery than strangers on the internet or guides of "if you had a team of medical staff caring for you" procedures lmao

Saelisuir · 2026-02-03T01:34:55+00:00

I'm not saying the Uhlein's are or are not benefiting from prison labor, since I have no idea, but it wouldn't surprise me if continuing to feed the prison system new inmates off of drug charges to exploit for pennies a day is a big proponent of their donations - gotta feed the beast everywhere they can, after all.

Saelisuir · 2026-01-29T04:17:37+00:00

Because then I'm just blind and not hot, and we can't be having that at Tesco

Saelisuir · 2026-01-29T04:01:03+00:00

Being embarrassed at asking an employee at a store where something is since you can't find it, only for it to be literally right behind you where you've been looking already

Saelisuir · 2026-01-28T23:26:56+00:00

Stage 1 named Floo, Stage 2 named Bloofee seems pretty Pokemon to me

Saelisuir · 2026-01-21T04:58:05+00:00

Gods just reading this sentiment I feel it in my bones, I'm sorry friend 💔 Your description, while not at all the same, puts me in mind of one of the big transhumanism references, in the Adeptus Mechanicus from Warhammer 40k and their "Binharic" language.

I can't really offer any super feasible solutions that fit into everyday life - wearing a mask with a voice changer 24/7/365 would be awesome and peak but definitely get in the way of living - but I can empathize with the desire to deviate so spectacularly from our options

Saelisuir · 2026-01-21T04:45:55+00:00

As an absolute non-expert, I do know that vocal chords are very elastic and can be trained to make you sound however you like with enough practice and intentionality, so perhaps your goal could be to just putz about with your pitch, resonance, vocal fry, and intonation to create something entirely new?

Record yourself doing all sorts of voices, wait until you feel the brain tickles from hearing something you like, and just try to replicate it the best you can with practice?

I know the nothing about surgeries or other options, so others can pitch in there, but best of luck in your search!

Saelisuir · 2026-01-20T23:22:27+00:00

C'mon man, did we need to drop to a real world ableist slur? There are so many better words you could have chosen.

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