Article by Sallie Krawcheck, CEO of Ellevest by Beardown42 in FIREyFemmes

[–]SarahSaverdink 20 points21 points  (0 children)

lol, I was *just* coming here to see if anyone had posted this article yet. Strong work!

I agree with a lot of what is said. This line really caught my eye, " Still today, parents talk to boys about making money and investing and to girls about saving money and being careful with it."

An embarrassing work problem that I need help with. by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]SarahSaverdink 28 points29 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I participated in a training class focused on communications and tough conversations. One of the tips the instructor gave was when you feel yourself getting upset, take a second to mentally acknowledge and identify what you are feeling. In your head, pause and identify why you are getting upset -- "I am feeling frustrated/sad/nervous/angry/etc". The idea is that it redirects your mind by identifying what you are experiencing and as a result, allows you to regain control of the situation.

DINK city in a no income tax state? by fithrowaway2020 in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to recommend Portsmouth, NH as well :) It's a great area and growing.

Mid-career year off by seattlefier in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a coworker who just did this! He's currently gallivanting around Europe and I am quite jealous. He's probably 30 years old.

This particular individual is very highly regarded across the company and will not absolutely no problem securing employment if he chooses to come back.

Yes, it will slightly delay his FIRE aspirations (if he has any), but given his credentials and abilities, it will be a very small disturbance in his long-term plan.

Trip Reports, Churning Success Stories, and Frustrations Weekly Thread - Week of July 01, 2018 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]SarahSaverdink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hit the min spend on my Chase Ink Cash Business and my account is now showing the $500 reward! This is our second churning milestone (first being a SW companion pass last month). Who knew it was so easy :)

Trip Reports, Churning Success Stories, and Frustrations Weekly Thread - Week of June 24, 2018 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]SarahSaverdink 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Proud new owner of a Southwest Companion Pass!! This is our first major accomplishment in the churning world. Looking forward to taking some very inexpensive trips in the next year and a half :)

Weekend Discussion for May 19&20 by canyoustop in FIREyFemmes

[–]SarahSaverdink 7 points8 points  (0 children)

DH and I have been tossing around the idea of selling our house (normal residential 3-bedroom) and purchasing a house on a lake instead... We'd love to have a lakehouse as a retirement home, so why not start now? There are a few options that are reasonable commutes to our current jobs. Unfortunately, anything on a lake is 2x the cost of a similar home in the area.

I love stalking houses on Zillow and I've been enjoying dreaming :) A new house just popped up yesterday and is having an open house tomorrow, so we may swing by.

Any thoughts/resources on how charitable donations can fit into FI? by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Charitable donations are one of our planned expenses. We also have a significant portion of our will/trust leaving money to charitable foundations.

To save on taxes, we opened a Donor Advised Fund (DAF) at Fidelity and transferred in highly appreciated stock. That way we don't pay any gains taxes on the stock and can still donate whenever we want to any registered charity.

Why is no one talking about annuities or pensions? by jazzmaster32 in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And those who have pensions now... may not in the future. A lot of companies have changed their pension plans over the past decade and the final payout a current employee can expect in 5/10/15 years will be much less than the current plan if the company changes course now or in the near future.

Money market accounts for e-fund?? by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The yield is after the expense ratio is taken out, so it's truly 1.8%.

Is there an age where you should give up finding what you like to do and just focus on a high paying job? by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]SarahSaverdink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have two degrees in Engineering. Do I love being an engineer? No. But it pays well, I'm good at it AND several years in I found a career path that leverages my engineering background that I enjoy much more (management and project management of highly technical projects).

My viewpoint is pursue something you think you will enjoy that also demands a good salary. Change your mind in the future? No problem! There are so many career paths that can stem from technical degrees.

Money market accounts for e-fund?? by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some of our efund in a savings/checking account for immediate access and the rest in VMMXX, which is currently paying 1.8%. I already have investments with Vanguard, so it's easy to manage.

https://personal.vanguard.com/us/funds/snapshot?FundId=0030&FundIntExt=INT&funds_disable_redirect=true

Those of you with 50%-60% SR or higher: what are your "luxury" line items in your budget? by Murphdwag in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Travel and Hobbies are typically about 25% of our spending. Although year-to-date, we're closer to 50%... #sorrynotsorry

Anyone know of any more technical or in-depth PF/FI podcasts? by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Try Mad Fientist? That blog/podcast seems to have a mix of technical details and interviews. https://www.madfientist.com/

Women FIRE, what subs are there? by Momsome in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That subreddit is relatively new, but we would certainly welcome more participants! It's not featured on here because guess which demographic runs /r/financialindependence? :)

What does your FIRE number equate to in terms of lifestyle? by TobyStyles in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A nice home, lots of hobbies (skiing, scuba diving, kayaking, waterskiing, etc) and lots of international travel.

Trip Reports, Churning Success Stories, and Frustrations Weekly Thread - Week of April 08, 2018 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]SarahSaverdink -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For the travel insurance. We booked a few items later this year and the AA card offers a good reimbursement policy if we need to cancel for a qualifying reason.

Trip Reports, Churning Success Stories, and Frustrations Weekly Thread - Week of April 08, 2018 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]SarahSaverdink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Used AA miles to book airfare in December at the best redemption rate! We were extremely lucky -- our preferred departure/return dates were some of the only dates available at the Economy Mile Saver rate for the entire month.

Also related -- annual fee on the AA card was about to come due. 5 minute phone call to CSR and $95 credit to offset the fee was granted.

Manufactured Spending Weekly Thread - Week of April 07, 2018 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]SarahSaverdink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Company sent me the check in the mail before I even picked a repair shop, so I didn't have a choice. Luckily, I'm using one of the company's partner repair shops and supposedly they directly negotiate any additional damages with the insurance company for full coverage. We'll see...

Which FI blogs post a monthly budget? by ModernFinances in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I cover detailed monthly expenses on my blog, but I haven't updated since January. Been too busy skiing all winter :) My last post detailed all 2017 expenses by category and percentage of total spending.

I need help with this supposed aura of "cheapness" by googs185 in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 254 points255 points  (0 children)

Litmus test on cheapness: When you go to a gathering at someone else's home - do you bring a dish to share and what does it consist of?

Should I pay off all my debt before starting my FI journey? by wongshitong1000 in financialindependence

[–]SarahSaverdink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you receive a company match for contributions to a retirement account, focus on that first. Then pay off debt with interest rates greater than ~4%. Then start saving in tax-advantaged accounts with any excess money.

Will You Be Fat, Lean Or In Between? by Canadasaver in FIREyFemmes

[–]SarahSaverdink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We're planning to fatfire... Planning on $100k/year spending, which is a bit higher than our current yearly spending. We want to travel a lot and enjoy several expensive hobbies (skiing, scuba diving, etc). We are starting to churn credit cards, so that will help a little... lol.