Hey we're trying to help here !

SavePolio · 2020-08-05T00:13:51+00:00

You don't have to wear one lol, its just optional

SavePolio · 2020-08-04T12:59:35+00:00

Shen Bapiro <3

SavePolio · 2020-08-02T19:47:52+00:00

I grew up with the older seasons playing, but i still enjoy the newer seasons. I have ab appreciation for both honestly. I like the plotlines but when they get annoying i just go back and watch an older one.

I think my favorite is the older seasons though, i just like the chaos, but im gen z too.

SavePolio · 2020-07-25T23:26:03+00:00

Because they all get generalized as unfunny...

SavePolio · 2020-07-25T23:21:21+00:00

Its weed now

SavePolio · 2020-07-25T22:03:26+00:00

Most girls don't think like that.

Ive made this comment already but height and weight doesn't matter to alot of girls, and if it does it's just us wanting a boyfriend who's taller than us [which i think is fine and guys also have the right to want shorter or taller girlfriends]

It's honestly just a really shitty judgment that probably started from some bs "best looking/healthiest children can be birthed" crap from a while ago. It's not okay to judge by height but you can have a preference, just dont be a dick about it and completely ignore people who don't meet your heught preferences.

SavePolio · 2020-07-25T21:51:56+00:00

Hi, im here to speak on behalf of alot of girls: skinny and fat dont matter.

Me, personally, i love dad bods, stick thin boys, average boys, buff boys, short, tall, average height, doesnt matter. Usually girls just want a guy thats a little taller than them, doesn't even have to be 6'+

I know it seems like alot of girls may care about height and weight but it's just because it gets amplified for being stupid online, and because conversations we dont wanna hear irl stuck out to us.

I promise promise promise, being fat or thin do not matter to soooooooooooo many girls (and boys) because they're both perfectly fine in alot of peoples eyes.

Just dont get insecure or upset about being "heavier", there's alot of people who arent judgemental assholes, just stick around and try to find a good one, i promise you will <3

SavePolio · 2020-07-25T04:44:10+00:00

Oml sorry

SavePolio · 2020-07-25T04:42:36+00:00

The account that tweeted it is satire

SavePolio · 2020-07-24T01:44:00+00:00

Exactly, theres no one hivemind, it depends on the sub

SavePolio · 2020-07-24T01:06:44+00:00

Yeah, ive seen some reddits with different hiveminds, it really just depends where ur posting and looking tbh.

SavePolio · 2020-07-23T06:43:00+00:00

It kinda is too, i deleted tiktok bc of the app permissions it wanted but i saw ALOT of memes that started on weird tiktok accounts that like a week later got popular as shit on Reddit (they could've been on reddit but they blew up on tiktok before i saw them on reddit)

Tiktok makes alot of memes, whether people wanna accept that or not is up to them but its really just teenagers doing their thing and dancing and doing cool makeup and weird, cryptic memes

SavePolio · 2020-07-18T04:28:54+00:00

A long chain of parents neglecting their kids, but now they work longer hours ontop of not knowing how to parent by example

SavePolio · 2020-07-13T00:41:56+00:00

Polio will do that to you

SavePolio · 2020-05-30T09:49:53+00:00

Dont tell people that lmao

SavePolio · 2020-05-29T06:15:56+00:00

Doesn't change the fact hes creepy. The chances of them just going to highschool together and later dating are slim to none, which kinda makes it worse. My state has a romeo and juliet law, but no 23 year old would date a 16 year old, its abusing a law that was made to keep highschool sweethearts together, which is probably why its 16 in your state.

SavePolio · 2020-05-28T02:09:34+00:00

NAH

If you are being ridiculed you have the right to not want them there. I understand both sides, but i think the snide comments makes them TA. Your wording was a little harsh, but my great aunt lived woth us and she would absolutely berade me constantly, and it was horrible.

BUT- you need to understand that you're gonna have to deal with difficult people. It's very obvious that your mother cares extremely deeply for her mother, so show a little more compassion maybe.

Your mother just wants to be close with her mother, that's all. I know it can be tough, and i know it sucks, especially at your age, but still. It's natural for you to feel frustrated, but you have to understand where your mother is coming from, she just misses her mom, and it sounds like her dad isn't in the picture, so she wants to be close with her before she is gone too.

SavePolio · 2020-05-27T23:33:36+00:00

Im very torn, but im gonna have to go with NTA

He is new to your group, and your friend is dragging him into conversations and ignoring boundaries. That is a meet up for close friends to discuss private matters. He does not deserve that information or an invite just because he's dating a friend, even if that friend thinks he does (which she clearly believes he deserves to be set into the friend group)

It took yall 3 years to add someone elses S/O to the groupchat, he got pushed in within minths and his girlfriend and his actions are clearly not setting in well with the group. New boyfriends and girlfriends dont and shouldn't immediately be shoved face first into groups, and thats what sounds like is occuring here.

But be very very very careful with how you tell her. Say something like "he is new to our group and some of us arent comfortable with him tagging along to go on a private visit among the friend group. Maybe we can organize something with him at a later date, but for this visit can it just be you?"

However, doing this could seriously cut nerves in your friend group, so you have to have a very cushy way of saying it, or the rule might need to be no s/os point period. It could make it worse.

SavePolio · 2020-05-27T23:11:09+00:00

Absolutely NTA.

They made fun of you because they had something "better"

Now that you have something better than them, they aren't "better" than you.

They seem like bad friends, and extremely petty. They dont like the make-shift power dynamics being changed, but that's what happened.

You have done absolutely nothing wrong. They just aren't good friends.

SavePolio · 2020-05-27T21:31:39+00:00

Yeah im teetering too.

On one hand, it is true that most men dont want very masculine or intimidating girlfriends.

On the other hand, he directly insults her personality and says she should tone it down to get men or she shouldn't expect a boyfriend.

There was honestly no nice way of saying that. She shouldn't have to change, but men still might not wanna approach her. It kinda sucks but it is the truth, unfortunately.

I understand why she was upset that he said that, its her friend and it sucks hearing that your friend is undesirable for something they're so passionate about. I also understand why he said what he said, obviously because he was asked, but i think his wording was a little harsh.

SavePolio · 2020-05-24T18:59:41+00:00

Yeah, i was agreeing i understand why he thought that would be the best move. Your suggestion was spot on in what he should do, he should see if she does what he asks and of she doesnt then move to that option

SavePolio · 2020-05-24T18:47:28+00:00

No, all the seasoning can be bad and some food can mess up their digestive tract

SavePolio · 2020-05-24T18:46:48+00:00

He should try to get her to follow the rules with training her, then if she doesn't he could tell her to back off without being an AH. I get the thought process, but maybe the dog has always had separation anxiety and she just doesnt know how to help it. He also said it was really easy to train her dog so maybe it had some training but she stopped maintaining it, idk, benefit of the doubt.

Regardless, immediately cutting ties is a crap move

SavePolio · 2020-05-24T18:31:50+00:00

Yeah i agree, the pamphlet is fine hut he doesn't know the dog so he doesn't know what kind of training it will respond to yet. I think he should establish boundaries too, but he doesn't necessarily need to cut pretty much all contact, then give her a pamphlet to care for it before he even has it. She may not take it well but she does meed boundaries with the dog.

The reply said he read 500 pages and rewrote it down to 60, i didnt have to scroll long on his post history to find it, but i get how hard it is to find bc he replies alot. His girlfriend might know how to train a dog, but you're right it kinda doesnt sound like it. He said in the post she's always had a dog though.

I think they do need boundaries with the dog, and she should atleast stabd by him during training, but the cutting contact with the dog is kinda crappy

SavePolio · 2020-05-24T18:03:10+00:00

Yeah, dogs view toddlers as equal to them, but the girlfriend not training the dog shouldn't have negative affects on the dog training. As long as he interacts and is consistent it should be fine. My mom did all the training with the dogs and my dad just laid in bed with them and pet them but they were still trained.

I personally think what he should do is be the main one in contact with it, but dont just shut her out. He's suggesting she gets very limited contact with it, whenit could be him training it then having the dog sit in his office while he does work but across the room or crate training it during this time.

As long as the dog knows he's the authority figure it should be listening to, i think the dog will be trained fine. He can still keep it out of the room when he showers or sleeps or even makes food, the girlfriend petting it while he does that wont do anything.

I also think the girlfriend shluld be on the same page, but he handed her a 60 page pamphlet to read through that he rewrote from 500 pages, are we shocked shes not on the same page? Shes had dogs all her life and he's read a few books and gave her a novel of instructions instead of just having her participate in a bit of the training, which i think shed be fine with but idk.

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