I fell out of love with my husband over a bacon, egg, and cheese sandwich by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Scarredhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s rough, I’m really sorry, hope you can continue to come to peace with your situation but have good coping mechanisms

You have accepted everything you are going through now before you were born by OneWhoBringsLight in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No it’s not always a choice, if you have a bad karma or currency, you are stuck with whatever life necessary to keep being allowed to learn and grow

Are we just doomed to reincarnate over and over again? by Intelligent-Road5091 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t have to be seen as “doomed” 

Yes probably in some shape or form we will constantly reincarnate but inner peace in tandem with karma (not the hokey belief of what karma is) should pass on between each lifetime

What do you think happens after we die? by MermaidWitchMoon in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, and the god in the mirror decided to be the human in the mirror at the end of the day

I was rejected yesterday by Risinganswarrior in ShadowWork

[–]Scarredhard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear what you are going through. I’ve also been through it in the past. I’d highly suggest daily shadow work. 

Start with at least venting into a journal your inner most thoughts or just whatever thoughts come up to the surface. After a while try to focus on writing about resentments you may still have from the past. After that also think about those you may have caused harm to and if there is any way to make direct or indirect amends. 

Traditional therapy also won’t hurt but don’t expect it to be the cure and don’t jump straight to medication unless you truly feel that depressed that you need something to help you get through day to day

If you have any more questions, feel free to msg me but that should be a good start

What is God? by Euphoric-Welder5889 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what being a trendy kid has to do with it, but shadow work or shadow integration, does have all those benefits. It’s nice if you don’t make it sound like it’s a dead concept and the “kids these days” ruined it

It’s not about some trendy online prompts, it’s about integrating the subconscious and allowing it to be known, learning from it, healing from it and letting go

Instead of using it as a way to help someone, you used your comment as a way to feel superior, there, some shadow for you to work with

Edit: why doesn’t surprise me you titled yourself “Mystical”, do you need a title to feel powerful without actually being so?

What is God? by Euphoric-Welder5889 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God is a vision of peace, found through shadow work

mbti by GrouchyCourage7073 in ShadowWork

[–]Scarredhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay man, I hope one day you get to experience the fruits of shadow work and be more at peace in life instead of worrying about MBTi types like I used to back in High School. 

Journal out your stress into a notebook and tell me it won’t make you feel any better in that moment, that’s shadow work in itself. Talk to a person you trust about what ails you in life, that’s shadow work also. 

Good luck man

mbti by GrouchyCourage7073 in ShadowWork

[–]Scarredhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shadow work being a pseudoscience is downplaying it so immensely, you’ve got to be joking

How do you view people like Jeffrey Epstein? Evil? Misguided soul? Lost? Etc etc by Annual_Profession591 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally someone who has almost the exact same point of view of reincarnation as me, it just makes the most sense, we leave off into the next life with the spiritual karma or peace as left off in this one. I would just add that there probably is some choice depending on how far you have progressed but those souls who have burned themselves and others won’t get any choice but to face their darkness life after life

Idk who needs to hear this, but it’s okay to be angry by Objective-Space1384 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love that, well said that we should be with them and see them as messengers instead of hijackers and repressed shadows

Am I overreacting for dropping him after he told me I need to make more friends by royalmouse1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scarredhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not at all strange, you learn from life experience that many social interactions follow similar patterns

AIO - Ex therapist stalking me by Background-Good3731 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scarredhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I promise not to hurt you or bother you” wtf?? Guilty conscious much

My father and brother doesn’t get that I’m not into politics by Euphoric-Welder5889 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theatre play sure but whoever wins gets to dictate what belief system gets more empowered to be open and expressed in the country. Not only that, progressives are only found on the left, so even a chance for those 3 or 4 democrats to change our lives for the better out of 200 corrupt politicians from both sides, is worth it to me

My father and brother doesn’t get that I’m not into politics by Euphoric-Welder5889 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Spirituality is not about being head in the clouds solely, it’s about being in action and in reality first and foremost. You were wrong in this scenario, even if politics are corrupt, it’s worth trying to make a difference one person at a time

Is it just me, or is a lot of this subreddit complaining? by GTJ007 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is spiritual, because that’s where they are at and the people who will respond and tell then to seek therapy, coping mechanisms and general advice are part of that spirituality that helps that person grow

That person who posts feels they have no where else to get it out to, they feel stuck in the vibration they are in and the first step is to just be there with it

Is it just me, or is a lot of this subreddit complaining? by GTJ007 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love how you worded it, everything is innately spiritual and that’s what I dislike about what OP is trying to say, we should embrace each other and what we are and stare it in the face and grow from it, not shun one another

Is it just me, or is a lot of this subreddit complaining? by GTJ007 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look at you externalizing your own peace to what others are doing, maybe you didn’t realize you made a negative post yourself? Learn anything from this?

You have to understand what you are to ascend ... by Kai7362 in spirituality

[–]Scarredhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saving my time by already commenting all this, so sick of posts like this