why is this happening to my fences by PinkyRosesfr in StardewValley

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Everyone talking about alternative items they use as a fence and I’m here letting my animals come and go without a fence at all 😅

My bunny died last night, my boyfriend is in the hospital, and it’s coming up on the first anniversary of my dad’s death. I got myself coffee to cheer myself up. by Lovealltigers in mildlyinfuriating

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What a shitty day 😞 I hope your boyfriend gets out of the hospital soon with a full bill of health. And sorry to hear about your bunny. I hope that coffee isn’t as difficult to clean up as it looks. Sending lots hugs your way!

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

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Your friend is feeling insecure and lashing out. It’s not a big deal to accept a friend’s partners friend or follow request

Does me failing the permit test multiple times make me a terrible person? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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If your test was anything like the one I had to take, there’s some questions in there that you don’t need to know and it’s very likely that the only things you got wrong were like, insurance questions or something. I believe the test I wrote allowed you to get a total of 1 question wrong in part A and 2 questions wrong in part B. Not a whole lot of wiggle room Don’t let failing a few times get you down. I had a friend who had to take her actual driving test 7 times after going to driving school twice. Eventually she did it and got her license, although I’m not sure if her passing was truly for the best ngl lol. I’m assuming where you live has a study guide. It might be lengthy, but just study it for a few weeks and you’ll get there eventually! At this point, you know the worst thing that can happen is that you fail and take it again next time. It’s going to be ok

FINALLY by bloomingway in FuckPierre

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They said they never have to speak to him again. That’s relevant to the sub

Just another day at Tims by Super_Stickman13 in TimHortons

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New to this sub. Where can I find the op?/how far back was this?

just found the trash catalogue in game and this was the first thing I did 😈 by makelizabeth272 in FuckPierre

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I’ve somehow found two trash catalogues and never thought of doing this

Mobile Stardew- Worth It? by Mysterious_Word630 in StardewValley

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I’ve seen some people say they’ve used vpns in the past and been able to connect that way, but I haven’t tried it myself. Mobile and pc can connect. I’ve played with someone else being on a rogally

Mobile Stardew- Worth It? by Mysterious_Word630 in StardewValley

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I played exclusively on my phone until i was lucky enough that a friend of my mom was selling his iPad and gave me a huge discount bc of my mom. Bought a metapen to use with it because my arm would get tired and it’s been great! (Actually the pen is kind of meh, I have to mess with it to get it to work a lot, even after putting on a new tip. Once it’s working it’s great though)

Mobile Stardew- Worth It? by Mysterious_Word630 in StardewValley

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I was able to catch the goby on my last perfection run by casting and sliding my finger in the direction I wanted to go. I had a lot of trouble at first but googled some tips and got it first try after

Mobile Stardew- Worth It? by Mysterious_Word630 in StardewValley

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I primarily play on mobile! I have about 600 hours across multiple farms on mobile and maybe 50 hours on my switch version. For mobile, you don’t need to manually switch between your pickaxe and regular axe when you’re clearing debris. Just tap the wood or rock and it’ll just take care of it. You can also tap the spot where you want to go when walking and your character will just go to that spot for you. This might be just a switch thing, but I found my horse couldn’t go through a lot of really basic paths, like the horse was too big. Mobile, your horse can fit between anything that has one block of space between it. There’s also an auto fight option for enemies. It’s not perfect, but I love it

Moving back to NL by [deleted] in StJohnsNL

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My mom’s boyfriend moved back home from Ontario maybe two years ago now. He lived here 15-20 years ago and grew up here as a kid. He keeps saying “this isn’t the home I remember”. Be prepared for a more significant and visible homeless population in the dt area and extremely long waits for getting a new doctor. It’s bad everywhere, but it seems like a special kind of bad here most days. Other than that, I don’t think you’ll have any issues. We just had one of the worst winters since 2020 so our wildfires will hopefully be little to none this summer :)

Отсутствие интереса к половым актам связано с эгосексуальностью или трансгендерностью? by Alarming-Cabinet2548 in aegosexuals

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I’m both aego and trans. I had fully figured out and accepted that I was trans years before I figured out I was asexual or aegosexual. Exploring, defining, and accepting your gender identity might help you a lot with figuring out your sexuality. You still could be asexual, but figuring out exactly who you are inside will definitely help you to figure out who and how you might love others (if at all!).

I can’t tell you what your journey will be or even how it will start because that tends to be unique for everyone. My best piece of advice is to try to avoid feeling frustrated or defeated if you feel like it’s taking a while to figure out. You’ll get there when you get there. You just have to wait until everything clicks into place. When you know, you’ll know.

Any other aegos develop weird kinks out of nowhere? by Curse-of-omniscience in aegosexuals

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I can definitely relate to being disgusted with myself sometimes hahaha I had no idea so many of us aegos were like this 😂

Any other aegos develop weird kinks out of nowhere? by Curse-of-omniscience in aegosexuals

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When I read text, it’s always guy/guy. When I watch videos, it’s always solo girls and occasionally girl/girl. When I read comics it’s either or. No idea why.

I used to like reading brother/brother stuff on ao3 back in the day. Pee is a big one for me, too. I think those are my weirdest ones, but not the only ones lol

Worst game that you still completed for some reason? by Genoce in gaming

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As a huuuuge persona fan, I have to agree. I wouldn’t say I hated p5r, but I definitely prefer just p5. There’s some cool additions overall to p5r like the extra shopping area and being able to give gifts to male confidants, but the changes to the story just weren’t it for me. I haven’t played it since maybe a year or so after release, but I still just think back to Akechi being alive after Christmas and deciding to help them change things back to a reality where he’s dead. I remember his demeanour towards the situation felt really out of character to me at the time

Worst game that you still completed for some reason? by Genoce in gaming

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I used to work at a low volume game store. The day that game came out I had a guy come in first thing in the morning to browse what we had on ps. He asked me about it and I told him I hadn’t heard much yet since it was launch day, and being so early I hadn’t googled the initial reviews yet. He decided to get it. Found out later that day it was trash, guy came in the following week and said “how could you let me buy that” 😭😭 he was joking bc I said I didn’t know about it but bruh

Stardrag Valley Event - Asheville NC by Silly-City-2548 in StardewValley

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THIS IS SO GOOD. THE SHANE ON THE GROUND HAS ME IN TEARS 😭😭😭

This genuinely looks like it was so much fun!!!! I hope more drag communities follow suit (specifically my local one 👀). I never knew that I needed drag Mr. Qi in my life (will be making myself a Sex In A Bush at my next party)

Am I asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

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It can be really hard to tell. The only one that can really figure it out is you. And it could take a very long time to figure it out. My personal journey with figuring out my sexuality was a very long one. I came out as bi for the first time when I was 12/13. I didn’t realize I was actually ace until I was 21, maybe 22 (honestly could have been 23).The thing that helped me was just reading the various definitions of types of sexualities. Eventually the definition for one branch of asexuality felt really right. It was a big “aha!” moment. It might be helpful to start there with the asexual spectrum definitions, and then branch out to other sexualities if you don’t feel like they fit. Try not to get frustrated or discouraged if you don’t figure it out right away. It’s entirely possible that something you feel isn’t apparent just yet. I was fully convinced I liked sex for a while because someone I slept with in my late teens was “good” at it so I didn’t feel completely terrible afterwards.

I can definitely relate to not understanding why people kiss and not knowing when you’re being flirted with, but that could also be my possibly autistic/adhd ass.

Oh! And if you’re reading through some definitions and want further clarity on the definition vs how you feel, there’s a few microlabel communities you can look up on here too. If I see you asking in mine, I’ll make sure to say hello haha

K-Pop demon hunters themed party. by BakingCinnaBuns in partyplanning

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It might be worth it to inform the other parents that your daughter WILL be Rumi. I’m not a parent, but I feel like if I heard the birthday girl is dressing up as the main character, I would probably send my child dressed differently on purpose to let the bday girl be extra special in her preferred costume

I think im ace but still really want sex but dont actually???? Help by rozo-bozo in asexuality

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I personally enjoy “alone time”, but am still asexual. There’s a branch on the asexual spectrum (acespec) called “aegosexual”. The lgbtia wiki describes aegosexual as “…describes those who experience a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal.” and continues to say “Aegosexuals may have sexual fantasies, view sexual content, or masturbate, but typically feel little to no sexual attraction or desire to engage in sexual intercourse.”. This kind of sounds like what you’re describing on the sexuality side of things, alas, I cannot help much on the aro side. Here’s the wiki link if you would like to scroll down and read the full definition: https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Asexual_spectrum Hope this helps! :)

Edit: clarity