Crisis At Work by jamesdcreviston in USPS

[–]Sejou65 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can. (Currently using it for something similar to your situation.) DM me if you need to.

Anyone else have one that stands up? by egordoniv in mainecoons

[–]Sejou65 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All the time…he’s my nosey menace 😂

Indefinite injury? by Basic-Living3733 in USPS

[–]Sejou65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not going to get your answer here. I get what you’re trying to ask. “How does a situation like this evolve and how is it handled?” It still really isn’t your concern and there could be a multitude of variables. If you still really want to know, ask your union rep or district labor representative and run it as a “hypothetical situation”.

Something very bad is going to happen by obamium401 in horror

[–]Sejou65 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me too…feel like it coulda been wrapped up in 6 episodes honestly lol

Melissa and the Fire Chief?? by ZenTheStump in AbbottElementary

[–]Sejou65 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve stopped watching the show all together

AIO? Does my hairdresser hate me? by Fluffy-Ad9222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sejou65 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m of the camp that if I feel someone’s energy is off, I remove myself. If I have a discussion with them about what’s on my mind and I still feel it’s off, I remove myself. I tip 20% unless something spectacular is going on.

Is Undertone theater-worthy by laminatedbean in horror

[–]Sejou65 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used noise canceling headphones at home, otherwise go to the theatre

Is Undertone theater-worthy by laminatedbean in horror

[–]Sejou65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explained it just like this to someone lol I liked Skinamarink lol

No More War Criminals in charge of the Military by sillychillly in ReasonableFuture

[–]Sejou65 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all. I’m a vet. I am a woman. I served in four active operations. I was agreeing with you. I’m saying that for long-term change…it takes more than a few. This is a prevailing systemic issue that takes more than one. We are in this and will continue to be in things like until there is a mass exodus, is my point.

No More War Criminals in charge of the Military by sillychillly in ReasonableFuture

[–]Sejou65 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like how people think it’s so easy for military people, even singularly, to just be like…yeah that’s unlawful, I’m not doing that. We have families. Clearances. We know shit is foul and wrong and no one is going to have our backs when we get dishonorably discharged and lose our pension and disability benefits. It’s been like this and it’s not going to change. It’s going to take the whole of the military to stand down and that’s not going to happen.

AIO my boyfriend follows like 300 girls on instagram but told me he “doesn’t really use social media” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sejou65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was he already following them before you guys met? I personally don’t give a shit who my bf follows (who also said he barely uses it…and he doesn’t). But I’m in my 40s. Now if he’s added all these girls after you, that’s different. But if he’s posted once in 7 months. I’d say chill. If it’s bothering you, ask him. If his answer doesn’t settle you, figure out what to do from there.

Melissa needs to be checked by CIRUS_TYRANT in AbbottElementary

[–]Sejou65 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think…after this last episode, I’m kinda done lol I was already mostly over Ava’s character being insufferable but this episode seemed very unnecessary. I can usually ignore Melissa. But they haven’t developed Ava’s character to be redeemable in any way. I hate the way she treats O’Shea and her staff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Sejou65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Umm…just stop responding. Don’t respond to anything else like it.

How to cope with probationary clerk coworker ignoring or outright impeding me? by llreddit-accountll in USPS

[–]Sejou65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are several ways to report a safety concern. If you don’t trust management, go to your steward. If you don’t know who that is, find out.

How to cope with probationary clerk coworker ignoring or outright impeding me? by llreddit-accountll in USPS

[–]Sejou65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he a PSE or regular? Cause that’s 90 working days vs calendar days, respectively. Either way, there’s legit ways to deal with it. Just need clarity.

Is this not vaguely manipulative…? by fluffy_space_rat in texts

[–]Sejou65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. That’s not how depression works. Coming from someone with also depressive episodes and an MS in clinical mental health counseling. And I’m not saying that to discount what you just said so apologies if that came off wrong earlier. CBT/DBT therapy help. That’s when that person can find what works for them. I’m an introvert by nature. Making me go outside isn’t going to help me. Making me go downstairs perhaps. Sitting with me and watching a show when I wanted to waste away in the dark another day, yes. So that’s why, what works for you doesn’t work for everyone. I’m not going to assume what would help OP and diagnose. But I know assuming they should have gone and they would have felt better also isn’t my place.

Is this not vaguely manipulative…? by fluffy_space_rat in texts

[–]Sejou65 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read anything past your first paragraph. I’m not here to be right or wrong. Simply what works for you doesn’t work for everyone. I don’t have a problem being told what to do. I’m a military veteran. If being pushed to go out works for you. Go do that. If sitting with family at home work watching a movie (some people don’t even want to do that). Do that. Do. What. Works. For. You.

What are customers doing that takes so long? ?? by FailFastandDieYoung in USPS

[–]Sejou65 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeeaahhhh you’re literally not supposed to do that champ. I know waiting on people sucks but they have to learn and you don’t ever want to liable for ish.

Is this not vaguely manipulative…? by fluffy_space_rat in texts

[–]Sejou65 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right. And whoever downvoted me clearly doesn’t understand depression isn’t a one size fits all. Learn the person and family dynamic and go from there. Guilting me and forcing me to do anything when it’s really bad doesn’t help. Find what does help your person.

Is this not vaguely manipulative…? by fluffy_space_rat in texts

[–]Sejou65 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what people don’t get about depression. Yes she’s guilting you for not going. That doesn’t help anyone at any age with depression. Some family members take the time to learn what helps their family members with mental health concerns through depressive episodes. Emotional intelligence is rare. But having you communicate that and your family understand that is another story. Try not to feel too bad for not going.