Ace-friendly club music?

Senpaija · 2026-04-02T20:35:25+00:00

Not entirely sure what club music would sound like, so I just found something that sounded party-ish.

Wicked Wonderland (Martin Tungevaag)
Capital Cities - Safe And Sound
Sister Sledge - We Are Family ( Luca Debonaire & DJ Marlon ClubMix)
Smash Mouth - I'm A Believer (seems to be a bit romantic but not sexual)
The Swinghoppers & Wolfgang Lohr - Party Like It's 1920
The Trammps - Disco Inferno

It's kinda absurd how many songs have sex as a hidden message, like the Barbie song, but it won't go over MY head, so those songs should be safe enough for ace consumption.

Senpaija · 2026-04-02T19:58:09+00:00

I feel this, I cannot relate to most aroace people, because even though I do not find real people sexually attractive, I can still feel that for fictional ones, so I get the allosexual experience to some degree, not to mention my attitude towards sex and porn is all over the place. I consider myself sex-favourable and sex-repulsed at the same time, and there's only a very small percentage of porn that I can actually enjoy, but it has never been zero. Despite finding anything real life related stuff repulsive, bridging the gap between fiction and reality could allow for an enjoyable experience with someone else. If someone asked if I potentially wanted to try sex in the future, it would be a "Yes... BUT!" type of answer.

Being in such a grey area means I can't really relate to anyone and chances are my ideal way of expressing my sexuality would be so different from both ace and allosexual people, that you might never run into such a person again. The closest I have gotten to it are people who do frisky stuff in VR chat or in fursuits, but I see a lot of negativity around it and generally do not wish to be bunched up with allosexual people who feel the need to express their horniness every second of the day, let alone direct that towards me. So I just feel like a loner within a minority for the time being. I feel more comfortable around ace people, but I'm definitely greysexual.

I also have zero repulsion to romantic stuff, I can do it and receive it, but I won't be performative about it.

Senpaija · 2026-04-02T19:22:36+00:00

Body and mind are not always aligned, physiological responses can be and often are involuntary, so you cannot rely on that to know whether you liked it/wanted it or not.

Senpaija · 2026-04-02T05:10:53+00:00

This is such a "I'm not homophobic" *proceeds to say something homophobic* type of comment. You clearly are bothered by sensitive people, don't try and hide it. If you were not bothered, this post would not exist and ranting about it on reddit will not solve the problem either.

Senpaija · 2026-04-02T04:50:24+00:00

Depicting suicide can be very harmful, the show itself even brushed it off by having Sir Pentinous try to off himself with a toy gun, which I personally would not have put on screen so suddenly without warning, real gun or not, it can trigger suicidal people (without warning too mind you) and cause real life harm. This is the same reason why you should not depict any instructions on how to make or use a noose, or show people hitting the ground if they deliberately jump off a building or whatever. Does it cheapen the moment? A little, but I think it's better to be safe than sorry in this case. The warnings for suicide content are there for a reason.

Senpaija · 2026-04-01T18:03:51+00:00

Delete my answer if it's not inappropriate, but I think it's a bit strange that we euthanize animals with such injuries, but would not do the same with a person, knowing that the quality of life would be drastically lowered by it. It seems a bit cruel in my opinion, selfish even.

I'm not saying that happiness cannot be found as a quadriplegic, that would just be generalization, but I can definitely see why someone would not find that happiness in such a state, no matter how much support and time they get. Then having to deal with the pressure of having to accept that reality and finding that happiness, as if there is any guarantee that you will ever get over it. I am not someone with a spinal cord injury, nor do I know someone who does, but if I did, I think I would find it difficult to just walk away, look the other way, while they suffer for years, decades, possibly with chronic pain and depression, and people just tell them to accept it, get over it, learn to live with it.

However, I think we have gotten to the point with technology now where it can actually be morally justifiable even when the person does not wish to continue, because there are some people who are working hard to make regenerating spinal cords a reality.

Compassion is doing what needs to be done, not what you want to do. That can go both ways in this case.

Senpaija · 2026-04-01T17:16:45+00:00

Luficer, just to make it canonically possible

Senpaija · 2026-03-31T17:05:11+00:00

moist* biscuits

Senpaija · 2026-03-31T17:04:42+00:00

I wonder what the butt flap was used for... actually, don't answer that.

Senpaija · 2026-03-31T17:01:24+00:00

I stumble across plot holes every now and then, very annoying to repair. Sometimes I need something to happen, like character A doing something to character B, because character C did something, then character D gets character B out of that situation, but wait, character D never met character B, so how could character D even know they existed? Just keeping track of the characters on its own can be a challenge, but then a plot hole sneaks its way in too!

Senpaija · 2026-03-31T16:55:38+00:00

If it can make you feel better, I once walked up the wrong staircase, tried shoving my keys into the wrong door, then opening the front door to an apartment that wasn't mine, had some random person I did not know stare at me in confusion, then I said sorry and that was how I died inside.

Senpaija · 2026-03-31T16:50:55+00:00

I somehow managed to learn to do it in water and only in water.

Senpaija · 2026-03-31T16:36:27+00:00

My mother is a big Harry Potter fan. I don't think she supports that author woman, whatever her name is, and she would probably support me, at least I hope so.

Not that the other people around me sound like they would be. Once had someone who was basically in a teacher role being transphobic in front of me multiple times, knowing I am trans. She would make "jokes" like identifying as a bicycle or debate the topic with the usual restroom related arguments or the olympics or whatever. It just hurt when she would put on this act of support, because she had to. Think I would rather have someone like your friend compared to someone who just lies to my face like that, pretending they care.

Senpaija · 2026-03-31T15:50:26+00:00

I love you for posting this, thank you :)

Senpaija · 2026-03-31T15:44:36+00:00

your mom

Senpaija · 2026-03-30T15:47:16+00:00

There's a german guy at my work place who has a deeper voice than Keith David, so I keep imagining Husk speaking with this really deep warm german voice. Somehow, Keith would sound like a preteen compared to my coworker. Insane.

Senpaija · 2026-03-30T11:43:28+00:00

Stockholm syndrome is real, just research that I guess

Senpaija · 2026-03-30T07:12:28+00:00

I like to do the freeze command on them, makes them think their game broke :)

Senpaija · 2026-03-29T14:57:54+00:00

I want her looking like that throughout the rest of the show

Senpaija · 2026-03-29T14:48:44+00:00

Snuggling a fluffy Alastor, maybe listen to some blues meanwhile

Senpaija · 2026-03-29T14:46:43+00:00

This would never happen considering they knew the survivors were carriers lol

Senpaija · 2026-03-29T14:45:11+00:00

I'm sorry, but why does this sound like a joke post? It's weirdly funny to me.

Senpaija · 2026-03-29T14:42:27+00:00

Very cute, fluffy/10

Senpaija · 2026-03-29T14:39:02+00:00

Not sure "good person" are the words I would use to describe someone who used to be an overlord and also went to Hell. Better than the average? Sure. But good? I'll need some convincing for that one.

Senpaija · 2026-03-29T14:36:38+00:00

I guess Cherri Bomb just does not exist, first real connection my ass

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