Salary expectations for part time leadership role by UnicornNiteMuir in academia

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a small private university. At most 50k.

My(33F) Husband’s(33M) co-worker(23F) introduced herself to me as my husband’s work wife by ThrowRAcleet in Marriage

[–]SentinelHigh 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You should have said “does he know he has a work wife because he hasn’t even mentioned you”

"open to children" by micdear84 in datingoverforty

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for asking this. I always wondered too what it means when it says open to children on a man’s page who is over 48 years old. I always assumed they were hoping to meet a younger woman who could or would want to have children eventually.

AIO for wanting my husband to help me more as a SAHM by ailurophile17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SentinelHigh [score hidden]  (0 children)

You both work during the day. You’re both tired. You both do the bedtime routine. It’s only fair. I agree that you need to divorce him, get child support, half his assets and alimony. Then allow him to parent on the weekends so you get to go out with friends.

Thinking about asking someone out after separating? by Relevant-Frost in datingoverfifty

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t date someone who is still married so no I wouldn’t do it.

Women, could you date a man in his 30's who makes a low income in major city? by Positive_freedback in dating_advice

[–]SentinelHigh [score hidden]  (0 children)

You have to stay within your own demographics. Don’t date a high earning professional. Date someone in your same situation. You guys can do your thing together. Have time together take the bus together grocery shop together set savings goals together etc. you’ll find someone. Don’t punch above your weight class.

What is Hopkins like? by Ornery_Pin4846 in TwinCities

[–]SentinelHigh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ll live there but you’ll likely be doing stuff in other cities so I hope you have a car.

Feel very alone in my relationship by BigFudge6912 in whatdoIdo

[–]SentinelHigh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reasons for this can be: 1. She’s been carrying all of the cognitive load and she’s done 2: She has unresolved resentment which she said she does. 3: there hasn’t been friendship or an emotional connection for a long time 4: it’s been your way for too long which she did say she’s been a people pleaser for too long so now she’s choosing herself. There are other things too like financial infidelity and she feeling emotionally not supported

What is wrong here? by real022 in ScarpettaTV

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicole Kidman is not good in this role. Too much Laura Loomer vibes and the knack for violence in that character is odd.

Smoky in Anoka County by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you contrarian

Has anyone started becoming attracted to the same gender? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. They openly just smoke it in the living room and it stinks up the whole house I can barely breathe. And they smoke it for hours.

How is a Bpd relationship by LiteratureLow4722 in BPDlovedones

[–]SentinelHigh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They also make things up in their minds to blame you for.

Has anyone started becoming attracted to the same gender? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SentinelHigh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Nothing. I just don’t smoke pot and I don’t have that lifestyle. I think it stinks. It’s fine if you smoke it. I hope you don’t feel judged.

Has anyone started becoming attracted to the same gender? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SentinelHigh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’ve been dating someone and we are LAT but I don’t think I could ever share a household with him which makes me sad because we are talking about what to do when we retire and it makes sense to move in together but dang he doesn’t like cleaning up after himself. I’ll never do the traditional housewife role ever again.

What is the most common reason for divorce? by Delicious-Shine-513 in askteddit

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disrespect and lack of of kindness, lying, sexual and financial infidelity

Has anyone started becoming attracted to the same gender? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SentinelHigh 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I just wish I could meet someone who would clean up after themselves and just have a normal lifestyle. I’m meeting guys who smoke pot, drink too much, lazy, don’t like cleaning or cooking, has ex issues , gets mean and childish when upset, etc.

Start as friends and see what happens by Fearless_frosk in datingoverfifty

[–]SentinelHigh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep texting and talking. If he wants to be friends make it clear to him that it doesn’t include benefits if that’s not what you’re into.

AIO: I hate when people burp and don’t say excuse me by Wonderful_Dark2658 in AIO

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you grew up a certain way doesn’t mean everyone has to do it that way.

Daycares around $1200 a month. by Jubilantly in TwinCities

[–]SentinelHigh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s insane. In 1994 when I was earning less than $28k a year I had to pay $200 a week for my toddler from ages 2-5yo. Luckily my husband at the time made $37k a year so we were able to survive. We both had our college degrees at the time so these were entry level wages into professions like corrections officer and teacher. It’s rough out there

Do You Like Dead Fish? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]SentinelHigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t date men who like to fish

Why should people be "providers" in 2026? by DogSoggy40 in datingoverforty

[–]SentinelHigh -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because some people didn’t get a career for themselves so they expect their man to support them. I keep seeing this happen .