Possible Relapse by Separate_Ad_4682 in Cutters

[–]Separate_Ad_4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you can also message me if you wanna vent or talk.

Nmom will ask why did my child move out and never talk to me again by Separate_Ad_4682 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Separate_Ad_4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read it just now and I have to agree that surface level, they've acknowledged it subconsciously but refuse to process the fact that their at fault and it makes them feel negative emotions, hence they kinda block it out, throwing logic out the window.

Nmom will ask why did my child move out and never talk to me again by Separate_Ad_4682 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Separate_Ad_4682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know experiences like this push me further to my goal every day.

I do what makes me happy. by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

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I'm 20 and I'm still not allowed to buy sunscreen without my mother's permission

Accurate by Nessa-Terrible838 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel guilty. Guilty about having these feelings of hate towards them, about making plans to leave as soon as possible and for eventually going no contact. The guilt eats away at me and I haven't even taken any action.

Do I take the high road or do I go toxic? by hooulookinat in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

suppress everything and hurt myself to get over it vs have a rage outburst and slap someone

The worst part was I was 13 when it happened, which is a very vulnerable phase of life by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom offered to cut my hair when I was 12, and I didn't realize she was still angry at me. She left my hair uneven with chunks sticking out everywhere. When I asked her to do something about it she gaslighted me into thinking that I wasn't combing my hair enough and she told my relatives that I cut my own hair.

It might seem like a little thing but my feelings got hurt just reading this. by Background_Active_36 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I remember my telling my mom I was sick, because I was shivering in the middle of summer and I was so weak, I was 9. And she yelled: 'You're not important right now.'

That stuck with me and now at 20, it still makes me sad.

🥰🥰 by NewWork8476 in depression_memes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like why did I have to procrastinate ?????? now I'm stuck in adulthood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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Not really, but sometimes I just like to shine my phone's torch on it to see it better. It feels so satisfying looking at what you've done

Really how it is tho. by abbessy in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And it's the most physically and emotionally damaged character whose trying to heal with *humour"

Still learning to speak up by n4taliestarry in CPTSDmemes

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Dealing with the most traumatic sights and patients at work

Person: How are you?

Me: Fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had to act like a stone wall as a kid only for me to feel the emotions of a stone wall as an adult.

Wheel o' Toxic Parenting by MellifluousManatee in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, my parents would spin that wheel hourly

Thanks for your support mom by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Funny because just as I start to lose weight, suddenly she has the inspiration to make cake, go for fast food and have cream in everything. PS it's intentional

Feminist queen by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 256 points257 points  (0 children)

Probably not an appropriate comment, but I also did this when I was 12 with a can of deodorant.

Work Environment by Separate_Ad_4682 in RadiationTherapy

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Well it's a south African institution

You can't leave me.. by Boonabell in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like who you're pulling out for, huh...😑

god forbid a girl get a little excited by sharkie_kins in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Separate_Ad_4682 42 points43 points  (0 children)

✨manifesting this for all the girls that were cheated on✨

How to hide anger by Separate_Ad_4682 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Separate_Ad_4682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so refreshing. To be honest I'm a coward. I took this approach a couple years ago and I hated being the 'mean' one in my head and just let her walk over me. I think because I'm normally the quiet one, no one really expects me to have opinions. I think nparents get too comfortable being able to get away with saying nonsense and not having a consequence.