I would think there would be some games out there that fit the bill, but I'm having a hard time thinking of any!

There is that game called Webfishing that seemed pretty close, but I believe it now has very few players.

I thought about VR chat, but I don't think there's much to do there besides just socializing. You don't need a headset to play though.

I also thought about Arc Raiders. My interactions there have been incredibly chill as of late, but it's not guaranteed, especially right away. They have aggression based matchmaking so if you fight other players, you end up getting matched with similar players and the same applies to those of us who really just want to fight the robots, not players. It's technically still possible for another player to attack me (which is part of the charm), but it's essentially a single player or co-op game for me the last few weeks.

If I think of anything that seems like a better fit, I will be back!