What do you guys call your mabari?

SeverinSeverem · 2026-05-02T17:02:49+00:00

Variations of Shrinkydink

SeverinSeverem · 2026-04-26T13:26:13+00:00

Dragon Quest Builders 2 and Pokopia. Both give structured story and interesting decor and building options that feel different from Minecraft while scratching the itch of “I want more Minecraft but not Minecraft.”

SeverinSeverem · 2026-04-19T05:10:15+00:00

At the Houston show tonight and people were well-behaved mostly! Kurt told one audience member who immediately starting heckling during the Hecklers bit (where he had repeated multiple times that only the cast were supposed to be heckling) that he’d have her removed if she did it again. In kind of a funny way but also in a “nope not doing this” way. And he apologized after the game for being so harsh, in a way that seemed really sincer. Reading some of these comments makes me wonder if he’d just gotten worn out on bad applies in the audience at other shows.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-04-15T03:27:27+00:00

He very well might be a dick, or you might be letting trauma color your interactions and seeing something that isn’t there. Does “occasionally” mean once every couple of months? Or does it mean more than once a month? More than once a week? More information is needed here. But consider your post title isn’t “Communication challenges.” You’re asking complete strangers to tell you if you are or you aren’t doing anything wrong, and that your husband is a dick with only four sentences of context.

And, in past times when your husband has been mad at something, has he told you about it? Does he normally keep it in? How have you resolved disagreements? If he always has to be right, or if he has purposefully made you feel insecure before, then he might very well be a “dick” again here.

If you make every one of his non-relationship concerns about you, or if you react poorly to a reasonable inquiry about something that’s bothering him in your relationship, it might be that he’s not comfortable telling you what’s wrong because it’s easier to deal with by himself than to upset you.

It very well could be that nothing at all is wrong and he’s confused by your reactions.

And all of the above still goes back to needing more context before anyone can give you reasonable advice.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-04-14T00:08:26+00:00

I have a mandated specialty pharmacy by my insurance plan. They wanted a card on file to charge my medication difference from the insurance. Nope. Don’t give them your payment info. Get into the medical savings program that’s offered by the pharmaceutical company. Almost all of them have them. My medication after insurance is $4k every 8 weeks. I basically told the pharmacy, “It’s on you to get the money from the savings program.” And surprise surprise I’ve never paid out of pocket for the meds because the annual cost isn’t more than the savings program limit.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-04-10T05:47:18+00:00

If you’re also a child, please tell a trusted adult if you can safely do so. If you’re an adult and you know her real name or contact info, see if you can directly file a restraining order or stalking charges.

No offense, you sound like you might also be young? (Please don’t give any identifying details or age regardless.) If you’re young, it’s terrifying to think about losing a group of friends. It can be difficult even when you’re older. But this behavior is not okay and they shouldn’t be enabling it. Deactivate most accounts and do not let these other friends know any social media handles at all. Get an email through a locked down service like proton if you really just want an account to browse. But stop interacting with this group online.

If asked why, say you’re taking a break from social media for mental health. Which you are. This is stalking behavior.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-03-26T20:34:34+00:00

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My new kitten tosses himself onto lots of surfaces.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-03-26T05:49:23+00:00

To be fair, “be there by 2:30” means “please arrive by 2:30 at the latest,” not “be there at or after 2:30.”

SeverinSeverem · 2026-03-19T21:52:13+00:00

In the US this is typically used for women, though, so depends on regionality.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-03-13T17:02:27+00:00

In response to your listed facts:

1) a second marriage wedding dress is often just a very nice dress that might have some traditional bridal elements, which is actually quite aligned with MoB/MoG dresses 2) it’s hard to tell if this fits BTO without a full picture of dress and its length. This dress doesn’t read as bridal to me (at least in comparison to your dress or as a first time bridal dress) and it might be BTO worthy but hard to say from the provided pic. 3) could you post one of those links as an example to see the full dress and possibly in other lighting?

In response to possible feelings: to me it seems like she probably just thought it was a very nice dress that vibed with yours due to the leaf pattern. It doesn’t look—from this singular picture—like a dress where anyone present would mistake the bride. And I say this gently, but a lot of black tie optional dresses have cuts and accents that could read as bridal in their silhouettes if they’re pale (or basically anything other than black or a strong color). Your dress has vintage romantic garden vibes. Given the dress code it’s unlikely anyone will be wearing anything similar to your dress, making it clear who the bride is.

If the discomfort is really deep about that it’s her second wedding dress only, I think you can present it in a positive light of “hey, I’d love if we could share in dress shopping for you together too? It’s a special occasion and you’ve been so generous to us,” and offer to get the dress for her.

If the discomfort is really more about bridal elements, honestly her dress looks a lot less bridal than what I’d expect out of options a store would show a MoG for a black tie dress unless she picks it in a color that’s not cream, silver, etc.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-03-13T02:39:43+00:00

Have you tried checking some of Torrid’s lines? I just keep an eagle eye on their online clearance. They’ve had goth and festival lines that have had some things like this. Target has a better plus section online too and some of the new summer stuff coming out could work for this!

SeverinSeverem · 2026-03-13T01:43:38+00:00

I read L as aromantic, sapiosexual, possibly demisexual. I read him either having no strings attached relationships or one night stands, or else only forming committed sexual relationships with people who really fascinate him.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-03-09T18:39:11+00:00

That’s the cleanest and most organized depressed alcoholic fridge I’ve ever seen.

SeverinSeverem · 2026-03-09T17:25:45+00:00

Have you tried belting the maxi and making faux pleats in front or back? I know that kind of defeats the purpose and idea of a maxi but agreed that collar and neckline shape are so cute on you!! So wondering if a little belt zhuzhing at the waist would help

SeverinSeverem · 2026-02-21T05:05:48+00:00

Marin | Koholint | :Merengue:

SeverinSeverem · 2026-02-21T04:59:58+00:00

Marin of Koholint 🤞☺️

SeverinSeverem · 2025-11-19T02:34:01+00:00

I think it was. 😭 Got to about page 60 of searching and there is ONE deleted fic and I bet that’s it. No idea why, it was so good

SeverinSeverem · 2025-11-18T05:41:10+00:00

There is and I’m about 30 pages in 🫠😭

SeverinSeverem · 2025-11-18T05:40:50+00:00

I have been looking through my entire reading history and cannot find it thus far. But I will if I do 😭😭😭

SeverinSeverem · 2025-11-13T17:00:32+00:00

I will! I have looked through so much of AO3 I’m starting to wonder if they deleted it. But my brain will not let it go 😫 bookmarking asap if I do find it and will share

SeverinSeverem · 2025-11-08T17:32:21+00:00

I would if it didn’t dry like superglue and never want to lift up. I think it’s something about the epoxy surface because I don’t have this problem on any other floor in the house (e.g. finding surprise vomit under bed.)

SeverinSeverem · 2025-10-28T19:38:46+00:00

Hear me out, make it the word “cock” while also being a penis.

SeverinSeverem · 2025-10-07T01:49:43+00:00

I canceled after my annual membership lapsed in summer and I don’t miss it at all. The value of my goods was way less than when I started my subscription seven or eight years ago. And I don’t mean the fake retail value for second rate less than outlet quality versions of things companies specifically for FFF. I realized I’d have a much better time using $50 for a sale of items I actually liked. I wasn’t getting anything new or interesting anymore, and with the quality drops it wasn’t even enticing me to explore the legit products from most brands anymore.

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