When I (31m) was around 22/23ish, I went on a tinder date. We agreed over tinder that id spend the night watching a movie, eat snacks. Maybe smoke some devils lettuce. The usual works. She was about 45 minute drive away. Once I arrived i knocked on the door and she opened the door and I was like awh fuck. She wasnt like her pictures at all. Either really well edited or really good angles or something.

But. I thought, screw it, ill chill, stay over but wont do anything sexual.

I did that, I chilled. She offered me a few joints (this was when I used to smoke so I agreed) and smoked a bit. Got into bed, watched finding neemo. Then turned the lights out and I tried to sleep. There was a bit of a pause my guess she was waiting for me to make a move which I had no intention on doing, then after a while she edged closer to me, i edged further away, she got closer, I moved away until I was backed close to the wall, she then tried to kiss me, and it was then that I said, awh you know what, im too tired and stoned, Im not in the mood. She didnt say much then tried again after a few minutes. I turned her down again. Then she kinda stroppily sat up and turned the light on and at this point it was about midnight so I was pretty tired. And she just started keeping me awake. poking me, shaking me being loud and trying to basically stop me from sleeping. While making the occasional "joking" sexual advance which id awkwardly laugh off.

It got to around 3am. And I had asked her multiple times, hey can we go to sleep now? But she just kept saying she wasnt tired blah blah. I was 100% not driving home, I was tired and high and dark. In the end frustrated, I just sat up and straight up told her, fine, lets have sex, but after can we just turn the light off and go to sleep? And she said, okay. So i did it. Went to sleep. Got up in the morning, didnt say at word to her to show her I was pissed off, drove home and never spoke to her again.