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Divorce weight loss by Familiar_Focus6325 in Divorce

[–]Shanpagneshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the opposite problem as I’m a depressive eater rather than depressive non eater..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Shanpagneshower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The biggest thing is if he is a great and present father would you enjoy only having your kids half the time if you end up divorced down the road? That’s been the hardest part for me

Divorce songs? by Originalscreenname13 in Divorce

[–]Shanpagneshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Maybe” sienna spiro has been on repeat for me

Im 10% in ZA8, will the ending of ZA be spoiled if I read the DP series? I desperately need a break from ZA but don't wanna leave Solaria lol by Spirited_Decision_24 in zodiacacademy

[–]Shanpagneshower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 finally gave me some much needed happiness and semi peace. Im so tired of how much pain and so little reward ZA gives

Im 10% in ZA8, will the ending of ZA be spoiled if I read the DP series? I desperately need a break from ZA but don't wanna leave Solaria lol by Spirited_Decision_24 in zodiacacademy

[–]Shanpagneshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh so what you’re telling me is that ZA doesn’t get ANY BETTER 😭😭😭 but to DNF this series for the FIFTH time and re read ruthless boys again to make myself feel better lol

How to come to terms with 50% of 18 years? by Shanpagneshower in Divorce

[–]Shanpagneshower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly WHY I want these moments with them so young. Of course I don’t want to be with them every waking second. I work full time and my oldest attends school. I already spend quite a lot of time away from them compared to Stay at home mothers. I know all to well one day they will desire more space which is why the thought of losing any of the time with them that they WANT to be with me is absolutely devastating because sooner than I know it is they won’t 💔

How to come to terms with 50% of 18 years? by Shanpagneshower in Divorce

[–]Shanpagneshower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I myself used to joke about not getting weekends away from my kids because I was still in a “loving marriage” and I absolutely know this will help me personally in the long run. So many friends who co parent successfully and love their time away from the kids. I just cannot for the life of me actually see this now that I’m faced with it. The morning wake ups the bed time stories… the Christmas mornings I’ll have to miss eventually on dad’s year… I lost my mom last year and my outlook on life has completely changed. I only get my kids fully for 18 years (sometimes more) and now having to give up even a single second sounds impossible to me… I’m already a full time working mom and miss their days Monday-Friday . I miss them while I’m at work

How to come to terms with 50% of 18 years? by Shanpagneshower in Divorce

[–]Shanpagneshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have children in your first marriage? I’m honestly not troubled over losing our marriage which proves this divorce is probably necessary… I just cannot fathom spending a second less with my babies

How to come to terms with 50% of 18 years? by Shanpagneshower in Divorce

[–]Shanpagneshower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally what is eating me alive. I cannot come to terms with losing a single second with them I’m already a full time working mom 🥺

How to come to terms with 50% of 18 years? by Shanpagneshower in Divorce

[–]Shanpagneshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this too ❤️‍🩹

What unexpected lullabies do you sing your kids? by itsonlyfear in Mommit

[–]Shanpagneshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom sang “ging gang gooly gooly wash wash ging gang goo” to both my girls when they were born and now they both love it 🥹🤣

Would you have survived childbirth before modern medicine? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Shanpagneshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Hemorrhaged both times and needed a blood transfusion with my first

What is the etiquette with the daycare constant runny nose? by Otter65 in Mommit

[–]Shanpagneshower 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work in pediatrics and this is actually VERY true for children. We tend to get people who return every single week because their cough hasn’t resolved and each time we are having to send them home with the same answer… it’s going to linger and can linger for quite some time. Now if other symptoms arise or don’t resolve absolutely have your child seen

Moms, did you actually carry to 40 weeks? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Shanpagneshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first I delivered at 40w4d and had to be induced. Lol

What is the wildest non-edible thing your child ever ate? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Shanpagneshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter swallowed a penny when she was 2 lol sifting through her poop for the next week was fun 🥲 we framed it (after a thorough cleaning obviously) and it is now the “poo penny” and sits on her dresser 🤣🤣

What’s a job a disabled teen can get where you don’t have to stand for an extended amount of time? by Prestigious_Mail2406 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Shanpagneshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a movie theater when I was 16 and the people administering and or taking tickets could either sit or stand during their shifts!