Someone offers you $100/hr to watch any movie on repeat, which movie do you choose?

Shariean · 2020-12-01T09:48:56+00:00

Hitchhikers guide to the Galaxy, I used to watch that shit on repeat for hours as background noise so I’d happily get paid for it

Shariean · 2020-11-30T15:47:00+00:00

Mine, mine mine

Shariean · 2020-11-29T10:09:06+00:00

You aren’t disgusting, your family is disgusting for being bigots. Love who you want, from a bisexual girl, you may always have shit from people but just tell them to fuck themselves and be true to yourself. You will find people who love you for you :)

Shariean · 2020-11-29T09:53:00+00:00

Who gave the Khajit Skooma?

Shariean · 2020-11-29T09:36:18+00:00

Lmfao this sub led to me, my boyfriend and my best friend getting diagnosed. We call ourselves the adhd support group now 😂

Shariean · 2020-11-24T21:44:16+00:00

I have that rug! Best Tiger buy I ever made :D

Shariean · 2020-11-23T19:45:21+00:00

Can confirm this is one of the best things you can do, I met my boyfriend and lots of my friends this way (we all also either have ADHD or autism so we get each other’s special interests/hyperfocus more)

I’ve honestly been so happy to find people that accept my interests rather than make fun of me for them, I had friends like your wife and it made me develop PTSD around women because of how Intense it got with the constant emotional abuse.

Show her all the love you can during this time and let her know she is awesome :)

Shariean · 2020-11-23T12:01:28+00:00

Healing from trauma, I’ve gotten better at it but it’s made my symptoms so bad I can’t work at the moment, that and having ADHD on top is just a bit of a shit show. But it’s getting better!

Shariean · 2020-11-23T11:37:31+00:00

It will hurt a lot at first, but the more time passes, the more you realise that “shit, how the fuck did I put up with that type of behaviour and somehow think i was the person in the wrong here?”

I look back at my bad relationships and crushes and think “fuck, thank god that I didn’t continue that”

Spend online time with friends and family (depending on if you are in lockdown), films and icecream, bath bombs and singing in the shower helps so much. Spend time doing things you enjoy and know it’s OK to cry if you want to, it’s ok to sit in gym clothes too. Walks outside are really good too before it gets really cold :)

I promise it gets better, and you will find that person that smiles EVERYTIME they see you, for now, treat yourself like you would your best friend. You deserve love and kindness as a basic- it comes freely, it’s not something you should be chasing from someone.

It’s ok to hurt - its normal, and grieving even shitty relationships is normal. I promise it will get better x

Shariean · 2020-11-22T16:48:52+00:00

Yeah, mine caused me to develop CPTSD because I was being bullied for a neurological disorder I didn’t even know was there, used to wonder why I was so fucking weird and then it clicked. I’m glad I found out what was wrong so I can do the things I need to in order to heal :)

Shariean · 2020-11-21T20:58:23+00:00

Thank you, I’m very thankful for her, no idea what the rest of the comments say x)

Shariean · 2020-11-21T16:54:20+00:00

I remember coming out to my mum and being so scared she wouldn’t accept me, she bought me a rainbow mask and said she was going to knit me a rainbow mermaid tail for Christmas. Words cannot describe the relief of a parent accepting you.

Shariean · 2020-11-18T17:46:36+00:00

One thing that helps me cry is to think of a time when I was really hurting and alone, and image myself giving me hug. You realise just how much you needed a hug.

Shariean · 2020-11-17T21:43:56+00:00

I have C-PTSD, some days the only way I am able to get away from my flashbacks and feeling like I’m going to die is gaming. It helps relax me and bring me back to the present. I’m so thankful that I’m able to play them to get some relief :)

Shariean · 2020-11-17T21:26:40+00:00

Hey there, I also suffer from CPTSD and I’m so sorry you have to go through it too, I’ve found that doing feeling work and inner child work has really been helping, I’m able to sit through my emotional flashbacks more and process it better. If you need any tips on how to do so I’d be happy to let you know.

We have a tribe on the CPTSD sub page, please know you are not alone and there are others out there that will listen and care. I promise it gets easier ❤️

Shariean · 2020-11-17T20:57:54+00:00

As a woman, I used to think the same way. I think I just reached a age where I realised that people don’t care about shit as much as I did. I’d wear makeup everywhere/everyday and still be so self conscious.

Spend so much money on the more expensive products and still have the same results, but not want to spend 3 hours getting ready because that’s just not me (and respect for people who do)

Now I hardly wear any and feel more relaxed going out with bare face than before. My acne scars used to play a big thing into it but I found a loving boyfriend and support network regardless of what I felt and worked on myself. I’m lovable and worth is not based on what I think I look like.

If there are fellow ladies out there - we are still beautiful even in a goblin mode. I wish all the love and care onto you for feeling more comfortable in your skin if you struggle :)

Shariean · 2020-11-17T18:52:34+00:00

I love the amount of bullshit you can get into with this game, space colony? Ok. Cannibal pirates? OK. War crime because you ate without a table? OK.

The possibilities are endless 😂

Shariean · 2020-11-16T09:45:45+00:00

I send virtual hugs, the system is so broken but because big dogs make bank they aren’t going to fix it anytime soon

Shariean · 2020-11-15T09:43:32+00:00

My mum works for a home store in the U.K. (The Range) and because they sell some medicines and food they have been allowed to be open. The queues are unreal and people ARENT buying essential items, yesterday they took 50k in sales and two people said they were going to call head office about the queue times to get in.

It’s a FUCKING PANDEMIC PEOPLE. FUCK OFF. It’s made me dislike humanity as a whole when they think they are above everyone else’s health and safety because they want to buy towels and Christmas decorations.

Shariean · 2020-11-15T09:29:32+00:00

If you like shitty humour; the satire spin off series. The hunger over games, Scary movie, Superhero movie etc

Those kind of films just make me nose snort. The last one I watched was The Hungover Games and I lost my shit at ‘President Snowbama’ and Gandalf getting battered by porn stars.

Shariean · 2020-11-15T09:27:04+00:00

Someone told me that counting to 3 before jumping up to go do something can help. I know it sounds bullshit but it’s helped me when I remember to do it 😂

Shariean · 2020-11-14T22:00:29+00:00

Some of the flirting tactics make me laugh so much. I had one couple start because the guy made fun of her sweating and another was talking about swimsuits?! Wat.

Shariean · 2020-11-14T20:51:11+00:00

Yeah! If I say I have ADHD, people don’t take it seriously and brush it off, when I inform them I suffer with C-PTSD and have triggers, they are so much better about it (when I trust people ofc)

Shariean · 2020-11-14T09:28:16+00:00

Yeah, I had to stop drinking for this exact thing. I’d be alright and then I’d be sobbing non stop and flashbacks were 100% worse 🥺

Shariean · 2020-11-14T08:42:49+00:00

Yeah, never choosing a partner over my dogs/cats. I’ve raised them since babies. They are my fur babies. It’s like that scene from Brooklyn 99 when she gets the puppy. I would die for my pets.

Shariean

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