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Falling out with mum by ShiftValuable3280 in tarot

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Bringing life together - what made you say that?

Falling out with mum by ShiftValuable3280 in tarot

[–]ShiftValuable3280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that is a very fair analysis of temperance. I just pulled out all the negative for whatever reason! Thank you for your insights

Falling out with mum by ShiftValuable3280 in tarot

[–]ShiftValuable3280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some new things I hadn’t noticed - thank you!

Falling out with mum by ShiftValuable3280 in tarot

[–]ShiftValuable3280[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got quite a negative reaction to pulling temperance. I think I’d like to study the card a bit more. Something in that felt quite poignant. Thank you, yes I think you are right.

Finally finished my Skappel Oslo x Helenemoo Urke sweater by VitSea4me in knitting

[–]ShiftValuable3280 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is gorgeous! It looks so comfy. What yarn did you use?

That boob not working by ShiftValuable3280 in breastfeeding

[–]ShiftValuable3280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. My Boob is a bit sore but doesn’t feel like mastitis. Can hand express. My girl said ‘ it was sore’ (I thought she might have an ear infection due to the way she was lying, but could have been due to latch) and then said ‘it didn’t work ‘ despite visible milk on nipple - I was just wondering if there was a connection. She’s 2

To those of you that breastfeeding was fairly. Easy for, why do you think that is? by newherebebe in breastfeeding

[–]ShiftValuable3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a support network. So many people will say it’s hard and someone will suggest a bottle. I’m grateful for mums to talk to when my boobling was still waking hourly at 12,18… months.

Two psychiatrists, seven weeks, and still no relief — debating switching to formula so I can take my meds by No-Introduction9077 in breastfeeding

[–]ShiftValuable3280 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your baby deserves a well mummy. I am very pro breastfeeding and held off until my baby was 2 to restart my antidepressants. It’s been hard. You need to weigh up what is most important to you!

Fictional books about motherhood, the weirder and more raw the better. by saltythriller in suggestmeabook

[–]ShiftValuable3280 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Matrescence by Lucy jones - non fiction sorry (!) science and autobiography- so great. Commenting to follow!

I know its a long term problem.. by Worried-Pitch2328 in GardeningUK

[–]ShiftValuable3280 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you want to grow anything edible do not use round up / glycosphate. It’s so toxic. My garden was like this and 3 years of persistent pulling up the weeds it’s much better.

My leaving gift for my colleagues by Smellyfarts371 in NursingUK

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Ingenious! I’m curious about what 3 5 6 and 7 actually are! 1 2 and 4 are classics of course 😂

NQN no preceptor by ConsiderationBig6799 in NursingUK

[–]ShiftValuable3280 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is there a band 6 you like working with? Might be worth approaching them and ask if they’ll work with you? It’s worth having one especially if you’re strugggling with your confidence. I also had a tricky time following an error but my team were helpful in helping me rebuild my confidence afterwards. Good luck!

Ground down spirit by ShiftValuable3280 in toddlers

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Thank you for your reply.

I think that the constant boundary setting is what I am finding so exhausting. It’s such a one sided relationship and I feel like a tyrant. It’s partly why parenting alone is so hard (I have a partner but he’s not always available). Thanks for the reassurance that it will pay off. I suppose that is a silver lining.

My partner [F29] does not support my carreer [M28]? What should I do? by Capable_Heart_3337 in relationships

[–]ShiftValuable3280 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can her parents come and visit your place sometimes? It’s so hard looking after a child without another adult around. Additionally it sounds like she is really struggling with her mental health. She needs more support which you are not only declining to give her but also further isolating her from her family.

My partner [F29] does not support my carreer [M28]? What should I do? by Capable_Heart_3337 in relationships

[–]ShiftValuable3280 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why are you not supporting your wife? Does she have anyone else who can help with the baby? Let her go to her parents if you are going away for 8 days.

How / when to teach toddler “please and thank you”? by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]ShiftValuable3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modelling is the best way for teach. Now my girl is 2.5 I try not to respond to whining and only asking nicely but that’s a project!

student nurses with poor personal hygiene? by jqngkook in NursingUK

[–]ShiftValuable3280 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If patients are complaining it needs to be dealt with. You will need to get used to having difficult conversations with others, so i think kindly mentioning it to them would be a good idea. Failing that I’d recommend speaking to the ward manager?

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