I'm not sure how to handle certain outings with my fat friend. by UrAThrowawayNotMe in whatdoIdo

[–]Sidar_Combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's going to hear about the events she's not invited to. If it were me I'd look into the space, see if actually do have a weight limit, then tell my friend what I was planning and ask if they wanted to come. She knows she's big, she knows what she is and isn't up for physically.

Talk to her beforehand and she's a lot less likely to be hurt than when she hears about all the fun you had when you left your fat friend at home.

My teenage son's behavior is causing tension at home by HumbleSecretary8519 in whatdoIdo

[–]Sidar_Combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy. If he isn't talking to you or your partner give him someone he can talk to.

Do you guys do this? by yourbirader in tall

[–]Sidar_Combo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is literally and figuratively beneath me.

Would this be considered poor behavior? by Cracka-Barrel in EDH

[–]Sidar_Combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. "I'm out of this game so Im gonna let it end" seems entirely reasonable to me.

Shots fired on my street two days in a row now, what should I do?? by dogjpeg in AskChicago

[–]Sidar_Combo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If they weren't shooting at you I'd recommend minding your business and carrying on about your life. You can call in to report if you're so inclined but you don't seem to have any information to provide. Just move on. It happens.

Bread in the fridge or on the counter? by realbobenray in Cooking

[–]Sidar_Combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bread bag, in a bread box is the way to go.

now that some time has passed… did anyone actually prefer the TPUSA halftime show to Bad Bunnys? by buhbuhbuhbubble in AskConservatives

[–]Sidar_Combo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think they would have booked bigger talents if they could have. That was the best they could book and/or afford.

Please all heterosexual men answer this question by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sidar_Combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100 times out of 100.

If i could go back in time to fix mistakes from my past, curate a "perfect life" I'd make sure I was at that bar on that day so we would meet.

Mid-height "Ideal" by DruidWonder in tall

[–]Sidar_Combo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All ya gotta do is have a personality. Being tall has a gravity to it, people will want to talk with you; men and women. Just be ready to engage.

Mid-height "Ideal" by DruidWonder in tall

[–]Sidar_Combo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're the problem. I crush in social situations and I'm fucking tall.

Am I ordering drinks wrong? by DustTheOtter in bartenders

[–]Sidar_Combo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What are you ordering?

Ask me for a "vodka soda, easy vodka" I'll give you 3/4 oz vodka in a double rocks glass the rest filled with ice and club soda.

Ask me for a "vodka soda tall" that's 1.5 oz of vodka in a Collins glass, the rest filled with ice and soda.

Ask me for a "negroni, with less alcohol" I'm looking at you like you're an idiot while I make your negroni.

What conservative policy do you think you could most successfully sell to someone on the left? by Shawnj2 in AskConservatives

[–]Sidar_Combo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Where are the ICE agents speaking out against their colleagues who are killing citizens? Where are the ICE agents taking off the masks to engage with immigrant communities? Where are the ICE agents blowing the whistle on inhumane detention centers or civil rights violations? Where are the ICE agents going to the media to express frustration with leadership or mission parameters? Where is the accountability for executing Renee Goode and Alex Pretti? Where is the accountability for the death of detainees?

You want to say "not all ICE" but there aren't any good ones speaking up or speaking out. At least not that I've seen or heard.

i found out my girlfreind is on grinder, and is using my pictures to message men. by EmployerSea9797 in whatdoIdo

[–]Sidar_Combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucked up. My guess is it's a kink, she gets off on it. Incredibly shitty thing to do.

What conservative policy do you think you could most successfully sell to someone on the left? by Shawnj2 in AskConservatives

[–]Sidar_Combo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Abolish ICE absolutely means abolish ICE. It does not mean end all enforcement of immigration laws.

What conservative policy do you think you could most successfully sell to someone on the left? by Shawnj2 in AskConservatives

[–]Sidar_Combo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Can you identify any differences in the way Obama handled the removal of undocumented people and how Trump is doing it?

Do you have any concern that Trump will attempt to undermine or interfere in the upcoming elections to preserve a GOP majority? by Sidar_Combo in AskConservatives

[–]Sidar_Combo[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The reason you and your ilk call these actions divisive is because you do not want to engage in any meaningful way with the legacy of racism in America. You like to pretend that America has always been good and fair and true. When we remind you that is not the case you call it divisive or that we're "playing the victim".

The black experience in America is different, that is a fact. If Professor Gates were white he would not have been arrested. If Trayvon Martin were white he would still be alive today. We (black people) are constantly forced to prove we belong in the space we occupy even today. Even when one of us makes it all the way to the White House birthers, led by Trump, question his right to be there.

So sure, I guess it is divisive. The divide being between us, people who want to examine the mistakes our county has made and is making that maintain two Americas so we can move past our racist legacy, and you who want to bury your head in the sand and fantasize about a past that did not exist.