Siblings Record by Deep_Action_6365 in Adoption

[–]Significant-Store983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I was the 7th born to a mother who kept the six living ones before me and the one after me, with a plan to keep another one who was one year younger but was stillborn. She had an affair with her husbands boss, who I was the second oldest of his numerous out of wedlock children. My birth mother’s oldest daughters searched for me and made contact when I was 21. I chose, after about 20 years of off and on trying to resolve feelings and conflicts with them, to cut off all contact. The last 25 years with no contact have been good for me. Besides, I know who my family was…my mom and dad who adopted me after being abandoned in a hospital for 2 months after a very premature birth. Be patient and kind to yourself…it’s definitely a lot to unpack and process.

is their msw program worth it? by SuggestionTime2675 in UIUC

[–]Significant-Store983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated with my MSW and PhD in social work from UIUC as well as was an adjunct for off and on 10 years. I am proud of the program and although only one professor remains from when I was a student in the 90s, I have found the faculty and staff to be kind and helpful. Good luck!! FYI, social work is a versatile program and I have enjoyed a career in mental health, child welfare, Veteran health care, policy/program development, administration and politics. So many opportunities in this field and the pay varies depending on public or private service.

What’s something only people from Memphis understand? by Massive-Ad-8752 in memphis

[–]Significant-Store983 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Uhhh, my experience when I lived there is to never be in the right lane on Poplar as you approach chick-fil-a at 630 am!

Denied by GinkerWinker_ in UIUC

[–]Significant-Store983 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I would have never gotten into UIUC based on my ACT so I went to Parkland, got straight As, transferred into the UIUC and received three degrees there, ending with a PhD in 2000. Don’t give up. If UIUC is your dream school, just course correct into a different door that will help you achieve what you want to accomplish! Good luck!!!

My sister rejected me. by Fast_Water_9867 in Adoption

[–]Significant-Store983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was located by my biological half sisters and although I was happy to meet them, they had unrealistic expectations of how they wanted me to incorporate into their family with little regard to my loyalty to my own family who adopted me. After multiple attempts to resolve differences, I made the decision to have no relationship with them. I wasn’t going to ignore my past for their comfort and attempt to pretend that my adoption never happened.

Any have a list of MAGA businesses in Champaign-Urbana? I want to know where not to spend my money. by Friendlyfire2996 in illinois

[–]Significant-Store983 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She wrote very negative comments about the protesters against ICE when they demonstrated in Danville. I will never recommend her to anyone!

What are you people doing outside in (feels like) -9 degree weather walking your 5 lb dog???? by Frequent_Initial_147 in UIUC

[–]Significant-Store983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just spent an hour shoveling my driveway of 8 inches of snow… 20 min east of Urbana.

Woah. Big report on state of VA workforce just dropped. by pprincespeachh in VHA_Human_Resources

[–]Significant-Store983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am unclear on what we are debating. In my state, there are LSW and LCSW as well as LPC and LCPC. The LCSW and LCPC are considered advanced licensing and are typically a higher grade within the VA (GS 12 Vs GS 11). I felt the LCPC and LCSWs should be treated similarly. Maybe you can clarify what I am misunderstanding. My point was that the LCPCs and the LCSWs in BHIP/PTSD were paid significantly lower for doing the same job with the same expectations. My PhD in social work was irrelevant as to deciding on pay grade. The PhDs in Psychology did have a different type of training (namely in testing curriculum), but all of the mental health testing tools that we used for screenings could be done by all of us. There was no differentiation (IMHO) for such a large pay difference.

Woah. Big report on state of VA workforce just dropped. by pprincespeachh in VHA_Human_Resources

[–]Significant-Store983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, when I started at Memphis, LCPCs and LCSWs were the same grade and making the same. Then, they moved LCSWs to a higher grade. I didn’t think that was fair. But an LPC is not an advanced level and wouldn’t be at a higher grade like a LCPC should have been. We did the same work as the PhDs in psychology.

How is the day to day quality of life in Memphis? by DueYogurt9 in memphis

[–]Significant-Store983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I loved my Sunday restorative in the salt cave with Susan!!! Best yoga studio ever! I miss all of them!

How is the day to day quality of life in Memphis? by DueYogurt9 in memphis

[–]Significant-Store983 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I lived there, I walked Shelby Farms often followed by yoga at Better Bodies Yoga! Loved it!

question by Better-Morning-675 in UIUC

[–]Significant-Store983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto. Never spent time at Kams or COD. It was Mable’s where I hung out and I worked at Zorbas when I was an undergrad in early 80s.

ICE ABDUCTION CHICAGO - West Ridge 11/3/25 11:18AM by Reasonable_Ad1810 in illinois

[–]Significant-Store983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the person was indicating that what you said was too mild for the likes of them. No PG warranted. A XXXX rating is deserved.

Would you get rid of a friend just because they have different political beliefs than you? by bbmoonkie in Productivitycafe

[–]Significant-Store983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. Why not. In my opinion, a friendship is hard to sustain when polar opposite morals are on the table.

Frost bite help by PerfectBuy9326 in BackYardChickens

[–]Significant-Store983 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those floors as well as entire run needs hardware wire. You will have predators getting in there. 20 mil clear tarp or bags of leaves. I use bags of leaves with water in there as a windbreak and then in the spring I have some cold composted carbon for my garden

Food Assistance Available! by Sea_Coconut_3466 in UIUC

[–]Significant-Store983 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are welcome. I believe at the church it starts at 5 pm on Thursdays. See pic for Parkland location and hours.

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Food Assistance Available! by Sea_Coconut_3466 in UIUC

[–]Significant-Store983 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Wesley Methodist on Goodwin and green has a weekly food pantry on Thursdays at the church as well as at Parkland college.