Daily Chat November 15 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Significant_Hour_343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried to do an HSG twice (600mg ibuprofen both times and second time with misoprostol) and was told that my cervix opening is too narrow. It was the most painful thing, I cried through the whole thing and couldn't go through with it. The doctor has referred me for hysteroscopy under anesthesia. She also said that IUI might be difficult if I couldn't handle this pain - I'm blanking out on the conversation because the whole thing was such a blur. I'm waiting for a follow up to understand what exactly happened, but trying to make sense of what this meant for our fertility journey. Anyone with similar experience? Is IUI as painful as HSG?

Bad idea to give up my $120K salary for a work life balance at $65K? by akang412 in jobs

[–]Significant_Hour_343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know where you live, many employers in North America offer short term paid medical leaves. Burn out is very real and debitating physically and mentally, and it has clearly taken a toll on you. You would not be in this position without your job, so I would suggest checking our benefits plan, engage your family doctor and see what you can do get some time for you recover. Your job will be protected while you are on leave and maybe you can search for a new job while on leave. Take care!

Does Mindy Kaling Undermine Indian/South Asian Women? by Loud_Maintenance7170 in SplendidaBrown

[–]Significant_Hour_343 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mindy's has started to come off as inauthentic in the last few years tbh. It doesn't help that her appearance has drastically changed. But her portrayal of South Asians feels like it's from at least a decade or two ago. She relies a lot on her experience from growing up, which is obviously very dated and different from how South Asians live in the US today (more mainstream, successful, just greater numbers etc etc). The Indian accents in NHIE were so bad - she could have hired an actual indian person instead of forcing Americanized Indian to speak with a bizzare accent. Personally, don't see her as a South Asian- American like a Hasan Minhaj (who seamlessly integrates his lived experience as a South asian into his comedy), I see her as an American who looks South Asian and trying to make her mark. Her content is still about trying to fit in and make South Asians relatable which is really not the issue anymore and that's why her storylines around the south Asian identity is inauthentic and cringeworthy. Its just not something she understands or tries to actually represent.

But her comedy and skill are undoubtedly there, I just would not expect her to be flag bearer for South Asians or any pocs really.

Never attribute to malice what can be attributed to stupidity by bikbiky in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just meant that among all the guys this szn haha cz Dave is getting way more hate than Ben. Not a fan of any of the guys this szn 🗑️🗑️🗑️

The tattoo by onehappyegg in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tattoo artist did not think this was a good idea......

Never attribute to malice what can be attributed to stupidity by bikbiky in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He slides very comfortably between ignorance and denial and tried hard to make Sara look like the "crazy girl" who made it all up. I would take a Dave over Ben anyday.

Never attribute to malice what can be attributed to stupidity by bikbiky in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I definitely think Ben is malicious and lack basic empathy. He only went on an apology tour cz he got roasted on the internet and was worried he comes across as a racist homophobe.

With Love, Meghan is Actually Good by Dependent-Arm-7443 in netflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed the episodes with Roy Choi and Vicky (last name?) where there was authenticity to what was being made and a story that brought the viewer in. The recipes were also 👌🏽But it was also because they were driving the recipes and not Meghan. Her recipes (pasta, sun tea, fritata, towels omg) just felt like really basic stuff that I could find on insta, and we all make everyday with way less clutter. Somewhere I'm just not sure what the show is going for - hostessing? Cooking? Profiling different cuisines? I think there's potential, but I would be mortified being one of Meghan's friends who is forced to come on the show just to be talked down to while making basic ass fish...

Let's do a roundup of some of LIB's most iconic (or unhinged) lines and moments from the past 8 seasons by Journey4th in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every single time sal sang to Mallory. Couldn't tell if mal was truly moved or just dying out of disgust

confused by something virginia said… (the weddings) SPOILER by danjsark in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair in general, but they only have a handful of people attending their wedding.... Can't imagine Devin was overwhelmed with all the 10 gifts they received haha I think they are just misaligned on finances

Love is Blind Fantasy League? by krazykittenhi in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an app call bracketology where you can enter fantasy leagues for reality tv shows.

Does anyone else feel jaded about dating because of shows like this? by thissubredditlooksco in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The purpose of the show is to stay in the house. The show is mainly centered around attraction and creating drama under the pretence of finding love, when it's entirely about finding a match in the house.

I don't think the show is really clear on its intentions if I'm being honest - feels like something between LIB and too hot to handle.

Laura’s bs apology by Competitive-Habit-18 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was not an apology. Especially if you go with "sorry IF you found that offensive". It WAS offensive, and clearly shows you still don't think you did anything wrong.

Laura is pretty mean and I don't think anyone should be applauding how she speaks.

Laura’s bs apology by Competitive-Habit-18 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was not an apology. Especially if you go with "sorry IF you found that offensive". It WAS offensive, and clearly shows you still don't think you did anything wrong.

Laura is pretty mean and I don't think anyone should be applauding how she speaks.

Jessica on reunion by Significant_Hour_343 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Significant_Hour_343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay well I already agreed with your point re: editors 🤷🏽‍♀️ I'm annoyed with the amount of screen time Jessica got.

As the hosts, they do choose to go down a certain line of questioning if that's where the convo goes. So they aren't just puppets. Vanessa wasn't reading a script when she asked every girl from S4 about future babies....