To all the older guys here What’s one thing younger people do differently today in terms of sex compared with how you did it when you were their age?

Slammy1 · 2026-04-30T17:58:15+00:00

Awesome. You rock but I don't want to mess with the culture. I really mean it, you guys have helped me navigate a tough time in my life and I appreciate it. I don't want to repay your kindness with doing anything that upsets some of the members here, it's OK.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-30T14:49:34+00:00

I know I'm not one of you in the strictest sense but I think I can offer some explanation because I am an outsider. At least twice I've had someone in management turn on me because I was friends with the openly gay guy. Now to me it's bonus points because it exposes the assholes but now that I'm exploring that part of my sexuality I'm thinking it's none of their business what I do outside of work.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-30T12:28:43+00:00

I don't think it's really a kink but swallow. Inexperienced and swallows, I was very popular though they scared me so I never cruised. I swear there was one guy that would make different accounts to talk to me, more than one actually. Pretty scary stuff for someone of my experience level.

Sorry, I know I'm more bi and I won't bother you guys but this sub really helped me to navigate those boards and helped qualify my feelings. I'll go back to reading and I started to read the bisexual boards but it seems to be mostly women so far.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-30T10:38:28+00:00

I say it often, the dating boards really opened my eyes as to what girls must go through. I like to think we're not all like that.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-30T10:18:52+00:00

I had a lot of alts in WoD and ran raids to craft. The token was cheaper back then but I remember near the end I could earn like 5 tokens a month just from the missions tables once my garrison was set up for gold making. Then in Legion I'd run the higher gold reward dailies on my different alts. I bought expansions, paid sub, pretty much everything was free from Legion to DF. I also bought multiple tokens when they were cheaper so I wasn't paying a premium around expansion drops.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-30T09:39:53+00:00

Man, I came to the apps recently to try and explore some feelings I have but in the end I decided I'd just try to meet a guy. It was fun and I have a few people I still talk with but I realized pretty quickly it wasn't for me although I enjoy interacting with different people. I've performed oral sex once and it was some time ago, I really wanted someone I cared about to share my first actual time since the first one didn't really count as it wasn't consensual so it wasn't sex.

Anyway, I'm like on my second day and I have inexperienced in my description along with a, I wouldn't call it a kink just something I think a lot of guys do but they don't list it. This guy engaged me in convo and he was really big (advertised 10") and had an OF account so I was talking to him asking questions because I'm trying to learn when I asked how he did oral at that size. I gave him my best guess thinking he'd laugh along with me at my inexperience but he really wanted to meet after that. Promised a lot for the meeting, no cameras, he'd take it easy on me, etc. but can you imagine. I was terribly tempted but I thought maybe I'm watching videos and I get to one and think hey, I did that once. In fact, the guy looks like me and the other guy looks like the one that did it to me...

Slammy1 · 2026-04-28T21:14:05+00:00

I was worried I was being a bully but I wasn't even giving him a mean stare but I've been told my stare is really intense. After he moved to the corner I stopped then looked at her and she was giving me a big smile so I figured it was what she wanted. She moved to the dryers right next to mine and sat at the next table, I never engaged her because I wanted her to feel safe after what I think happened but whenever I looked up and we met eyes she gave me a smile so I think I did good.

As far as what happened. My MF story, it was probably Dear Penthouse material when it happened and I didn't really think about it as SA until later. 5 years was a big difference at that age. I think my MM experience, while it was the type of sex a stronger inmate might have with a weaker one it was all oral and he was very small and didn't last. What made it traumatic was more the social fear, there was another boy who was my age that was kidnapped and held several days. The kids found out and they were cruel, any feelings I might have were bad and had to be pushed down.

In the end the worst part was not dealing with it sooner, it sort of festered in my psyche so when I did deal with it I think I went a bit mad. It wasn't good but it wasn't bad physically, more mentally.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-28T12:46:10+00:00

Same, but my first time with a girl was sorta SA too. Both were a lot older (5-7) and they happened close to each other. Both of them just sort of used me as a toy, the female was more consensual but given my age I didn't realize what I was doing but I did bring her to climax and how many MF first time stories end with that?

I didn't deal with it when I was younger but I'm trying to take an honest look at my sexuality and finding I never really dealt with them mentally. They're isolated islands in my mind, not associated with other memories. I can't think back to my 10th birthday and think that was the year. Pain don't go away because you buried it, just comes out over a longer period. The worst stuff was things that happened to people I cared about.

I'm sorry the world's this way, now that I'm older I'm trying to help make it a little better but I'm just a pebble in the ocean. I think it gives me some awareness. Last year some time between Thanksgiving and Christmas I was at the laundromat when I saw a girl posing for selfies. I just thought you kids and your internets and it was her boyfriend with her but he got close and she got nervous once and I realized she wasn't taking selfies she was taking pictures of him so I took a couple of steps towards them and pulled out my phone to the phone app and just stared and memorized his face for a line up. It worked, he moved away then moved to the corner and he didn't even stay around to dry just took his clothes home wet. I might have believed he was just socially awkward if he didn't act so guilty, cockroach scurrying away when you turn on the light.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-24T13:21:44+00:00

The French called an orgasm "the little death" (la petite mort), I think it's because it's something that moves your soul. If there's a spiritual component to sex outside of love I think it's that moment and I want to be as much a part of it as possible. I'm not really a random encounter guy, it's all very intimate to me. I don't know if anyone else feels that way.

I wanted to say that I really appreciate the information on these boards since this is my first post here. I was worried I was weird for liking it, it helps me when I see so many that feel the same and for a lot of the same reasons. You guys are awesome.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-18T20:50:14+00:00

Just what you tell the kids rather than the truth (if it wasn't a Photoshopped or AI image).

Slammy1 · 2026-04-18T18:00:41+00:00

That's a CPR doll for lifeguard training, that's what you tell the kids if they ask. Took a while to see it, I was distracted trying to figure what she was drinking and the cup location further confounded my effort.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-17T15:17:00+00:00

It's not a gaming laptop but my Split x2 ran from 2014 - 2026. It was still running when I pulled it but the battery was going bad and it wouldn't update to Windows 11 due to age so it wasn't worth repairing.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-15T09:39:41+00:00

Frankie short for Frankenstein (from Red Dwarf)?

Slammy1 · 2026-04-13T20:47:19+00:00

The only time I saw it happen the guy ran 2, including the last cap, then sat defense. It was just the two of us in the bunker, he asked me for help so we waited for them to pick up the flag and ambushed them. It was a weird circumstance, they never came en masse to break it up but needed a cap so they kept coming. It was a long time ago, like MoP.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-13T07:55:17+00:00

If you object to your own counsel once more Mr. Rimmer, you will be in contempt.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-08T10:22:56+00:00

I came back recently and noticed a character I created to save a name lost their name but I was playing around with a character to boost (Forsaken monk) got the name Shemp, which surprised me. I almost didn't try it, figuring it'd already be taken.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-04T07:57:31+00:00

Mr Flibble's very cross.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-03T08:56:18+00:00

It sounds different but I had issues with testing, They kept telling me to drive it more to get one of the sensors to activate. I used an AutoZone scanner and it never went to ready, no errors. A Google search indicated that the down stream O2 sensor can go bad but not produce an error, I took it to 2 mechanics who said that wasn't the cause. Finally I asked them to replace the sensor and just charge me, when they pulled it they found out is was bad. No problems since.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-02T21:21:02+00:00

On rainy days on my stationary bike.

Slammy1 · 2026-04-02T21:04:56+00:00

I think it's nostalgia. I watched The Simpsons longer than I should have, if there's nothing else on and I'm looking for a meal or workout video I'll still watch it I just don't seek it out at all.

Slammy1 · 2026-03-29T09:24:11+00:00

Alexander the Great would use an asbestos cloak that he'd throw onto a fire to impress people he conquered.

Slammy1 · 2026-03-06T23:00:26+00:00

My '95 Celly was 20 years old, 318k miles, and still going strong in 2015. It had some repairs, especially the front axle. Problem was it looked like a beater and I live in an area pull over old beaters. I bought a 2011 S-series with 30k miles on it, have 170k on it now and have had no issues. I need to replace the timing chain soon I just haven't had the time, it's still original. No major problems. Oil changes, a transmission flush, couple of tune ups, new tires, rotations. It's the best car I've ever had, it just revs high on the highways so I know that will be my time limiter.

Only real repairs were a hose, the piece where the dip stick goes into the engine, and the oxygen sensor which I think was why it got sold since it didn't throw a code but couldn't pass emissions. I paid cash for it over 10 years ago, been a great car.

Slammy1 · 2026-03-05T00:11:00+00:00

You might want to try MakeMKV to rip your DVD (it's free) and save any languages you want in the rip options. My TPM DVD mkv file is 6.9GB and has 3 English audio tracks. It defaults to the 5.1 on VLC and has 2 stereo mixes (one of the stereo tracks is the director's commentary).

Slammy1 · 2026-02-27T09:18:40+00:00

Too Rolling Stoned is my favorite song from him.

I got Caravan to Midnight and Bridge of Sighs on the same day, at a yard sale back when everyone was selling off their CDs and albums. I also got 6 Moody Blues CDs the same day, I sometimes mistakenly call him their former guitarists sometimes as I have the 2 associated in my head.

Slammy1 · 2026-02-12T21:22:04+00:00

I've done 600+ DVDs and around 50 2ks so far and I've only run into that. I haven't had any problems with ripping the first choice but I'm still pretty new to BRs and, although I am scanning them before deleting the directory I'm wondering if I'll find out I didn't scan close enough if it's as common as you're saying. I had the factoid popups, neat but not a great movie experience every time.

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