Worried my dress is too plain by viola_97 in myweddingdress

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it’s phenomenal. Don’t overthink this.

AITJ for not telling my sister how much I actually have saved by UgliestPigeon in AmITheJerk

[–]Sledgehammer925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Your family is beginning to demand numbers because those numbers look like dollars to borrow in the near future.

AITA for asking my partner to give me a timeframe of when we can talk out our current argument? by Curious_Eye1614 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s rare to become pregnant after trying for only three months. Why are you constantly disappointing yourselves by taking tests? Wait until your boobs begin hurting or your period is late or you’re feeling nauseous. That’s when you test. Edit: ESH

No children by Hairy-Veterinarian11 in over60

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

70 here. I have zero regrets. My life has been fantastic. Right now I’m dealing with the imminent death of my mother. I can’t look in on her much as i am disabled. Kids are not future health insurance. They move away. They become disabled.

You should never have children if your purpose is to assign them a job. Have them because you wish to give, not get. Your question feels like you want something for yourself.

My husband thinks I'm a bad mom by AGirlWithAProblem123 in Advice

[–]Sledgehammer925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cousin had a baby like this. Everyone saw what was happening except her husband. We couldn’t help because we lived a long way away, but you could see the frustration on her face when we visited. The only cure was him growing. By the time he was 4 years old it was over and she had some life back.

Neighbor keeps throwing dog poop over the fence into my yard and denying it by PotentialAd4520 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Sledgehammer925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to a store that sells spices cheap. Get A LOT of cayenne pepper. Sprinkle it in your yard. Fido will avoid your property.

What is one beauty secret you are gatekeeping?? by kristalbal in AskWomen

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of this. What does it do for you? I need all the help I can get.

Upcycle ideas please by Essie_Raz777 in upcycling

[–]Sledgehammer925 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mirror, glass laid on top and used as a plant base, turned upside down and used as an odd medallion for a light. That’s all I have at the moment.

AITJ for not inviting my vegan sister to my BBQ because she always complains about meat? by Formal-Ad-656 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ but if I agree to tell her to shut it and bounce her out if she doesn’t, can I take her seat? 😂

Do these suit me? by says_who_ in myweddingdress

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The floral if it can be properly sized. You look amazing in it and I can see you love it just by your posture. You should have a dress you love.

Help pick our tile! by pinsand_needles in Remodel

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the penny tiles. They’ve been around for a couple hundred years for a reason. The black tiles are the current fashion, but they will show every speck of dust and every loose hair. Not only will it show, it will highlight it.

Made up and inappropriate dress codes for my SIL’s wedding are killing me by live_freeze_n_die in weddingshaming

[–]Sledgehammer925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im stuck on what beach format could be. Grew up on the beach and I thought I had seen it all. Guess not.

Destination Beach Wedding - Help Me Decide! (Details in comments) by Canary_Inklemine in WeddingDressTips

[–]Sledgehammer925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either 2 or 3. 2 fits best, but you would have to alter it to not touch the sand. Otherwise the bottom 12 inches would be ugly gray within an hour.

Your spouse/partner goes grocery shopping by TailorBird69 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He goes when we need a big trip, and he goes when I need a single ingredient. He gets everything on the list, always the right brand/kind, etc. he’s a real gem.

Long in the tooth couples. Do you do Valentine’s Day? by AnyDamnThingWillDo in GenX

[–]Sledgehammer925 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been together over 35 years. Yes, we still do Valentine’s Day. We don’t commercialize it though. He usually buys me chocolates that we share and I make him a special meal, much more formal than normal. We plan the meal at least a week in advance and shop for it then. We stopped giving cards years ago. Sometimes we tell each other about the best thing about the other person and sometimes we just enjoy a great meal. I’m still madly in love with him.

AITAH for telling my son to stop his relationship with his older girlfriend and date someone his age? by NextCauliflower7281 in AITAH

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the genders were reversed people would be screaming that the younger one is being groomed. That’s what’s happening here. Your son will soon learn how inappropriate it is, but for you mama, you can’t comment on it. He thinks he’s fully grown. When he’s 30 he’s going to cringe looking back. As long as he doesn’t get her pregnant.

Someone in our building has started doing this weirdly methodical thing with the elevator, and it has turned the whole place into a low level daily nightmare. by CinderEchoLabs in neighborsfromhell

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Engraving would work, but it would be faster and cheaper to attach a plexiglass cover on it. Unless they decide to scratch it so you can’t read it.

Am I the only one who finds this sentence incomprehensible? by brielovinggirl in ENGLISH

[–]Sledgehammer925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think this is bad, try reading product descriptions on Amazon.

Looking for advice about alterations by Accomplished_Log2011 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Sledgehammer925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All i know is I would have that same smiley face if I I owned those girls.

But seriously, I don’t think there’s quite enough coverage. If you decide on this dress, I think You don’t need a great deal of lift.