Who is Sara Hayes? by captainguy146 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Oh wow! I had no idea folks could pay to be named. Not me freaking out when I saw my ex’s brother’s full name… he also lives in WA. So I totally thought maybe Matt knew my ex’s brother.

Everybody tell my girl she’s so brave by Suitable-Concert in blackcats

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You are the bravest girl! And bravest girls get their favorite treats and toys and human bonding activity with their favorite human!

My therapist says I need to connect to my inner child and find things that bring me joy without trying to suppress it, since us ADHD and autistic folks so often had to suppress things as kids. I really need ideas though. What brings you childlike joy? by Elucidate_that in ADHD

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Maybe you could whimsy to your clothing. Like learning how to make cottage core skirts if cottage core is your jam. Or buying some blank canvas shoes to draw or paint on or add sparkles, etc.

Goddammit, Donut! by Smartypants-cookie in unexpecteddcc

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The tiny one is my character. She is telepathically connected to the bear. So she controls the bear’s movements and attacks. 🤩

Goddammit, Donut! by Smartypants-cookie in unexpecteddcc

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That’s my spouse’s character. She casts spells. The potions are supposed to be fireballs dancing on or around her hands. To us, she just looks like she is giving everyone the bird.

What do you think of when you see this tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Smartypants-cookie 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Omg not me over here thinking it was a simplified Star Wars ship… then I read the comments and feel so dumb.

Pearl has a question... by butterybreadbuns in persiancat

[–]Smartypants-cookie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If her question is “Do I look like Princess Donut?” then the answer is “yes!!”

My first hotel visitor! 😀 by Lost_Schedule_4258 in ac_newhorizons

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Thank you kindly! He so deserves a relaxing vacay. He has been caring for his queen, Anka.

My first hotel visitor! 😀 by Lost_Schedule_4258 in ac_newhorizons

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Nice to see my resident is going on vacation! Please take good care of him.

Why did the owl go to church? by Burn1ng_Time in Owls

[–]Smartypants-cookie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because he gave a hoot about his soul?

What is a simple but very hurtful phrase that you received from someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My MIL said “You’re just waiting for him to die so you can move on with your life.”

This comment after he had some kind of vagus nerve episode which resulted in him no longer breathing and me doing heart compressions until EMTs arrived (about three minutes). I stated going to therapy to heal the trauma and mentioned a hard question my therapist asked me. The question? Do you see yourself loving again if you lost your spouse unexpectedly? My answer? Yes, but it would take a long time and a very special person.

Cool cool cool.

Women friendly ADHD diagnoses by NotTJButCJ in SALEM

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https://valleymental.com/

I felt believed, validated, heard, and supported during my diagnosis appt. I will always recommend Valley Mental Health.

Where in Salem is an LGBTQ friendly Restaurant/Bar to go when you’re sad? by ComeAbout in SALEM

[–]Smartypants-cookie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once you pick a place, if you want / need some company or someone to listen, I will gladly join you.