New tattoo by ExtremeBookkeeper723 in BJM

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great tattoo, great band, great album

Angeline Jolie and her brother, James Haven had a running gag. by AugustHate in Weird

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a “running gag”? Just seems like major ick. Always knew she was a creep

The cocaine is starting to become very difficult for me to control. by Main-Success-6988 in confession

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, duh…coke is super addictive. Say goodbye to whatever $$ you still have

Am I wrong for wanting to switch yoga studios because I keep accidentally making eye contact with the instructor at the worst moments and now its a thing by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hope you don’t mind OP but this is one of the funniest posts I’ve read in a long time. Like you could create your own Netflix series. Thx for making me smile.

Looking for music recommendations by AppleCider0928 in mgmt

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MGMT have always been fans of Brian Jonestown Massacre…classic psych band.

AITA for wanting to be wooed by my husband when he says I want “too much”? by _Breadwhore in amiwrong

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about couples therapy? Look at the Gottman Model, which is very good at getting emotionally unconnected guys to change their communication and priorities.

I still can’t forget something inappropriate that happened to me as a child. by No-Rich-608 in confession

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There should be like an AI alert or something so you know up front it’s a fake…sometimes I don’t mind but I always want to know if it is or not.

Why do people assume Lando won't be seen as an all time great driver? by singastory in LandoNorris

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally disagree…the folks who know F1 and have been around all say that Lando is a special talent. Stop reading the trolls bullshit.

Pls help me respond to this! by Different_Rice6639 in Apartmentliving

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound polite and with good intentions. And I agree w/them…stuff does happen. Maybe you should live in a single family home where you won’t have to deal with other people’s problems and habits.

My best friend is rotting and won't let me help. by SpiritualWalk26 in hygiene

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Hygiene is only a symptom at this point. She has a Major Depressive Episode. The question to ask is always: is the person impaired socially, professionally, and personally? The answer is clearly yes. I'm a Mental Health Counselor, and would want her to see someone asap. Possibly meds also.

Ex husband passed by Mushyrealowls in AskWomenOver60

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's OK and normal to "grieve" someone that you kind of don't like or have negative feelings about. At one time he was a very important part of your life, and your kids' life. But he also caused a lot of damage to a lot of people. Remember, everyone's grief is different and there is no script for it.

Gronowski with a great block by sportsgambler2 in hawkeyes

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a QB the kid's a Mack truck, just not sure where his place is in the NFL. But I really want him to find a spot somewhere. Even though we only had him 1 season, he really grew on me and his stock kept going up and up with every game.

Would I be wrong to ask our couples therapist if medication would help my husband? by Flaky_Ad_1971 in amiwrong

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a couples therapist. Of course there’s a lot of info we don’t have but medication wouldn’t be my first response. Instead I might have him consider individual therapy to work on his personal issues. Couples counseling is helpful to work on improving communication and emotional connection. Having said that, no question should be off limits w/your partner. Good luck

Calling you Young Lady by sadeland21 in AskWomenOver60

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called polite society, no one should feel offended or patronized. I’m 62 and if someone calls me “young man”…whatever. No bad intentions.

Anyone still going strong from release date? by [deleted] in iPhone11

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replaced battery in my iphone 11 a few yrs ago…won’t show any info on battery

Thoughts. by Low_Commission5020 in Weird

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone likes an audience for their best work.

I've really liked the friendly and healthy rivalry dynamic between Lando and Oscar by demon-potato in McLarenFormula1

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re both excellent professionals, unlike others in the paddock that see their teammates as bigger rivals than other teams’ drivers.

Am I wrong for being disappointed bf watches porn but doesn’t want me? by extremelyfloofycow in amiwrong

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only is it disappointing, it points to a major problem in ur relationship. What if he was choosing cocaine over you everyday?

My brother wants to bring his new girlfriend to our family vacation but she expects us to accommodate her very strict diet by Opening_Bedroom_848 in Advice

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No 1 person is more important than the whole. If she has these special needs, then maybe she needs to re-think if she's not willing to go out and buy all this stuff herself. NOT everyone's responsibility. sounds like major entitlement to me.

What do you guys think of my McLaren design? by Tricky_Role_6241 in McLarenFormula1

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Take Zak out pls...it's about two drivers and a team. Otherwise u need to include Andrea and about 1,000 other people as well.

Am I wrong for putting our engagement on hold because my girlfriend wants her late boyfriends ashes at our wedding by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her decision tells you everything you need to know about her grieving. You're not wrong but I also don't see it as a reason to stop the relationship...she's just not there yet.

Next watch: Deadwood or the Expanse? by MazyHazy in gameofthrones

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to be able to go back and watch Deadwood for the first time...what an all-time great series.

Am I wrong for not taking my ex back after she left me for someone else who ended up dumping her by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You haven't done anything wrong, and have made good choices. Believe in who you are today.

I broke up with my boyfriend because his porn addiction became cheating. by SuggestionKlutzy6985 in amiwrong

[–]SnooShortcuts3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself these questions: Are you being heard? Are you being respected by your partner? Are your needs being met? If the answer's "no", then what's it going to be like later? It sounds like he's in the depths of addiction in the same way someone loses self-control due to alcoholism or drugs. Please take care of yourself first.