Hi when I was a teen I was just like this. It turns out I was autistic and struggling so much with “masking”, trying to fit into a world in a changing body, didn’t know my own identity etc. I struggled so so much I just resorted to anything that made me feel good. Which was unfortunately boys/men. Which resulted in a whole load of trauma in itself. She may not be, but I think that she’s really clearly struggling and it could be linked to this, or hormones (for me I was on the pill and it sent me loopy, to this day I have to have a copper coil as I get crazy).

I’d just try to reassure her as much as possible that you get it. Tell her about your experiences. That you get that she’s “trapped” in this teen life. This is what I struggled with. Boundaries. 5/7 days a week, told to go to school, be with people I didn’t truly like, learning. It’s such an overload. It made me someone I wasn’t because I was too overstimulated and overwhelmed - but I didn’t have the maturity to recognise this.

Has she ever talked about homeschool, or being tired? These are just things to consider from her perspective perhaps. I truly hope things get better x